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Bridex100
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Are your friends TTC?
We were the first amongst our friends to be married and have a baby. Honestly it was a bit lonely not having many pregnant friends.
This time around, almost all our married friends are TTC now.
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Posted 6/22/10 2:33 PM  |
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SKPtzu
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
I was one of the first of my friends to get married. I'm the only one with a child and the only one TTC. It is very lonely sometimes!
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| Posted 6/22/10 2:36 PM |
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MrsFein09
We are so in Love with you!!!
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Jenn
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Almost all of our friends already have LOs we are the last ones to try!!
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| Posted 6/22/10 2:45 PM |
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RGEC47
Feeling blessed!
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Quiet the opposite I am the first to be married and all of my friends have LO's. I am so happy for them but the little green monster of envy is popping up more frequently as the months go by. 
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| Posted 6/22/10 2:46 PM |
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MrsH2009
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Of my friends in NY : one is TTCing for a 2nd and one is pg with first. The rest aren't married yet or don't have kids. Of my college and MD friends, most either have 1 or 2 kids and are trying for their 2nd.
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| Posted 6/22/10 2:47 PM |
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Out of my current friends I am the only one TTC - a bunch of my older friends (from the past - not like in age) already have LO's but most of them don't live near by so it def feels like I on my own on this. .
my sister and two SILs both were TTC and now either are preggo or have LOs so I have both their support (but also a little envy if I have to admit it)
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| Posted 6/22/10 2:59 PM |
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babyin2011
LIF Zygote
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wouldn't you like to know
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Out my friends I'm the only one with a child and i'm back to TTC. It definitely is lonely but it's ok. DC has a lot of family around her age to play with.
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| Posted 6/22/10 3:39 PM |
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HeatherRose
Life is Good :)
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
most of our friends have kids or are getting married. I actually don't have any friends TTC right now. its ok though because I don't like to talk about it all. excpet here, and even then I keep it to the minimum. I don't know why either 
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| Posted 6/22/10 4:17 PM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
ALL of my friends are either expecting their second babies, just had their second babies, or are planning for their second babies. My one friend and my cousin are both expecting their first. It's such a fun time with everyone having kids all at the same time. It will be SO great that our kids will be close in age and instant BFF's. 
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| Posted 6/22/10 4:26 PM |
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MiaLove
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Posted by HeatherRose
most of our friends have kids or are getting married. I actually don't have any friends TTC right now. its ok though because I don't like to talk about it all. excpet here, and even then I keep it to the minimum. I don't know why either
I agree! I have only spoke about TTC with DH and my Dr. This is out first month TTC so that may change as time passes- but it's almost as if I don't want anyone to know we are trying to avoid questions/let downs. KWIM? What if it doesn't happen this month...I don't want to disappoint anyone
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| Posted 6/22/10 6:48 PM |
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Shelleybean11
Mommy of 2!
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
The first time around all of DH's friends were TTC. This time around most of my friends are TTC. Several of them are having a very hard time with it though  I'm not sure how they will handle the news if I am to become pregnant first, considering I already have a child.
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| Posted 6/22/10 7:59 PM |
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MillerTime424
LIF Adolescent
Member since 7/09 737 total posts
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Colleen
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
all my very good friends have a kid or are having a kid or are NO way near gonna have a kid
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| Posted 6/22/10 8:57 PM |
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CloudNine
My Baby Boy is Here!
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
i'm the second of my friends to get married and the first friend keeps changing her mind about TTC. my friends dont have bf's lewt alone reay to ttc lol
DH's friends...2 have kids and one has one on the way. the rest nothing yet
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| Posted 6/22/10 8:58 PM |
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MrsDeVito
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Nope, I was the first of my friends to get engaged. Then one friend got pregnant, got married, had the baby and got divorced all before my wedding
All my other friends are far from TTC.
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| Posted 6/22/10 8:59 PM |
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Bridex100
Two Under Two Mommy
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Posted by Shelleybean11
The first time around all of DH's friends were TTC. This time around most of my friends are TTC. Several of them are having a very hard time with it though I'm not sure how they will handle the news if I am to become pregnant first, considering I already have a child.
Most of our friends who are trying have been trying for a while.
I didn't have much time to discuss TTC the last time around because we got pregnant the first month of TTC.
I got my first BFN this month and it was really disappointing. Waiting to O in the beginning of July feels like such a long time from now.
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
we are relatively the first to get married and to get pregnant and now to TTC again.
I do have one other friend who is currently TTC her 2nd. We are still going for the first.
everyone else who is married or has a baby/kid is more of a distant friend.
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
I dont think anyone I know is TTC, but hen again, no one but you ladies knows we are TTC either. 
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| Posted 6/23/10 8:13 AM |
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JenMarie
One day at a time
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
We're somewhere in the middle. Our friends are either married with older kids or younger and not even married yet. My cousin is TTC, but other than her, no one we know (that we know of) is TTC. It feels very lonely!
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| Posted 6/23/10 9:42 AM |
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BabyFever10
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
it basically worked out that all our friends/family had their babies within the last year - so its only us (unless someone is hiding it)
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| Posted 6/23/10 10:21 AM |
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Its4Real
LIF Toddler
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Wait and see
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Well one of my friends will probably start TTC at the end of the year, but as of right now i believe i am the only one TTC, considering most of our friends are still single
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| Posted 6/23/10 3:20 PM |
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HeatherRose
Life is Good :)
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Posted by MiaLove
Posted by HeatherRose
most of our friends have kids or are getting married. I actually don't have any friends TTC right now. its ok though because I don't like to talk about it all. excpet here, and even then I keep it to the minimum. I don't know why either
I agree! I have only spoke about TTC with DH and my Dr. This is out first month TTC so that may change as time passes- but it's almost as if I don't want anyone to know we are trying to avoid questions/let downs. KWIM? What if it doesn't happen this month...I don't want to disappoint anyone
thats exactly my reasoning as well. even though I am posting it here and I know a lot of people IRL
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| Posted 6/24/10 10:48 AM |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
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Lisa Marie
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Re: Are your friends TTC?
Nope just us
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