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Goldi0218
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Member since 12/05

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Leslie

Can people PLEASE trust me?

Can people PLEASE stop asking me when my doctor appointments are?

-Unless YOU are spreading your legs, keep your business away from between mine.

Can people PLEASE stop sending me articles about BPA?

-I can read just fine all by myself - been doing it for 34 years now. I was a gifted kid. And no I will NOT poison my child.

Can people PLEASE stop telling me that I have to be 100% into breastfeeding to make it work?

-No s**t Sherlock. Thanks for the update.

Can people PLEASE start realizing that I am a full grown adult and not a clueless moron who cares for OTHER people's children all day on a daily basis, has been certified and fingerprinted by the great State of New York, has no criminal record WHATSOEVER and does not ASK for unsolicited advice?

Please have faith in me that I will do right by my daughter and stop sending me internet articles that do nothing but scare the crap out of people unnecessarily. I may be a first time mother, but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.

Posted 4/22/08 12:45 PM
 
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MrsRbk
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Member since 1/06

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Name:
Michelle

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

I think you're asking for too much Leslie... sheesh! Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 12:50 PM
 

NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!

Member since 10/07

6453 total posts

Name:
Jeannine

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

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Sometimes it would be nice if you could just turn people off - press the button and *boop!* I can't hear you anymore!!!!

Posted 4/22/08 12:53 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

I would much prefer punching people in the face but pregnant women in jail don't fare too well I hear.

Posted 4/22/08 12:55 PM
 

pickles16
Real Estate Professional

Member since 11/07

17227 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

I literally just found out that I'm pregnant and EVERYONE is telling me what to do, what to eat, what not to do....I can't take it!!!! So I feel what you're going through!!!

If its any consolation, I trust youChat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 12:56 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Thanks! If people don't think I can care for a child, call Child Protective Services right now and save me some time.

Posted 4/22/08 12:59 PM
 

Superkat
More a stranger than a friend

Member since 5/06

9730 total posts

Name:
K

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Goldi0218

but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.




You should tell them that your FIL is a past member of Mensa and that he is SO smart that you don't need advice from anyone else. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 1:06 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05

13659 total posts

Name:
And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Goldi0218

Can people PLEASE stop asking me when my doctor appointments are?

-Unless YOU are spreading your legs, keep your business away from between mine.

Can people PLEASE stop sending me articles about BPA?

-I can read just fine all by myself - been doing it for 34 years now. I was a gifted kid. And no I will NOT poison my child.

Can people PLEASE stop telling me that I have to be 100% into breastfeeding to make it work?

-No s**t Sherlock. Thanks for the update.

Can people PLEASE start realizing that I am a full grown adult and not a clueless moron who cares for OTHER people's children all day on a daily basis, has been certified and fingerprinted by the great State of New York, has no criminal record WHATSOEVER and does not ASK for unsolicited advice?

Please have faith in me that I will do right by my daughter and stop sending me internet articles that do nothing but scare the crap out of people unnecessarily. I may be a first time mother, but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.




ever hear of the delete button? Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 1:42 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Goldi0218

Thanks! If people don't think I can care for a child, call Child Protective Services right now and save me some time.



my co-workers already did that for me when i told them i can't even keep a plant alive - they were concerned for the safety of my baby. Chat Icon

leslie, use your preggo hormones to your advantage and tell them to shove it!! Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 1:52 PM
 

MrsFlatbread
Skinny jeans are in my future

Member since 6/06

10258 total posts

Name:
Baby Momma

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Goldi0218

but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.


Has this been confirmed? You do know that IQ goes down with every year you increase in chronological age, right?Chat Icon You may be just of normal intelligence like the rest of us by now given your age!Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 1:59 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

Posted by Goldi0218

Can people PLEASE stop asking me when my doctor appointments are?

-Unless YOU are spreading your legs, keep your business away from between mine.

Can people PLEASE stop sending me articles about BPA?

-I can read just fine all by myself - been doing it for 34 years now. I was a gifted kid. And no I will NOT poison my child.

Can people PLEASE stop telling me that I have to be 100% into breastfeeding to make it work?

-No s**t Sherlock. Thanks for the update.

Can people PLEASE start realizing that I am a full grown adult and not a clueless moron who cares for OTHER people's children all day on a daily basis, has been certified and fingerprinted by the great State of New York, has no criminal record WHATSOEVER and does not ASK for unsolicited advice?

Please have faith in me that I will do right by my daughter and stop sending me internet articles that do nothing but scare the crap out of people unnecessarily. I may be a first time mother, but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.




ever hear of the delete button? Chat Icon



Don I cannot delete family.

Posted 4/22/08 2:02 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by MrsFlatbread

Posted by Goldi0218

but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.


Has this been confirmed? You do know that IQ goes down with every year you increase in chronological age, right?Chat Icon You may be just of normal intelligence like the rest of us by now given your age!Chat Icon



I have access to frequent IQ testing should I need to confirm my ABOVE AVERAGE INTELLIGENCE!!!

Posted 4/22/08 2:03 PM
 

MrsFlatbread
Skinny jeans are in my future

Member since 6/06

10258 total posts

Name:
Baby Momma

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Goldi0218

Posted by MrsFlatbread

Posted by Goldi0218

but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.


Has this been confirmed? You do know that IQ goes down with every year you increase in chronological age, right?Chat Icon You may be just of normal intelligence like the rest of us by now given your age!Chat Icon



I have access to frequent IQ testing should I need to confirm my ABOVE AVERAGE INTELLIGENCE!!!



Chat Icon We should make a GTG out of it!Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 2:04 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by MrsFlatbread

Posted by Goldi0218

Posted by MrsFlatbread

Posted by Goldi0218

but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.


Has this been confirmed? You do know that IQ goes down with every year you increase in chronological age, right?Chat Icon You may be just of normal intelligence like the rest of us by now given your age!Chat Icon



I have access to frequent IQ testing should I need to confirm my ABOVE AVERAGE INTELLIGENCE!!!



Chat Icon We should make a GTG out of it!Chat Icon



Personally, I would much rather take the most recent copy of the DSM and diagnose friends and family.

Posted 4/22/08 2:05 PM
 

MrsFlatbread
Skinny jeans are in my future

Member since 6/06

10258 total posts

Name:
Baby Momma

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Goldi0218

Personally, I would much rather take the most recent copy of the DSM and diagnose friends and family.




that would be a much better GTG, although we would need a lot of time!

Posted 4/22/08 2:08 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by MrsFlatbread

Posted by Goldi0218

Personally, I would much rather take the most recent copy of the DSM and diagnose friends and family.




that would be a much better GTG, although we would need a lot of time!



Not with OUR expertise. All we need is a psychologist and perhaps a social worker.

Posted 4/22/08 2:10 PM
 

Nicole728
My Happy Girl

Member since 7/06

8198 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

OMG is my Dad annoying you too???Chat Icon

Seriously I could have written that word from word....my Dad has been sending me everything under the sun and lecturing me about having natural child birth and breastfeeding.

I'm SOOOOOO tired of it...I told him last night...Its my body I will do what I choose with it.

I never thought my Dad of all people would be so crazy about this stuff

Posted 4/22/08 2:12 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Nicole728

OMG is my Dad annoying you too???Chat Icon

Seriously I could have written that word from word....my Dad has been sending me everything under the sun and lecturing me about having natural child birth and breastfeeding.

I'm SOOOOOO tired of it...I told him last night...Its my body I will do what I choose with it.

I never thought my Dad of all people would be so crazy about this stuff



Id tell any man who forces breastfeeding upon me to take hormones and sprout his own at this point. My DH included- he knows better and trusts that I will make the best choices for our family.

I have admitted repeatedly that I was not interested one bit on BFing before I got PG. But I do read. I do ask questions and have become willing to learn to see if it is something I can do to the best of my ability. For ME, that is a HUGE step and on some level, I am becoming more excited about it. HOWEVER, the day someone forces it down my throat and starts sending articles or spewing facts or lecturing me, is the day I break out the can of Enfamil and shove it up their arses! Yeah, I said it.

Posted 4/22/08 2:21 PM
 

mrsm2007
LIF Infant

Member since 12/07

132 total posts

Name:
Jenn

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

to that I say AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 4/22/08 3:09 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05

13659 total posts

Name:
And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Goldi0218

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

Posted by Goldi0218

Can people PLEASE stop asking me when my doctor appointments are?

-Unless YOU are spreading your legs, keep your business away from between mine.

Can people PLEASE stop sending me articles about BPA?

-I can read just fine all by myself - been doing it for 34 years now. I was a gifted kid. And no I will NOT poison my child.

Can people PLEASE stop telling me that I have to be 100% into breastfeeding to make it work?

-No s**t Sherlock. Thanks for the update.

Can people PLEASE start realizing that I am a full grown adult and not a clueless moron who cares for OTHER people's children all day on a daily basis, has been certified and fingerprinted by the great State of New York, has no criminal record WHATSOEVER and does not ASK for unsolicited advice?

Please have faith in me that I will do right by my daughter and stop sending me internet articles that do nothing but scare the crap out of people unnecessarily. I may be a first time mother, but I am 37 years old and I do have above average intelligence for G-'ds sake.




ever hear of the delete button? Chat Icon



Don I cannot delete family.



wanna bet?? Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 5:23 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

Posted by Goldi0218

Don I cannot delete family.



wanna bet?? Chat Icon



You will have to fill me in on this.

Posted 4/22/08 5:36 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05

13659 total posts

Name:
And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by Goldi0218

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

Posted by Goldi0218

Don I cannot delete family.



wanna bet?? Chat Icon



You will have to fill me in on this.



it's called selective listening

it's a gift Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 5:40 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

13848 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Did my MIL call you? Sorry bout that!Chat Icon

It only gets better once you HAVE the baby- then they really drive you nutsChat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 5:43 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Posted by CkGm

Did my MIL call you? Sorry bout that!Chat Icon

It only gets better once you HAVE the baby- then they really drive you nutsChat Icon



Great. I think I'll need to get one of these for me and for Ed-lie after she is born:
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Posted 4/22/08 6:00 PM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Can people PLEASE trust me?

Leslie, didn't you know that the minute you became PG, you lost all intelligence to know what to do?

And that's just the beginning.

It usually starts with "are you finding out the sex?", then it's the amnio vs no amnio, breastfeeding, vaginal vs c-section, natural vs drugs, what bottle to buy, why are you buying white furniture (or any other color!!!) etc...

Then it's how to raise your kids, how THEIR kid did such and such (of course, theirs are perfect!!). When will she walk, who does she look like, etc...

Enjoy motherhood!!!!

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Message edited 4/22/2008 9:27:41 PM.

Posted 4/22/08 9:26 PM
 
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