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JennasMom
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Dear Ex Husband
Thank you once again for dissapointing your son on Christmas and his birthday. Thank you also for telling him he's 14 and to get over the fact that his gift would arrive in January, he's getting a computer when does it matter when it gets here. Thank you for telling me to mind my own business when I inquire if your step-daughters will face the same Christmas scenario of late gifts. (of course they will have theirs on time)
But I feel sorry for you, because you have not one iota of what a wonderful young man you have for a son, and how by your behavior alone, he has realized the type of man you are and one he never desires to be.
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CouponKT
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
 to you and DS 
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| Posted 12/29/07 1:46 PM |
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Arodisi
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
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| Posted 12/29/07 1:52 PM |
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Mommy2Boys
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
It will hit your ex once your son is old enough to realize what an a$$hole his father is and that he wants nothing to do with him. I am sorry he hurts your son like that.
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| Posted 12/29/07 1:55 PM |
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jgm26
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
What a d i c k. I'm sorry !
Message edited 12/29/2007 2:06:12 PM.
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| Posted 12/29/07 2:05 PM |
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nymommy2be
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
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| Posted 12/29/07 2:07 PM |
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dcl08
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
Posted by jellybean1420
It will hit your ex once your son is old enough to realize what an a$$hole his father is and that he wants nothing to do with him. I am sorry he hurts your son like that.
exactly!!! i was in the exact situation my father remarried a few times and my brother and i always got the **** end of the stick meanwhile he went out of his way for whatver step-children he had at the time...as of recently i decided i no longer want him in my life and i dont feel bad at all. Your son will feel the same way...its the fathers that i feel bad for ( not even bad but they are pathetic) my "father" will never have the chance to see his grandchild that is on the way its HIM thats going to be missing out on my life as well as his grandchilds but he dug his own hole now he has to live in it...sorry this is so long but this just aggrevates me how so many fathers dont have their priority straight but to make a long story short try not to stress to much over it my mom did everythign she could to try and make him realize he was going to lose us when we grew up and i have more respect than ever for her now
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| Posted 12/29/07 2:10 PM |
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I hate men like this(and some women as well)
I dont understand how you can hurt your own child but treat a stepchild llike gold.....it makes no sense to me
dd has a friend whose father treats his own kids like $hit but the stepkid like a teasure
its disgusting
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| Posted 12/29/07 2:11 PM |
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stephaniea
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
This made me so sad  Having a 14 yr old son too. Just because they are older they still feel so much. My best friend is also going through similiar things with her ex and son. Just always tell your son that it has nothing to do with him, but its his father. Hugs
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| Posted 12/29/07 2:15 PM |
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jellybean78
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
azzhole
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| Posted 12/29/07 2:16 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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| Posted 12/29/07 2:20 PM |
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JennasMom
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
Thanks everyone, I just feel bad for my son, but he has realized that his bio-father is not someone he can trust or look up to. He came upon this based on his actions, I have always bit my tongue and never bad-mouthed him. He is on wife #4 now and she is a doctor's widow, I'm sure he saw and not when he married her. Let's see if he even manages to call him today for his bday
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:04 PM |
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GoldenRod
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
Hopefully, DS is learning lot of ways of how NOT to be a father. Unfortunately, that's how I learned a lot of things. The good thing is, even if his "father" is an S.O.B., his "Dad" seems to be pretty good, so hopefully he'll pick up good habits and ideals from his current Dad, and learn what not to do from his "father".....
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:05 PM |
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JennasMom
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
He calls his stepfather "Dad" and his bio-dad by his first name
I am very fortunate that my DH considers him his son and treats him like he was his own
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:09 PM |
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aja
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
I'm so mad at him and I don't even know him!!!
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:17 PM |
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Charly
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
Posted by jellybean1420
It will hit your ex once your son is old enough to realize what an a$$hole his father is and that he wants nothing to do with him. I am sorry he hurts your son like that.
ITA. My dad did the same thing to us. Now none of us even have a relationship with him. His loss and his own fault...
Sorry your son has to deal with this
Message edited 12/29/2007 3:21:23 PM.
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:21 PM |
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justthe4ofus
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
Michelle I am so sorry that Brandon has to be disappointed again one day his father will come to regret his actions when Brandon grows up a little more has no time for his nor does he want to be bothered with him and he realizes that he is all alone. I have been where Brandon is now so I can speak from experience.
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:22 PM |
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hbugal
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
I hear you!!!
My ex decided that a week of fishing in FLA was more important than spending Christmas with his daughter. He felt he was father of the year b/c he gave me $500 to go Christmas shopping for her...
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:28 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
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And  to your husband for giving your son a great role model.
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:39 PM |
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luckystars3
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:40 PM |
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stayandjohn
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
What an azzhole!!!!!
to your son
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:50 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
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| Posted 12/29/07 3:55 PM |
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msrsfeb
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
what an i d i o t !!!!!
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| Posted 12/29/07 4:30 PM |
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Karen
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Re: Dear Ex Husband
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| Posted 12/29/07 5:46 PM |
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