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Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

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btrflygrl
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Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

just got an invite to my neighbors' shower (the weekend after Easter) and she is due about 10 days before me.

how much should I spend?

Get something off her registry?
Be Creative?
get diapers/wipes/clothes (maybe I can find NWT stuff on Ebay)?

Posted 3/31/07 11:51 AM
 
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Tany
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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

I would just get her something from her registry.

Posted 3/31/07 11:56 AM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

I would get something from her registry that is in your budget. Since it's her first she probably has specific things in mind that she wants.

Posted 3/31/07 11:57 AM
 

SuzyQ
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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

Posted by monkeybride

I would get something from her registry that is in your budget. Since it's her first she probably has specific things in mind that she wants.



I agree unless you see that there is something you really used/loved that she doesn't have on there.

eta: how close are you? do you consider her a good friend? I would decide how much to spend by how much you can afford and how close you are. If you're not that close and are on a budget I would say approx. $30. If you can afford it, I would say $50.

Message edited 3/31/2007 12:04:36 PM.

Posted 3/31/07 12:02 PM
 

btrflygrl
me and baby #3!

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Shana

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

Posted by monkeybride

I would get something from her registry that is in your budget. Since it's her first she probably has specific things in mind that she wants.



oh no...this is her 3rd!! She has a 7 or 8 yr old daughter, a 3 yr old son.

Posted 3/31/07 12:11 PM
 

SuzyQ
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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

Posted by btrflygrl

Posted by monkeybride

I would get something from her registry that is in your budget. Since it's her first she probably has specific things in mind that she wants.



oh no...this is her 3rd!! She has a 7 or 8 yr old daughter, a 3 yr old son.



That changes things. Honestly, I would be kinda annoyed that she was having a shower after already having 2 kids.

Posted 3/31/07 12:37 PM
 

05mommy09
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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

I would get something off her reg. in your price range, and a pkg of diapers...

Then after the baby was born- buy an outfit or something..

ETA- NM just saw this was her 3rd baby...

a cheap outfit and a pkg of diapers...

Message edited 3/31/2007 1:36:52 PM.

Posted 3/31/07 12:50 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

Posted by btrflygrl

Posted by monkeybride

I would get something from her registry that is in your budget. Since it's her first she probably has specific things in mind that she wants.



oh no...this is her 3rd!! She has a 7 or 8 yr old daughter, a 3 yr old son.



In that case I would maybe get her a new outfit and diapers or a gift certificate for herself for a mani or pedi.

Posted 3/31/07 1:28 PM
 

Charly
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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

I agree with the other ladies. If this is her 3rd, I think an outfit and diapers are fine.

Posted 3/31/07 1:32 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette/dilemma....

Posted by Princessmaris

ETA- NM just saw this was her 3rd baby...

a cheap outfit and a pkg of diapers...




i agree

Posted 3/31/07 2:38 PM
 
 

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