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2Pisces
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Member since 2/06 3337 total posts
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Paige
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Cemetery visits
I really do not like going to the cemetery to visit my dads grave site. I just feel like thats not him and don't like to think of him like that.
But I feel so bad when I don't go. I mean its a ride...but thats not really my excuse. I just don't like that he is there.
anyone feel that way?
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Posted 1/24/07 8:13 PM  |
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dpli
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Member since 5/05 13973 total posts
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D
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Re: Cemetery visits
I don't really go at all. My parents are in the same place, and the only time I went after their funerals was after my wedding, to lay my throwaway bouquet. I don't really feel the need to go there to feel close to them - I get that feeling in other places.
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| Posted 1/24/07 9:13 PM |
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nylisa
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Member since 5/05 7905 total posts
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MaMa
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Re: Cemetery visits
I am the opposite. It is not that I enjoy going to the cemetary to see my mom but when I go there I feel that I am closer to her. I know that she is everywhere I go but going to the cemetary makes me feel better. The only bad thing is that when I leave Icry like crazy. I feel like I am leaving her behind. I just went a couple of weeks ago and now I want to go to see to bring her something for V-day.
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| Posted 1/25/07 10:14 AM |
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Gumpslilqtpie
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Member since 7/06 2646 total posts
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Kimmer
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Re: Cemetery visits
I dont like to go either. My mom has been gone almost 8 years and I have been there only a handful of times. I live a quarter mile away from where she's buried. I feel like an awful daughter for not going to see her but it hurts so much. I'd rather reflect on her in a more positive setting. 
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| Posted 1/25/07 11:36 AM |
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bikramaddict
mommy-to-be
Member since 8/06 4376 total posts
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Re: Cemetery visits
my mom is gone 5 years and i haven't gone once. i can't bring myself to do it...at least not yet. i'm not ready (but then again, are we ever?)
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| Posted 1/25/07 1:14 PM |
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Tine73
Member since 3/06 22093 total posts
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Re: Cemetery visits
I actualy like going. I find it peaceful. Most of the time I just go visit my brother and my grandfather even though I have more family members near by.
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| Posted 1/25/07 10:11 PM |
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AlohaMa
Never Forget
Member since 2/06 2735 total posts
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Jen
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Re: Cemetery visits
I enjoy going. Although I know my mom is around always, I feel like it's time that I can completely devote to speaking to her and remembering her. I've brought my 5 month olds to visit just once, but I plan on making that regular as well. The entire visit brings me peace.
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| Posted 1/26/07 2:26 PM |
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anjerandunder
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Member since 6/06 1909 total posts
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J
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Re: Cemetery visits
I cry from the second i pull in to the second i leave. i hate going
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| Posted 1/26/07 5:57 PM |
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