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julz33
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Awkward work situation

Yesterday I was at our other location for the day and a guy that works there basically told me he had a crush on me in the most awkward conversation I ever had. I was feeling Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon !

Today at our work picnic, I saw him again and he was spotted by my coworkers taking pictures of meChat Icon I told him to stop, but I caught him taking a few more after that.

What a psycho!!!!!

Posted 8/3/06 9:56 PM
 
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Stacey1403
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Re: Awkward work situation

Tell him you will go to HR if he doesn't cut the crap. What a creepChat Icon

Posted 8/3/06 9:58 PM
 

beena
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Re: Awkward work situation

thats kinda scary! I am sure he knows you are married... right?

wow ... even after you told him to stop - WEIRDO!

Posted 8/3/06 9:58 PM
 

julz33
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Re: Awkward work situation

Actually, someone from HR was there when I told him to cut it out.
My coworkers thought it was so funny.

I am wondering what is he going to do with these picturesChat Icon

Posted 8/3/06 9:59 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Awkward work situation

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I worked in a photo lab once. Trust me you don't want to know..

We found out on of the guys that worked there had pictures of us on his headboard.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/3/06 10:01 PM
 

MABLE03
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Re: Awkward work situation

Even more reason to find a new job! Chat Icon

DH has a casual "friend" who had a crush on my friend.. at our wedding he took pictures of her/with her.

When DH went to his Apt. once he said that the pictures he took at our wedding were in frames in his Apt. It was the ONLY pictures he had in the whole place... He had only met her a few times before and she told him she wasn't interested!!! I wonder if when people come over and see her pictures in the frames he tells them thats his GF or something? Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/3/2006 10:03:28 PM.

Posted 8/3/06 10:02 PM
 

Marcie
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Re: Awkward work situation

That would give me the creeps!!!!
Even though you said someone from HR was there, I would still file a report - that is creepy!! Chat Icon

Posted 8/3/06 10:12 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Awkward work situation

I'm thinking that he deserves to have his camera physically & forefully taken away from him. If it happens again, I think you have every right to go Sean Penn on him.

Posted 8/3/06 10:14 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Awkward work situation

OMG! That's REALLY creepy. Did you tell your DH?

Posted 8/3/06 10:30 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: Awkward work situation

I think you need to file a report against him at work!

Posted 8/3/06 10:43 PM
 

traceyd
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Re: Awkward work situation

I would file a report with HR about that--what a creep!

Posted 8/3/06 10:45 PM
 

CC0203
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Re: Awkward work situation

I would most definitely file a report with HR .... that is not normal!!

Posted 8/3/06 11:06 PM
 

monkeybride
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That is probably considered harassment. You could report him. Sorry you have to deal with that on top of not liking you job.

Posted 8/4/06 12:57 AM
 

bklyngirl
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Re: Awkward work situation

Posted by luvsbob4603

I think you need to file a report against him at work!



i agree. when u told him to stop and he doesn't, i think the work should step in

Posted 8/4/06 6:54 AM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Awkward work situation

I would definitely file a report with HR.

DH had a situation, years ago (late 90's), with a co-worker, at another job during his first marriage. She was writing him notes about how she felt about him and if I remember correctly, even approached him a few times. According to him, this woman definitely had "a screw loose". HR stepped it, she stopped, he eventually left that job for other reasons.

Fast forward to a year or two ago, DH and I are attending Sunday services at the Unitarian Fellowship. All of a sudden he leans over and says, we have to go, right now!!! I'm thinking, "huh?" and follow him outside. He seems a bit shaken, begins to drive off and it's only when he gets a few miles away does he tell me she was thereChat Icon

We saw her once since and she approached himChat Icon I boldly stepped between them and said "Hi, I'm his WIFE. And you would be? And how do you know him? What brings you here?" In rapid fire succession... we haven't seen her since.Chat Icon

Definitely report him to HR.

Posted 8/4/06 7:16 AM
 

Bri
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Re: Awkward work situation

Posted by monkeybride

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That is probably considered harassment. You could report him. Sorry you have to deal with that on top of not liking you job.



I agree

Posted 8/4/06 7:23 AM
 

Maathy317
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Re: Awkward work situation

I would definitely tell him that if he does this again that you will report him to HR. If that doesn't stop the situation, you should introduce him to your husband and, if that doesn't work, I would file a complaint with the police and have a restraining order served. In this day and age, this is not something that should be taken lightly. Jerk!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/4/06 7:45 AM
 

2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Awkward work situation

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon That is creepy. I would file a report about him to HR.

Posted 8/4/06 7:46 AM
 

janet
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Re: Awkward work situation

i would let someone know... that is freeky and scarry too!!

Posted 8/4/06 7:47 AM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Awkward work situation

uh oh! that sounds dangerous! I would speak to your boss about this and ask for his/her advice. I would probably go to HR as well. you have to cover yourself ... but hopefully nothing more will happen.

Posted 8/4/06 7:50 AM
 

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Re: Awkward work situation

FM

Posted 8/4/06 8:03 AM
 

LAMGAJ28
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Re: Awkward work situation

Posted by Stacey1403

Tell him you will go to HR if he doesn't cut the crap. What a creepChat Icon



Ditto !!
and sorry you are going through this....

Posted 8/4/06 8:05 AM
 

MrsS1126
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Re: Awkward work situation

What a creep!!! Does he know your married? If he's making you feel awkward I would go straight to HR, you shouldn't have to deal with that especially at work Chat Icon

Posted 8/4/06 8:27 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: Awkward work situation

WHOA. That's borderline harassment and god knows where this guy will take it if he has the guts to take pics of you at the picnic in front of everyone. I would talk to HR right now, and put it in writing. You need to nip this one in the bud before it gets out of hand...

Posted 8/4/06 8:43 AM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Awkward work situation

OMG...what a weirdo!!!Chat Icon

Posted 8/4/06 8:45 AM
 
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