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Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

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BunnyBaby
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Audrina

Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

From my aunt:
"Oh Audrina...NOW you will face reality!!"

From my obnoxious co-worker:
"HA! Life is officially over!"

From one of my DH's friends:
"Dont ask ME to babysit.. I'm no good with kids"

Have these people ever heard of the word "Congratulations"?

Posted 1/17/08 12:44 PM
 
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Maybeababyin08
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Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

People had a baby pool going before we even got married, so when we told people we got a lot of " I knew it! I knew something was up with you two!"
and a few " finally"


eta-haha I cant believe I forgot this!! I am 22, and when I told someone they asked me if I was going to keep the baby


Message edited 1/17/2008 1:06:04 PM.

Posted 1/17/08 12:47 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Jesss, duh.

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

One person said *gasp* "was this planned?!??!"

Yeah - it was, but even if it wasn't it's not like I'm 16 knocked up with my white trash boyfriend. I'm a married woman. Sheesh. Chat Icon

Message edited 1/17/2008 1:02:40 PM.

Posted 1/17/08 1:02 PM
 

BunnyBaby
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Audrina

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Posted by sunflowerjesss

One person said *gasp* "was this planned?!??!"

Yeah - it was, but even if it wasn't it's not like I'm 16 knocked up with my white trash boyfriend. I'm a married woman. Sheesh. Chat Icon



Are you kidding? Chat Icon

And what if it wasn't? Would that make a difference? SheeshChat Icon

Posted 1/17/08 1:04 PM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

we've only told family so far and they've been nothing but excited.

i can't wait to tell DH's friends - one couple has a kid already and he was giving us advice before we got PG, i can only imagine what's going to happen now Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/08 1:08 PM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Posted by Maybeababyin08

eta-haha I cant believe I forgot this!! I am 22, and when I told someone they asked me if I was going to keep the baby





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people really sometimes do not know how to censor themselves!!!

Posted 1/17/08 1:09 PM
 

mooshyboo
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Christine

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?


"wow so soon was it planned?"

"ohhhh is this a honeymoon baby?"

Posted 1/17/08 1:09 PM
 

nov06
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Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Before he even said congrats my boss says "are you still going to work after?" and then says "you know kids are going to ruin your life, right?"

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Posted 1/17/08 1:35 PM
 

GaknTak
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Tracy

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Omg, Already? Someone said to me

People are so rude sometimes.

Posted 1/17/08 1:37 PM
 

nervouswreck
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Member since 1/08

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RF

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

When I went to the doctor for the first time, the nurse who was taking my blood asked me when i told her i believed i was preg:

"Have you decided what you're going to do about it yet."

Posted 1/17/08 2:14 PM
 

NewlyMrs
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Member since 10/06

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Jennifer

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

NO one knew we were trying.

So we got a bunch of "it must have been an oops" comments

Posted 1/17/08 2:17 PM
 

babenewbie
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Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

My favorite reaction to date was from my DH boss:

"It's about time you finally consummate the marriage..."


(note - we've been together ten years and chose to wait to have kids)

Posted 1/17/08 2:40 PM
 

dapnkap
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Karen

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Not really, we did get a lot of:

"It's About Time"
"Your life will never be the same again"

Posted 1/17/08 2:43 PM
 

JandJ1224

Member since 6/06

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Jannette

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

My Grandma said "Is it definitely John's(DH)??"
I was like what? Chat Icon
OF COURSE!

Posted 1/17/08 3:09 PM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Posted by nervouswreck

When I went to the doctor for the first time, the nurse who was taking my blood asked me when i told her i believed i was preg:

"Have you decided what you're going to do about it yet."


WHAT????

um, unless you're 14, that is TOTALLY unacceptable - especially coming from a nurse!!!

Posted 1/17/08 3:13 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

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LB

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Posted by JandJ1224

My Grandma said "Is it definitely John's(DH)??"
I was like what? Chat Icon
OF COURSE!

oh man i hope she was kidding!

Posted 1/17/08 3:14 PM
 

jambalady
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Holly

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by nervouswreck

When I went to the doctor for the first time, the nurse who was taking my blood asked me when i told her i believed i was preg:

"Have you decided what you're going to do about it yet."


WHAT????

um, unless you're 14, that is TOTALLY unacceptable - especially coming from a nurse!!!



ITA and I would give the doctor a piece of my mind about the nurse's comment. Completely unacceptable!

Posted 1/17/08 3:22 PM
 

08BabySurprise
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Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

"Wow, so did you 'pull the goaltender on purpose' or did Chris get one by the goalie?" Chat Icon

I thought I was gonna kick him!!!!

Posted 1/17/08 3:25 PM
 

jambalady
Is it summer yet?

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Holly

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

I had one coworker say "well, I guess it's a good thing you like kids"

another asked about our maternity leave policy and when I told him we get 3 months paid, he said "so I'm paying for you to not work for 3 months? I assume your year end bonus will be adjusted accordingly. I said, "uh, no, actually, you can't be penalized for taking maternity leave, and he said "no offense, but that just seems really unfair to me".

I was shocked!

Posted 1/17/08 3:25 PM
 

Preguntas
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Lauren

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Posted by JandJ1224

My Grandma said "Is it definitely John's(DH)??"
I was like what? Chat Icon
OF COURSE!



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OMG that's the worst one.

There was actually a smaller amount of cynicism than when I got engaged. A few people have said how my life is going to "change". Er, duh- really?
My MIL says things like- "Wait til you see- " Chat Icon

When I first told a friend of mine, she said "Are you guys happy?" That one pisssed me off.

Posted 1/17/08 3:28 PM
 

Superkat
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K

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

We told one of our friends that I was pregnant when I was about 6 weeks. She said "How far along are you?" I said "Six week" She said "That's all?" after glancing at my stomach. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/08 4:07 PM
 

Rycois
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Member since 12/05

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J

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

A friend asked me if my pregnancy was planned too.
A) Not your freaking business - if it wasn't I'm not sure I would run around saying so
B) Why does that matter?
C) I'm 30-yrs old, you know I've always wanted children, I own a house, am financially stable and have been married for almost 2 yrs (at the time) - WHAT DO YOU THINK?!

Message edited 1/17/2008 4:19:39 PM.

Posted 1/17/08 4:09 PM
 

CherylWoops
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Cheryl

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Posted by Maybeababyin08

eta-haha I cant believe I forgot this!! I am 22, and when I told someone they asked me if I was going to keep the baby



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I got a few "your life will never be the same again" comments from people and similar stuff like "I know you like going out, but don't expect to continue that after the baby is born."

The best one was a girl I used to work with and still associate with. I said "we're having a baby!" and of course I was happy about it. She said in sort of a panicky way "OMG, what are you going to do? Are you really ready for that? How will you pay for it? Who will watch it. Geez, good luck. What did Cliff say? Is he worried?" Idiot.

Posted 1/17/08 4:14 PM
 

mtnmama

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Message edited 9/21/2009 2:09:18 PM.

Posted 1/17/08 4:17 PM
 

Chica
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Erica

Re: Any shocking reactions from people about your pregnancy?

Posted by Superkat

We told one of our friends that I was pregnant when I was about 6 weeks. She said "How far along are you?" I said "Six week" She said "That's all?" after glancing at my stomach. Chat Icon Chat Icon



I would've gone for the jugular. Chat Icon

SOme of the other ones are too funny.

We got a few, "Wow, you guys didn't waste any time!"

Um, hello, we were married for over a year before I got pregant.

Posted 1/17/08 5:06 PM
 
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