DH has been saying some things lately...

He's been SOO supportive. Like beyond..

lately though he's making comments about how everywhere he turns there's a pregnant woman or a newborn, etc. And he just wants to get away from them.

He also said that a few guys were wishing him a Happy Father's day.... and there was some guys he works with that didn't know about the mc.

I feel sorry. We have been trying and it just doesn't seem to be working.

Oh and remember that girl with the baby shower?? I found out that as part of her goodbye to DH she did the SAME thing to him... started going on and on about the mc and her pregnancy and telling him that "it will happen soon for use because she can sense it since she's pregnant" and on and on and about the downs syndrome thing and all. He literally told me this like 2 days ago. I thought she only got me. I sure hope she's not questioning our distance from her. I'm going to decline the baby shower on the RSVP date. and mail a gift (to be nice, we are in the same circle of friends and I don't want to be the "bad" one).

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a million and

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I feel like the losses we have gone through are so hard for women - not only are we sad for ourselves, but we take on this guilt-like feeling that we have deprived our dh's of something too. (Atleast I know I struggle with this.) I can understand your sadness...

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we forget that the loss hits our DH hard too...I'm sorry

Re: DH has been saying some things lately...

I'm sorry! I am sure DH is going through a lot too, sometimes they are just better at hiding it.

I hope you get your BFP soon. Keeping u in my prayers.