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Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

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Irishlass
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Lisa

Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

So while my DH family where here I was told that if anything ever happened to the parents & her parents where not able to take care of the kids we would be next inline to have them. I talked to DH last night about it coz I'm a little freaked out about the whole thing. DH says I'm over reacting that nothing is going to happen & the chances are nothing will ever happen but you do hear these stories where is does happen. We would def take them as there wouldnt be anyone else. How would you feel about this?

Posted 11/27/11 1:40 PM
 

KittyKatCopper
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Kat - HamptonsBride (LIW)

Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

I've told my brother I would take his 3 kids in a heartbeat if anything ever happened to him & his DW...but they already have someone else lined up..it's really something that should be discussed with all involved before it gets decided legally. Even though I don't want kids I'd take my niece & nephews and change my life..but they are the only ones I'd do this for! Chat Icon

Posted 11/27/11 3:40 PM
 

tourist

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Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

I would absolutely do it, but I don't think anyone would ever consider us as potential guardians since we do not have children of our own.

Posted 11/27/11 10:34 PM
 

thewinterone
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cause you are gray.

Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

We would care for any of our Godchildren or nieces without a doubt.
We don't plan on having children but I would have no problem taking in any children whose parents thought we would be a good choice.

Posted 11/28/11 3:01 PM
 

drpepper318
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Member since 6/07

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Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

Nobody in our family close to us has kids, so it's not a possibility at the moment. Not sure how I'd feel about it though.

Posted 11/28/11 6:49 PM
 

DrMeg
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Meg

Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

I would take my niece and nephew in a heartbeat if anything ever happened to my sister and her DH. However they don't have a will and my sisters MIL already said there would be a fight for the kids Chat Icon
I bug my sister all the time to please make a will.

Posted 11/29/11 10:20 AM
 

ihilani
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Member since 9/07

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alias

Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

Posted by tourist

I would absolutely do it, but I don't think anyone would ever consider us as potential guardians since we do not have children of our own.



This.

Posted 11/29/11 9:24 PM
 

islandersgirl74
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Member since 6/06

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Michelle

Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

I have had this conversation with my sister about my 2 nieces. DH and I don't have children yet (we are trying). Whether we end up having children or not, I would without a single doubt care for my nieces. I am so close to them and already love them like my own. I would go to the moon and back for them!

Posted 12/4/11 7:22 PM
 

HoneyBadger
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BahBahBlackJeep

Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

Posted by KittyKatCopper

I've told my brother I would take his 3 kids in a heartbeat if anything ever happened to him & his DW...but they already have someone else lined up..it's really something that should be discussed with all involved before it gets decided legally. Even though I don't want kids I'd take my niece & nephews and change my life..but they are the only ones I'd do this for! Chat Icon



Same here with both my sister and brother's kids...

Posted 12/5/11 10:15 AM
 

RadioLau
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Member since 4/07

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Name:
Laura

Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

Nobody that close to us has children right now. But if my brother or either of my DH's siblings had children and needed us to raise their children because something happened to them, I would do it without question and would be honored. Anyone else I would have to really think about it.

Posted 12/6/11 3:11 PM
 

Mrs213
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Re: Becoming legal guardians.... if something where to happen

I would take in any of my nieces/nephews in a heartbeat if anything happened to their parents, makes me sad to even think of thatChat Icon

Posted 12/10/11 9:16 PM
 
 

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