LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

Posted By Message

sumlynmad
...bonds...

Member since 4/07

2080 total posts

Name:
Summer

b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

well, here is a pic from today of me and hannah! yeah...now i have two of us together from the last 2 months... Chat Icon stinx being the picture taker... anyway, i really forget how many weeks i am in the pregnancy! how horrible am i? the first pregnancy i couldve told u the week and the day! now, i THINK i am going to be 23 week this wednesday, but maybe its 24? (melissa, help me out? i know u are a week behind me right??) ugh! anyway, im a terrible 2nd time mom...
External Image
oh, so my vent...why do i have to hear from IL side (particularly MIL) how much DD looks like HER children? yes, thats what she says- the other nite- "doesnt hannah look just like my children?" okay, not for nothing, but more often than not are people saying she is really starting to look more like me, which i dont care about, but damn, she def doesnt look EXACTLY like greg or HER children? and even when, in front of her, someone like greg grandparents say "oh, i see a lot of summer in her now" she says "well, not really"...i mean, cmon?! she gives no credit to me or my side of hannah, u know? why is that? if hannah is smart, it bc of their genes, things like that, u know? i think hannah is a combo, if u ask me...no, i dont think she look exactly like me, but heck, u couldnt say "there is no way she is your daughter"...k, sorry, vent over...

anyway else vow they will never be like their MILs when their children grow up and get married???Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/08 10:25 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

MelToddJulia
Love my Family!

Member since 7/05

29064 total posts

Name:
Mel

Re: b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

Summer you look great and have the preggo glow!! Hannah looks so much like you! My mom always says Julia looks so much like me in front of Todd all the time, but everyone else knows shes more him then me--lol It doesn't bother me at all, I just laugh and know she's my DD!

You are 23 weeks!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/08 10:29 PM
 

Briannasmommy
Love her so much <3

Member since 5/05

15567 total posts

Name:
Christina

Re: b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

aww that is such a cute pic of the two of u

Posted 1/6/08 10:30 PM
 

sumlynmad
...bonds...

Member since 4/07

2080 total posts

Name:
Summer

Re: b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

Posted by MelToddJulia

Summer you look great and have the preggo glow!! Hannah looks so much like you! My mom always says Julia looks so much like me in front of Todd all the time, but everyone else knows shes more him then me--lol It doesn't bother me at all, I just laugh and know she's my DD!

You are 23 weeks!!Chat Icon Chat Icon



lol- i knew i could count on u to tell me how far along i was...without me going back to the calendar and counting...ure better than me at keeping track!

let me know when im in labor too, would ya??!!

Chat Icon Chat Icon

(ps- i think julia look a lot like u- the last couple pics ove seen of u both together she def has u! esp in the xmas santa one u posted- i think that was the one...)

Posted 1/6/08 10:31 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
My Everything!

Member since 11/05

35670 total posts

Name:
<3

Re: b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

LOVE the pic!!!

I am always venting - I swear people get some sort of pleasure out of saying how little Cailen looks like me... Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/08 10:33 PM
 

MelToddJulia
Love my Family!

Member since 7/05

29064 total posts

Name:
Mel

Re: b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

Posted by sumlynmad

Posted by MelToddJulia

Summer you look great and have the preggo glow!! Hannah looks so much like you! My mom always says Julia looks so much like me in front of Todd all the time, but everyone else knows shes more him then me--lol It doesn't bother me at all, I just laugh and know she's my DD!

You are 23 weeks!!Chat Icon Chat Icon



lol- i knew i could count on u to tell me how far along i was...without me going back to the calendar and counting...ure better than me at keeping track!

let me know when im in labor too, would ya??!!

Chat Icon Chat Icon

(ps- i think julia look a lot like u- the last couple pics ove seen of u both together she def has u! esp in the xmas santa one u posted- i think that was the one...)




Chat Icon Thanks! Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/08 10:36 PM
 

bayla
Love my two kiddos :)

Member since 8/06

7178 total posts

Name:

Re: b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

my son is def a combo of me and my DH, but is fair with light hair and eyes like me. So my MIL always complains how he doesn't look like her (she has dark hair and dark eyes) and sounds so defeated when she says oh he looks just like youChat Icon When i was pregnant, she made a comment that HER luck, the baby will prob have blue eyes and light hair and i was like HELLO, i have blue eyes and light hair, so yea theirs a good chance he will tooChat Icon truthfully, shes really harmless and a good women, it just really bothers her for some reason that he doesn't look like her
PS- you look great and i def see that you and your daughter look alike!Chat Icon

Message edited 1/6/2008 10:59:36 PM.

Posted 1/6/08 10:58 PM
 

pharmcat2000
Mom of 2 + 1

Member since 10/05

7395 total posts

Name:
Catherine

Re: b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

I'm sorry, but if she had dark hair I'd think she looked alot like you. I just think it is the light hair that throws you off. She is DEF your daughter!

p/s - nice pic!

Posted 1/6/08 11:02 PM
 

GoldenRod
10 years on LIF!

Member since 11/06

26792 total posts

Name:
Shawn

Re: b/c i dont share anymore...along with a vent...

I was going to say that your DD looks just like ME!

I mean, she has two eyes, a nose, a mouth.... just like I do!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

People will see any similarity or difference that they want to see. Even if your DD was adopted from a country that your DH doesn't have any similarity too, your MIL would STILL find physical similarities to her side of the family.... Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/08 7:45 AM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
another "people dont think" vent... DanaRenee 6/1/07 12 Pregnancy
I dont know what to do anymore RonniesMommy 5/31/07 14 Parenting
Ugh, I can't go on LIW anymore- vent LittleBlueBug 11/10/06 25 Families Helping Families ™
Dont they do background checks anymore MegZee 10/17/06 2 Families Helping Families ™
I dont wanna be an infant anymore.. FRAPPALICIOUS 6/13/06 7 Families Helping Families ™
I dont think I should watch TV anymore rose825 5/7/06 11 Infertility
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 320039 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows