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sunny
Life is good!
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Stephanie
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
I think it would bother me more that he was spending the money on a vacation that I wasn't going on too.
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Member since 5/05 9129 total posts
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guess
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
It's been a tradition in DH's family for 12 years...no issues whatsoever.
For out bach parties - DH spent a long weekend in South Beach - I spent a weekend in the Hamptons.
No issues - we trust each other, our friends and family and money wasn't an issue.
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| Posted 8/11/05 11:24 PM |
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SoinLove
Making big changes
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Kristin
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
That I wouldn't be so keen on. Mainly because I don't like being apart from him for so long.
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| Posted 8/12/05 12:32 AM |
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Elbee
Zanzibar
Member since 5/05 10767 total posts
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Me
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by Janice
no way..who is he f'ing his friends? Mine would not even ask, what fun is being drunk if you go to bed that night horny?
Do you ever just drink and not have sex?  I don't undertstand your statements at all. One drink = horny?
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:05 AM |
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AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses
Member since 5/05 2048 total posts
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Maxine
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
No I wouldn't really be Ok with it.
Not for the reason most people would think. DH works 7 days a week LONG hours. I hardly see him as it is. I would be a little upset if he took time off of work ( esp the weekends when the OT money is really great  ) to go to a BP when we are sacraficing our weekends together in order to save money.
Esp the fact that he can't even take time off right now for US to go on vacation if we wanted too...
so yeah it would annoy me.
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:11 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by Elbee
Posted by Janice
no way..who is he f'ing his friends? Mine would not even ask, what fun is being drunk if you go to bed that night horny?
Do you ever just drink and not have sex? I don't undertstand your statements at all. One drink = horny?
elbee, not worth it for you to pursue this, i've been down this path with her before, it's very complex and frustrating
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:12 AM |
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Elbee
Zanzibar
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
elbee, not worth it for you to pursue this, i've been down this path with her before, it's very complex and frustrating
Okkayyyyyyyy, I just don't understand because I drink with my girlfriends and I never want to F*ckthem when we crawl back to the hotel room 
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:15 AM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
Member since 5/05 27567 total posts
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Janice
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Elbee
Posted by Janice
no way..who is he f'ing his friends? Mine would not even ask, what fun is being drunk if you go to bed that night horny?
Do you ever just drink and not have sex? I don't undertstand your statements at all. One drink = horny?
elbee, not worth it for you to pursue this, i've been down this path with her before, it's very complex and frustrating
What I mean is to go away for the weekend with friends in a bachelor type setting, there is going to be drinking, and to have a sexless drunken weekend does not seem like much fun to me.
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:15 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by Janice
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Elbee
Posted by Janice
no way..who is he f'ing his friends? Mine would not even ask, what fun is being drunk if you go to bed that night horny?
Do you ever just drink and not have sex? I don't undertstand your statements at all. One drink = horny?
elbee, not worth it for you to pursue this, i've been down this path with her before, it's very complex and frustrating
What I mean is to go away for the weekend with friends in a bachelor type setting, there is going to be drinking, and to have a sexless drunken weekend does not seem like much fun to me.
does drinking automatically equal sex though
when i'm drunk, sex is usually the last thing on my mind
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:16 AM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
Member since 5/05 27567 total posts
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Janice
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
guess that is were we differ, I love drunk loving
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:19 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by Janice
guess that is were we differ, I love drunk loving
wonderful
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:20 AM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Redhead
yea i have to say i am sooo not into that one
not saying i disagree with you and christina, because i agree it might be a little tougher to accept
i'm just curious, what's the difference between the one night party and the weekend that makes it different
good question....no answer....just am not comfortable with it 
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:21 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by Redhead
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Redhead
yea i have to say i am sooo not into that one
not saying i disagree with you and christina, because i agree it might be a little tougher to accept
i'm just curious, what's the difference between the one night party and the weekend that makes it different
good question....no answer....just am not comfortable with it
that's cool, like i said, i don't disagree, i was just curious
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:22 AM |
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TheInfamousOTG
Waiting for Lil' M....
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I trust Brianne with all my heart, so I know I have nothing to worry about. The same goes for her when it comes to me. I would never cheat in a million years, especially at a bachelor party with stanky looking girls with diseases. Bachelor parties are fun.
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:31 AM |
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dpli
Daylight savings :)
Member since 5/05 13973 total posts
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D
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Redhead
yea i have to say i am sooo not into that one
not saying i disagree with you and christina, because i agree it might be a little tougher to accept
i'm just curious, what's the difference between the one night party and the weekend that makes it different
I would say no, not b/c I don't trust DH, it is more because of the money. I don't support spending that amount of money on a b-party, either for me or for him. If he is spending that much $ on a trip, I want it to be a vacation with me. He actually would agree with me. Some people may think I am cheap, but I think some of this wedding spending is out of hand. JMO.
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| Posted 8/12/05 10:12 AM |
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Bri
I Love You to Pieces!
Member since 5/05 9919 total posts
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Brianne
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
nope!
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