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Bar Mitzvah Gift Question

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Budjeg11
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Bar Mitzvah Gift Question

Our family was invited to a friends' sons bar mitzvah- Were invited to the service and the kiddush- not the reception at the catering hall.

We plan to attend and bring a gift - what is an appropriate gift amount for this part of the event/celebration?

Posted 8/10/23 11:45 AM
 
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nycbuslady
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Bar Mitzvah Gift Question

I would think something in the $50 range would be good. I think the number 18 is significant in the Jewish faith, so people give in multiples of 18. You could do $54 ($18 x 3).

Posted 8/11/23 11:26 AM
 

ali120206
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Re: Bar Mitzvah Gift Question

Posted by nycbuslady

I would think something in the $50 range would be good. I think the number 18 is significant in the Jewish faith, so people give in multiples of 18. You could do $54 ($18 x 3).



Yes - definitely do a multiple of $18. I would think in the $50 range is good too since you are just invited to the services, not the reception.

Posted 8/11/23 1:08 PM
 

JME78
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Bar Mitzvah Gift Question

I personally think its super rude to invite someone to services and not to the reception.

I would give like 36.

Posted 8/14/23 11:28 AM
 
 

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