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CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

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d-h2008
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CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

Yesterday I went to pick up my hubby from the subway station after his LONG day, we went to eat and then drove home. In our area its sooooooo hard to find parking so we were circling and circling and FINALLY found a spot! So we go to parallel park... we are backing up into the spot and BAM this lady comes zooming down the street and puts the front of her car right into the spot! So now we are in a "V" formation.... Our cars back is 1/2 way in the spot and then her front is 1/2 way in the spot.

My hubby gets out of the car and she rolls down her window and he says in a CALM way, "Mrs. we were here first, come on now!" She said, "I'm freaking 6 months preganant and I dont care if you were here first, I wanna park my car and go home!" Since she pulled the preggo card my hubby replies with,"well my wife is 3 months pregnant... that has nothing to do with it!"

He then comes back in the car and I tell him let me try to talk to her, woman to woman... maybe she will be more receptive. So I go to ger window and she rolls it down and says, "*** do you want?" I said, "I dont want to fight, you know we were here before you even got onto the block".... THEN she takes out this piece of paper from her glove compartment and says,"you see this piece of paper b*itch Its my connection to the cops,I work for them and have a hookup, Im calling the cops right now and you'll see what happens to you".

At that point I get back into my car and I was telling my husband I think we should just let the crazzy woman take the spot, but he refused... he insisted that it has nothing to do with the spot... he said its about the principal behind it and she shouldnt be throwing her weight around just because she has a "hook up" with the cops. So we wait... her in her car and us in our car both of us half way in the spot and about 20 cars BLOCKED on the street b/c they cant pass through!! IT WAS RIDICULOUS!!

My husband told me to call 911 from our phone, so I did. While I was on the phone with them is seems like she called over a family member or friend and it was a guy that honestly looked really scary, like a thug. He BANGS on our car window and starts cursing and the 911 operator told us not to engage and keep the windows closed. 5 minutes later the guy screams through the glass... "FINE you want the spot, I'll tell her to leave but watch out I got all your car info and im gonna come after you". So the lady speeds out of the spot and we park. 2 minutes later the cops come.

We told the cops that they were too late and the lady and the other guy drove off already... but we told him that the guy threatned us and he said he would go patrol the block to look for them. Come to find out they find them a block away, they were both sitting in the car (this is like 10mins later). This worried us a lot... why were they waiting there...I was thinking our car was gonna get demolished if we left it there.

The cops question them and question us and run all our license plates/drivers licenses in the sysytem.. they come back to us and say "Im sorry she threw the fact that she a 'hook up' around. The guy she is with is dangerous and has a record thats why we are questioning him, since he threatned you its up to you.. what do you want to do?" I told him I dont wanna make it a bigger issue than it already is but im scared of the guy and my car. The police officer assured me that I shouldnt move my car because if anything happens to it they are going straight to the guy.

We walked home but the cops stayed with them for a good 1/2 hour after that.

Whew! if you read all that you are a trooper!! What do you guys think HONESTLY!!! Be honest... were we wrong? What would you have done?

P.S. our car is in the same spot we left it in and snowed in... I hope its ok!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/10 11:45 AM
 
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kabo0831
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

wow there are crazy ppl out there, You were so right!!!! im glad that you and your dh are ok!

Posted 2/10/10 11:52 AM
 

shiv
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

omg how nuts and scary! we lived in forest hills, so I know what it's like with spots, I also would not have given up the spot- especially for a lame arse move like that! Glad you an DH were together and that the cops helped you guys out!

Posted 2/10/10 11:57 AM
 

MelissaMac
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

Wow.. that sounded scary! Glad your okay

Posted 2/10/10 12:03 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

What a biotch -- and her stupid thug friend.

You did the right thing. Chances are they did some type of report, like a stop & frisk with the information. If something did happen to your car, you could go to the precinct and explain what happened. Make sure you mark the day on your calendar of when it happened.

I'm glad the cops questioned that guy and found out about his record. He will think twice about messing with your car, knowing it will come back to him.

And that woman was a 1st glass b*tch! Who does that crap?

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Posted 2/10/10 12:22 PM
 

MrsSpring
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

wow that is unbelievable some people---and she is going to be a mother? i feel bad for her unborn child!

Posted 2/10/10 12:24 PM
 

mommy2B3
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

honestly, I would find out what this guy has a record of. Do you drive by yourself at night or early morning?

I totally think you were in the right, and I would have done the same thing. However, that doesn't negate the fact that now some crazy woman and guy know your car and your faces. I don't want to scare you, I would just be a bit more careful around your neighborhood when your by yourself, because seriously they sound like nut jobs.

I carry pepper spray for this reason, but I was also trained for it through my old job. Maybe they have a class for it?

Posted 2/10/10 12:26 PM
 

azoodie

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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

Posted by MrsSpring

wow that is unbelievable some people---and she is going to be a mother? i feel bad for her unborn child!



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Posted 2/10/10 12:28 PM
 

Aga
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*** is wrong with people Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/10 12:31 PM
 

d-h2008
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Posted by mrspalomino148

honestly, I would find out what this guy has a record of. Do you drive by yourself at night or early morning?

I totally think you were in the right, and I would have done the same thing. However, that doesn't negate the fact that now some crazy woman and guy know your car and your faces. I don't want to scare you, I would just be a bit more careful around your neighborhood when your by yourself, because seriously they sound like nut jobs.

I carry pepper spray for this reason, but I was also trained for it through my old job. Maybe they have a class for it?



The cops didnt tell me exactly what KIND of record he had... but it must have been bad b/c they detained him for a good amount of time!! Im really scared that they were waiting a block away and they know our faces too but what can I do?? I always come home late from grad class, around 8pmChat Icon I hate this neighborhood and I cant wait till we move out in June. I will ask my hubby about the pepper spray thing though.. is it legal to carry it without training?

Posted 2/10/10 12:33 PM
 

d-h2008
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

Posted by MrsPJB2007

What a biotch -- and her stupid thug friend.

You did the right thing. Chances are they did some type of report, like a stop & frisk with the information. If something did happen to your car, you could go to the precinct and explain what happened. Make sure you mark the day on your calendar of when it happened.

I'm glad the cops questioned that guy and found out about his record. He will think twice about messing with your car, knowing it will come back to him.

And that woman was a 1st glass b*tch! Who does that crap?

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Yes your right... they told me they filed a report,so its on record. Believe me I dont have to mark the calendar the day is BURNT into my head... Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/10 12:35 PM
 

Momma2Be
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

omg that is nuts!! There really are some crazy people out there and to think that she's going to be a mother absolutely boggles my mind.

I agree with a PP about the pepper spray, you can never be too careful.

Posted 2/10/10 1:01 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

Chat Icon You guys did the right thing. WHOA!

Posted 2/10/10 1:07 PM
 

Shop24-7
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

WOW That's insane! I'm glad you are all ok

Posted 2/10/10 1:11 PM
 

Jan1975
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

Holy $hit that is crazy! I would be so scared!! It is amazing how insane people are! Shame on that preggo lady!Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/10 1:22 PM
 

CouponKT
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

I am so glad you called the cops and called her out on her bluff! She put up quite a fight Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/10 1:29 PM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

That is really scary. When I used to live in Queens there were verbal confrontations all the time over parking spots. It's so ridiculous that this is what the world has come to. I hope you stay safe!Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/10 1:31 PM
 

nferrandi
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

I actually just recently read that even better then pepper spray, which needs to be used at close proximity, is wasp spray. It works better and can shoot fairly accurately from a distance.

Posted 2/10/10 1:33 PM
 

Maybe-A-Baby10
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

Wow!! what trash! glad you got your spot!!

Posted 2/10/10 1:34 PM
 

Sweets13
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

This story reminds me of a Seinfeld episode!!!

Ok seriously, you were not wrong and I give you credit for remaining calm! The second the other girl called me a b*tch, I would of dragged her out of the car through the window!

Posted 2/10/10 1:40 PM
 

MrsScott
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

wow that sounds scary I am glad you are ok

Posted 2/10/10 1:42 PM
 

MaMaTeenie
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

you were right, but wrong. I probably would have done the same thing and then realized in retrospect that i should have just drove off and not taken the risk of me, hubby or unborn child being harmed. I'm glad you are all ok, but there are some seriously CRAZY people out there.

Posted 2/10/10 1:51 PM
 

Tine73

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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

I would have just left. It wasn't worth the trouble or the anxiety of having to watch over my shoulder in my own neighborhood.

Posted 2/10/10 1:53 PM
 

FiR4Grif
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

Good for you standing your ground. The cops would have been removing them from my grill.

Posted 2/10/10 1:56 PM
 

ginapie08
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Re: CRAZY STUFF HAPPENED TO DH & I LAST NIGHT!!!(LONG)

WOW. Just wow. Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/10 1:59 PM
 
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