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Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

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CowgirlChick97
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Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Message edited 3/9/2007 10:33:29 PM.

Posted 12/4/06 8:20 AM
 
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Lisa
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

yes...my MIL never bought us gifts...so we stopped buying her gifts....then one year she decides to buy gifts for us...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ohh well...she got nothing that year!! Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/06 8:22 AM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Message edited 3/9/2007 10:33:47 PM.

Posted 12/4/06 8:26 AM
 

MABLE03
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

No.. their grandchild is the one person they go crazy buying for. They just give everyone else cash Chat Icon

Message edited 3/14/2007 9:56:16 PM.

Posted 12/4/06 8:27 AM
 

Lisa
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

I do find it odd that they do not buy for the grandchildren!!

Posted 12/4/06 8:29 AM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Message edited 3/9/2007 10:33:59 PM.

Posted 12/4/06 8:34 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

That is pretty odd. Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/06 8:38 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Posted by Syliblond81106

My In Laws never buy anyone anything.....and i dont mean for me.

i mean even for their own grandchildren.....

is this weird? does anyone else family not buy gifts? even for the kids!!!



Funny you say that-
My inlaws do not "believe" in buying gifts. They just throw money in an envelope and say.. "Merry Christmas" Poor Anthony never got gifts as a kid... so friggen sadChat Icon

I just feel that its just pure lazyness.

Posted 12/4/06 8:55 AM
 

GoingNutty
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

My inlaws buy for the grandkids. The whole family does a secret Santa which they are included in so they don't buy gifts for their own kids (unless they pick their name!). I don't think they should be involved in it- I think they should be buying for their kids and the kids should be buying for them. Chat Icon My personal opinion.

Posted 12/4/06 9:18 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?


That is horrible. They should at least by for their grandchildren. But everyone is different.

Posted 12/4/06 9:19 AM
 

dandj
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

with my MIL...you never know...some years we get gifts, others we dont. Sometimes you get a bday card, sometimes you don't.

It's very weird for me because in my family you always get something and it is strictly enforced....

Posted 12/4/06 9:59 AM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

That's weird. Did they buy gifts for DH and his sisters growing up?

I've never heard of this, seriously. My MIL spoils her grandchildren, and her children, actually.

Posted 12/4/06 10:00 AM
 

DaniJude
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Posted by Syliblond81106

Posted by Lisa

I do find it odd that they do not buy for the grandchildren!!


It is weird......


I mean, I know they were in a money slump for a while...but DHs bday was in October n she just gave him a card...Chat Icon



Definitely odd... I know a ton of people who are on tight budgets and everything else- but they give their own son, even if it's something small, but they give him SOMETHING for his birthday-- and they, at least, buy gifts for the grandkids... I mean, times are tuff but you gotta do what you gotta do! How do they not feel weird when everyone else is giving and receiving? Has your DH ever asked them what's the deal with that?

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Posted 12/4/06 10:10 AM
 

Jennifer
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

My father in law gave us money the first year we were engaged but then he fell on hard times and doesn't get us anything.

Posted 12/4/06 10:17 AM
 

Maathy317
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

As a grandparent, I find it odd not to buy something for your grandchildren, even if it is only one small thing. They may be experiencing money difficulties that no one is aware of and may just have enough to get by.

Posted 12/4/06 10:29 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

that's beyond odd, IMO. I have yet to meet a grandparent who doesn't love spoiling their grandkids.

Posted 12/4/06 10:30 AM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Message edited 3/9/2007 10:34:18 PM.

Posted 12/4/06 10:31 AM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Posted by JenniferEver

That's weird. Did they buy gifts for DH and his sisters growing up?

I've never heard of this, seriously. My MIL spoils her grandchildren, and her children, actually.



they got a few toys, but nothing major.....

thats why i like to buy him a lot of gifts Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/06 10:32 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

My family exchanges gifts-- but DH's does not- at least not in a traditional way. I know that MIL is getting me something-- I am not sure if she is getting DH something, but they prefer that I do not get them a gift-- but I don't like not getting somethign for someone who gets me something. No grandchildren yet-- but I would suspect they would still get gifts for them.

Posted 12/4/06 10:41 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

My MIL aka Crazy Lady from the Bronx, gets everyone $20 worth of lotto tickets in hopes one of us will strike it rich and take care of her. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I am soooo not kidding, that is why its funny.

Posted 12/4/06 11:06 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Posted by EmilyAKAMrsK

My MIL aka Crazy Lady from the Bronx, gets everyone $20 worth of lotto tickets in hopes one of us will strike it rich and take care of her. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I am soooo not kidding, that is why its funny.




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Posted 12/4/06 11:23 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Posted by baghag

That is pretty odd. Chat Icon





I agree! Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/06 11:26 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Posted by johnsae

Posted by EmilyAKAMrsK

My MIL aka Crazy Lady from the Bronx, gets everyone $20 worth of lotto tickets in hopes one of us will strike it rich and take care of her. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I am soooo not kidding, that is why its funny.




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Posted 12/4/06 11:37 AM
 

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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

Yeah that is weird....grandparents usually spoil the heck out of kids...I can't imagine how those kids feelChat Icon

Posted 12/4/06 11:44 AM
 

mtdr1106
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Re: Anyone elses In Laws not buy anything for christmas?

why do you think these people would do something normal????

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it has been a frekashow for 10 yrs now - why would you expect anything different??

Posted 12/4/06 11:47 AM
 
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