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Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

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CaMacho
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Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

So the other night a guy came banging on my door and was saying "UPS!", but I didn't answer it. I was expecting a package, but DH wasn't home and it was almost 7pm so I decided not to answer it. He banged on the door probably 5 or 6 times.

He ended up leaving the package at our apartment door.

I've never done that, but for some reason I was kinda afraid to open the door. I felt stupid after, but DH said he actually was glad I didn't answer it if they were just going to leave it anyway.

Anyone ever do that?

Posted 12/4/07 4:02 PM
 
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bicosi
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I have done that but in my house, I can see who's at my door because of the glass on the doors. lol

Posted 12/4/07 4:03 PM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I can see too, I have a peephole. Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/07 4:03 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I dont get deliveries at night....only Peapod and that I can see the big truck right outside my window when they pull up.

Posted 12/4/07 4:03 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

No. If I am expecting something, I open the door when it's delivered.

Posted 12/4/07 4:04 PM
 

DaniJude
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

i haven't had that happen - DH has always been home or when i get home it is already left at my door. i have had it where the guy came during the day - and i answered - i saw the truck and him in the uniform.

i think you did the right thing - you never know and there was no harm, no foul b/c he left the package so if his voice and the banging scared you (i would have felt the same way if DH wasn't home) then i wouldn't have answered it either.

sometimes i just don't feel like dealing with them lol and if i know for sure that they will leave it then i don't answer hahah Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/07 4:05 PM
 

imthecindyofcindyandkevin
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I've never gotten deliveries at night (except food, of course), but if I did get something that late I would've done the same as you. I got a knock on the door early one morning and Kevin wasn't up yet, I wasn't going to answer it but then noticed the oil truck at the end of our driveway, he was making a delivery and needed access to the backyard.

ETA: Len was right, Jess. Better safe than sorry!!

Message edited 12/4/2007 4:07:10 PM.

Posted 12/4/07 4:06 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I never answer the door. Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/07 4:07 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

if I was expecting something- and can see the truck outside my window then yes

but they only delivers I ever get at night are fresh direct and my laundry guy- I am not afriad of either one (or anything really- it's bad I guess- but I gernally don't fear much)

Posted 12/4/07 4:09 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I never answer the door if I'm not expecting anyone.

Posted 12/4/07 4:11 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

Posted by bird382

I never answer the door. Chat Icon



I won't even answer the door for a food delivery. If I'm alone and hungry for takeout - I'll go out in negative three degree weather, or starve before opening the door for takeout. It really freaks me out. Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/07 4:17 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I always have the screen/glass door locked -
So if I open the front door, I can see/speak to you, but you can't just open the door and come in -

Posted 12/4/07 4:19 PM
 

roxygrl8
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I used to answer the door when I lived at my moms because we had the same ups guy for years, plus the fact that we have 3 big bernese mountain dogs barking and peeping the heads at the door behind me, lol.

Posted 12/4/07 4:26 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I do if I'm expecting a delivery but am definitely rethinking it after today's posts.Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/07 4:27 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

Yeah, I never answer the door when I'm home alone with DD, my UPS guys are nice though, they just ring the doorbell once then drive away.

Posted 12/4/07 4:31 PM
 

alnem
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

our UPS guy rings and then runs!Chat Icon he rings once and then leaves the package. i think by now he just knows we wont answer lol.

Posted 12/4/07 4:33 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

I get UPS deliveries and pickups as late as 8pm, but they never bang on the door and wait for me to answer unless I have to sign for it and in that case, I usually know what & when it's coming and I make sure to look out the window to see the truck.


BUT FWIW, FedEx sometimes has their employees use their own vehicles when things are busy. One time there was a knock at the door and I couldn't figure out who was in my driveway with a suburban. Turned out it was FedEx and he explained to me how he had to use his private vehicle.

Posted 12/4/07 4:35 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

Posted by Chatham-Chick

I get UPS deliveries and pickups as late as 8pm



Same here!

Posted 12/4/07 4:36 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

Posted by alnem

our UPS guy rings and then runs!Chat Icon he rings once and then leaves the package. i think by now he just knows we wont answer lol.



Same here. By the time I look through the window to see who it is, I see the truck pulling away.
I ALWAYS look/peek out our dining room window. If I don't see a truck, I don't answer.

Message edited 12/4/2007 4:39:06 PM.

Posted 12/4/07 4:38 PM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

Posted by Chatham-Chick

I get UPS deliveries and pickups as late as 8pm, but they never bang on the door and wait for me to answer unless I have to sign for it



After he left the package at the door I was wondering why he was banging so many times if I didn't even have to sign for it.

Posted 12/4/07 4:39 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

Posted by alnem

our UPS guy rings and then runs!Chat Icon he rings once and then leaves the package. i think by now he just knows we wont answer lol.


my guy does the same, rings and then leaves the package at the front door

Posted 12/4/07 4:57 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

No I would not answer the door! I would be nervous! My alarm is right next to the front door but still I do admit I'm afraid of my own shadow!

Posted 12/4/07 5:02 PM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

If DH is not home I do not answer the door. Better safe than sorry!

Posted 12/4/07 5:02 PM
 

J9-13
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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

Posted by CaMacho

I can see too, I have a peephole. Chat Icon



Yup! I've done it!! BTW....I HATE how hard they bang on the door! It scares the crap out of me. That is part of the reason why I don't want to answer it. lol. I understand they want to make their presence known by banging and yelling "UPS" but like you said Jess, they leave it anyway so just ring the bell and leave it!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/07 5:04 PM
 

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Re: Do you answer the door at night for deliveries?

Posted by DeniseMarie

If DH is not home I do not answer the door. Better safe than sorry!



I never answer the door if my DH is not home- esp at night.
I'm very very scared of everything! Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/07 5:07 PM
 
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