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meniasta
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by cpanyc

My dad died very suddenly at a young age (50). Sometimes I worry about that happening again with someone close. I try not to let those thoughts last for more than a few hours or minutes. I try not to worry about it too much because it is out of my control. I dread the day when I have to go through that pain again.

As far as me dying-I have no fear of that. When it is my time, it is my time.




same here...my Father died suddenly at age 49. since then I have this anxiety that I will die suddenly but if I am scared...i don't know.

Posted 7/17/07 6:10 PM
 
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Reese1106
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Yes.

Posted 7/17/07 6:10 PM
 

MrsMaz
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Re: Are you scared of death?

not necessarily scared of death itself more so how it will come and what will happen to my children

Posted 7/17/07 6:14 PM
 

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Re: Are you scared of death?

Myself no. My Mom died 6 years ago and just 2 weeks ago my Brother died very suddenly. Knowing that I can be with them again someday doesn't really seem to make death all that frightening anymore.

Posted 7/17/07 6:15 PM
 

DebG
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Re: Are you scared of death?

I'm peterified. I always imagined me old and grey sitting on a rocking chair drinking sweet tea, smelling my gardenia's with my hubby (as we put our dentures in Chat Icon ) Son comes in with his fiancee and we have a nice afternoon sitting outside by the pool. Now I know that the chances of me having a day like that are slim to none. I'm afraid of when it actually happens, how old will DS be, what impact will this have on his life. At what point will he be calling someone else mommy? Will he love her more than me because I'm just a picture and he was too young to remember me.Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/07 6:21 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Now that I have a child, I'm terrified more than ever of death.Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/07 6:22 PM
 

Tany
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by lorich

Myself no. My Mom died 6 years ago and just 2 weeks ago my Brother died very suddenly. Knowing that I can be with them again someday doesn't really seem to make death all that frightening anymore.


I'm so sorry.

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Posted 7/17/07 6:26 PM
 

nyteacher13
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by lorich

Myself no. My Mom died 6 years ago and just 2 weeks ago my Brother died very suddenly. Knowing that I can be with them again someday doesn't really seem to make death all that frightening anymore.



I'm so sorry about your brother.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/07 6:52 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by lorich

Myself no. My Mom died 6 years ago and just 2 weeks ago my Brother died very suddenly. Knowing that I can be with them again someday doesn't really seem to make death all that frightening anymore.



so sorry for your loss Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/07 7:51 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by prncss

Now that I have a child, I'm terrified more than ever of death.Chat Icon



same with me. I think its the fact that no one will love him like I will love him and I don't want him to go without it.

Posted 7/17/07 8:18 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Are you scared of death?

I am terrified of it. maybe later in life, A LOT later, I will not be as scared.

IMO, everyone is... why else would we all try and eat right, exercise, look before you cross the street, drive carefully, etc. to avoid death.

Posted 7/17/07 8:23 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by lorich

Myself no. My Mom died 6 years ago and just 2 weeks ago my Brother died very suddenly. Knowing that I can be with them again someday doesn't really seem to make death all that frightening anymore.

Chat Icon omg! I have no words. I am SO very sorry Lori Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/07 8:25 PM
 

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Re: Are you scared of death?

I am absolutely petrified and have been since I was little. At times i would think about it as I was laying in bed & cry because I was so scared. Not only of me dying, but the ones I love. Uh, I don't even want to think about itChat Icon

Posted 7/17/07 8:28 PM
 

Lanabean
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by stephanief

Posted by lorich

Myself no. My Mom died 6 years ago and just 2 weeks ago my Brother died very suddenly. Knowing that I can be with them again someday doesn't really seem to make death all that frightening anymore.



so sorry for your loss Chat Icon



I have no words...I'm just very sorry

Posted 7/17/07 8:35 PM
 

EmmaNick
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Re: Are you scared of death?

I have been thinking about this lately. It's just weird to me to think that I just won't exist anymore one day. I can't even fathom it. I can't even picture myself being 50 or even 60.

Posted 7/17/07 8:37 PM
 

cj7305
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by Summerrluvv

I have been thinking about this lately. It's just weird to me to think that I just won't exist anymore one day. I can't even fathom it. I can't even picture myself being 50 or even 60.



I could have written this myhself. It's incomprehensible to me.

Posted 7/17/07 8:45 PM
 

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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by cj7305

Posted by Summerrluvv

I have been thinking about this lately. It's just weird to me to think that I just won't exist anymore one day. I can't even fathom it. I can't even picture myself being 50 or even 60.



I could have written this myhself. It's incomprehensible to me.



me too. Exactly. I have lost loved ones (my dad and all of my grandmother) and although I do believe in an afterlife- I dont know what it will be like. I also can't imagine leaving Jordana. I think I will always ache to be with her.

Posted 7/17/07 9:05 PM
 

randella
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Yes-- I am very afraid of death. I am also very afraid of people close to me dying.

Posted 7/17/07 9:40 PM
 

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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by lorich

Myself no. My Mom died 6 years ago and just 2 weeks ago my Brother died very suddenly. Knowing that I can be with them again someday doesn't really seem to make death all that frightening anymore.



I'm so sorry for your loss, Lori. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/07 9:43 PM
 

SPECIALNEEDSMOMMY
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Re: Are you scared of death?

I am not scared of death at all. I am a very faithful person.

Posted 7/17/07 10:16 PM
 

2Pisces
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Re: Are you scared of death?

I am scared of dying in pain or suffering. I am also scared of dying alone.

I am more scared of dying when it comes to my mother...my father passed away and it was really a sad time for me. I could Chat Icon right now thinking of it.

Posted 7/17/07 10:26 PM
 

oops123
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Re: Are you scared of death?

yes...and the fear intensifies 10000000000000 x when you become a parent...
But i try to remind myself that we all wind up in the same place...some take a little longer than others!

Posted 7/17/07 10:39 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Yes - and scared of losing the ones I love

Posted 7/17/07 10:40 PM
 

Disneygirl
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Posted by Lanabean

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I am more scared of dying in pain than of death itself.



my aunt died in pain; my mother was in the room with her. it really changed how my mother perceived death...which was in peace, I guess. She actually witnessed the body shutting down, almost as though it were fighting. That really scared me....



I had a different take on it. I watched my father pass away and while it was heartbreaking to witness it was also comforting to finally see the release of that pain as his spirit left his very ill body.

Posted 7/17/07 11:05 PM
 

aidamarie
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Re: Are you scared of death?

Im not afraid of death. I believe that someday, when I die, my brother will be waiting for me, Its sounds sick, but before I had Alyssa, I thought to myself I cant wait to see him again and it actually took away all my fears of death. Now that I have Alyssa I am still not afraid of death, but I am afraid of not seeing my little princess grow up. If that makes any sense.

Posted 7/18/07 12:11 AM
 
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