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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Broke down last night
Last night really hit me hard, I finally broke down in tears. I was watching the episode of the office when Pam and Jim had their baby. I started to cry and my sister asked if I was alright and all I could do was shake my head no. I have been having my good days and bad and last night was the first time I really cried.
She asked me if I wanted to continue watching the show and I did. I guess I really needed a good cry and to get it out of my system.
Yesterday afternoon my dad and step-mom came to visit DH and I so they can see Autumn and my step-mom even asked if I had names picked out Ding back did you forget I lost the baby. Why would you ask me $hit like that. I always asked how her daughter who is preggo with baby #3 is and she has not asked me ONCE how I am doing ***.
Sorry I needed to vent.
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Posted 3/20/10 8:49 PM  |
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babylove628
mommy of two!
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Maggie
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Re: Broke down last night
I always say when you need to let it out let it out, it's always better to have a good cry.
This is for ur stepmom---->   
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| Posted 3/20/10 11:16 PM |
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hotsauce345
my love, my life, my son
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Melody
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Re: Broke down last night
 sometimes when i need to let out a good cry i go in the shower... and I imagine my tears being all my problems...and I envision those problems rolling down my cheeks and going down the drain. I think Visualization is such a strong therapeutic tool
Message edited 3/20/2010 11:47:41 PM.
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| Posted 3/20/10 11:46 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Broke down last night
oh it is and right now I am Visualizing myself hitting my step-mom with her purse over her head for dumb @ss remark she made. I feel better now
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| Posted 3/21/10 9:21 AM |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
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Lisa Marie
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Re: Broke down last night
a good cry is good..i do it often...
your stepmom is a JERK
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| Posted 3/21/10 10:35 AM |
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mimidance
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Re: Broke down last night
hi,
first i want to let you know that i feel your pain and i am sorry that you have to go through this. i have had two miscarriages. the first time i was pregnant with twins and miscarried them at 11 weeks. my mother in law sounds like your stepmom. shw told me this was my fault because i go out with my hair wet and wear high heels. try not to listen to these people. i then had a boy who is 3 now . then had my second miscarriage at 7 weeks. my daughter who is 1 was born after. the only way that i began to heal was to do volunteer work pertaining to pregnancy loss. i made 100 memory boxes and brough them to local hospitals for couples experienceing a pregnancy loss. i am also working on a miscarriage hotline. don't listen to your stepmom. i will say a prayer for you.
monica
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| Posted 3/22/10 1:18 PM |
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Babyaholic
Thankful
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Re: Broke down last night
Sometimes the best thing to do is just cry it out! Your stepmom is an idiot. Someone losing a baby is not something you just forget! 
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| Posted 3/22/10 2:43 PM |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
Member since 12/09 1249 total posts
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Lisa Marie
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Re: Broke down last night
Posted by Babyaholic
Sometimes the best thing to do is just cry it out! Your stepmom is an idiot. Someone losing a baby is not something you just forget!
it seems like she Forgot she lost the baby b/c she was acting like it REALLY didnt happen! gets me very angry!
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| Posted 3/22/10 2:49 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Broke down last night
thanks ladies, last night I said something to her and her response was, Oh I mean't for your next baby. Why would I be thinking about another pregnancy when I am trying to heal from the lost I just had The lady needs more brain cells
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| Posted 3/22/10 3:27 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
Name:
Lisa
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Re: Broke down last night
Posted by mimidance
hi,
first i want to let you know that i feel your pain and i am sorry that you have to go through this. i have had two miscarriages. the first time i was pregnant with twins and miscarried them at 11 weeks. my mother in law sounds like your stepmom. shw told me this was my fault because i go out with my hair wet and wear high heels. try not to listen to these people. i then had a boy who is 3 now . then had my second miscarriage at 7 weeks. my daughter who is 1 was born after. the only way that i began to heal was to do volunteer work pertaining to pregnancy loss. i made 100 memory boxes and brough them to local hospitals for couples experienceing a pregnancy loss. i am also working on a miscarriage hotline. don't listen to your stepmom. i will say a prayer for you.
monica
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| Posted 3/22/10 3:28 PM |
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