So i got my on Wednesday so I told him that we had to bd wed and thursday. I was all excited to get started just for me to find out he was too tired to do anything. I mean come on it doesnt take that long. I am so upset by this bc now I think I am out again for this cycle.
What do you think? We bd Monday, Wednesday(the night of my ) and we will friday tonight. Do you think my odds are still good?
The thing that gets me is that he was the one to want to ttc right now. Dont get me wrong I do too but he really wanted to. I just dont get men.
coming from over a year of OPK testing and CBEFM'ing, it took a toll on DH for him to know that when I got my he had to "rise up to the occasion".
BD eventually became a chore and I began to get very agitated with him when he didn't "want to"... I learned after a couple of months not tell him that "we have to BD tonight because..." Instead I just sprang it on him - more spontaneous, KWIM?? and he didn't feel as "used".
IDK how long you've been TTC for, but all I can give is what I know from my own experience.
If you BD'd when you did and are going to again today - I would think that you hit the mark...
Here's lots of for you and try to remember to enjoy this time... TTC should be fun! Not stressful! I've been on this journey for 14 months now... don't let it eat away at you - please...
coming from over a year of OPK testing and CBEFM'ing, it took a toll on DH for him to know that when I got my he had to "rise up to the occasion".
BD eventually became a chore and I began to get very agitated with him when he didn't "want to"... I learned after a couple of months not tell him that "we have to BD tonight because..." Instead I just sprang it on him - more spontaneous, KWIM?? and he didn't feel as "used".
IDK how long you've been TTC for, but all I can give is what I know from my own experience.
If you BD'd when you did and are going to again today - I would think that you hit the mark...
Here's lots of for you and try to remember to enjoy this time... TTC should be fun! Not stressful! I've been on this journey for 14 months now... don't let it eat away at you - please...
on Wednesday so I told him that we had to bd wed and thursday. I was all excited to get started just for me to find out he was too tired to do anything.
