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Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

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Bridex100
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Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

I stopped buying my friends xmas gifts a while ago. I bought my friends' kids gifts last year.

Just wondering if other parents buy their friends' kids gifts for the holidays.

Posted 12/6/10 1:24 PM
 
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monkeybride
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

No way. There is no way we could all afford that. They kids get enough as it is. I honestly would rather pool our money toward a family in need than buy for our kids who have more than enough.

Posted 12/6/10 1:33 PM
 

nferrandi
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

We do Secret Santa and get one kid each to buy for. They when have a kiddie party where they exchange gifts, do a craft and decorate cookies. Easier and cheaper that way! I have phased out buying for my other friends' kids because there's just too many now.

Posted 12/6/10 1:34 PM
 

eddiesmommy
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

no way.

Posted 12/6/10 1:34 PM
 

Lucky
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

No. I have specific friends in which we exchange gifts for our children. It's only a few friends.

Posted 12/6/10 1:37 PM
 

LoveyQ
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

Well my BFF, her first son is my Godson, so of course. Her second son I will also buy for. She's like my sister though.

I also shop for my other BF's DD Chat Icon and for another friend's DD.

No other friends' kids.

Posted 12/6/10 1:38 PM
 

computergirl
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

No way, it's just too much.

Posted 12/6/10 1:40 PM
 

littlejoy06
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

I used to, but it just got so crazy and since my DD's Birthday is two days after Christmas, we stopped.

Posted 12/6/10 1:41 PM
 

DmarieK
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

I exchange with my 4 girlfriends and their 7 kids. Every year we pick a date in Dec that works for of us and celebrate Christmas. It def adds up money wise but we've been doing it for years...well before I had my boys.

Posted 12/6/10 1:42 PM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

Just one couple and their kids who we are very close w/ and do a lot w/ together -

Posted 12/6/10 1:45 PM
 

sasha96
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

Posted by DmarieK

I exchange with my 4 girlfriends and their 7 kids. Every year we pick a date in Dec that works for of us and celebrate Christmas. It def adds up money wise but we've been doing it for years...well before I had my boys.



this is what we're doing but we have a $5-10 cap on the gifts.

Posted 12/6/10 1:48 PM
 

nferrandi
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

Posted by sasha96

Posted by DmarieK

I exchange with my 4 girlfriends and their 7 kids. Every year we pick a date in Dec that works for of us and celebrate Christmas. It def adds up money wise but we've been doing it for years...well before I had my boys.



this is what we're doing but we have a $5-10 cap on the gifts.



Lucky you! We have a $35 limit and since I have two kids, I have to buy for two kids.

Posted 12/6/10 2:04 PM
 

sasha96
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

Posted by nferrandi

Posted by sasha96

Posted by DmarieK

I exchange with my 4 girlfriends and their 7 kids. Every year we pick a date in Dec that works for of us and celebrate Christmas. It def adds up money wise but we've been doing it for years...well before I had my boys.



this is what we're doing but we have a $5-10 cap on the gifts.



Lucky you! We have a $35 limit and since I have two kids, I have to buy for two kids.



wow! for us, it is just something small as a nice gesture from the kids to each other. I do buy for more than 2 kids though...3 toddlers and 2 babies....but my total spending on them this year was $30. I don't exchange with other friends/kids.

Message edited 12/6/2010 2:08:53 PM.

Posted 12/6/10 2:08 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

Posted by Lucky

No. I have specific friends in which we exchange gifts for our children. It's only a few friends.



Same here, 3 separate families, 6 kids total.

Posted 12/6/10 2:49 PM
 

Ophelia
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

I do. just a little something. you can get something cute for very little $$ so I try to.

Posted 12/6/10 2:56 PM
 

Chai77
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

Nope. Can't afford it.

Posted 12/6/10 2:58 PM
 

Kelly9904
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

Only close friends.
My BF's kids (one is my god son though)
My DH's BF son

And this year maybe 2-3 other kids (just something small) with people I Have become really close with and our kids play all the time!~

Posted 12/6/10 2:58 PM
 

ali120206
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

No - there are too many kids.

I do like the grab bag/holiday party idea though, that sounds cute!

Posted 12/6/10 2:58 PM
 

BellaRock
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

No. I can barely make it buying my kids and my family.

Posted 12/6/10 2:59 PM
 

Dollface
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

I bought gifts for three of my friends' kids this year. I'm very close with two of them and we have a play group and the other is a work friend who is on the same"team" as I am and I never bought her son a bris/welcome to the world gift, so I made up for it at Hanukkah.

Posted 12/6/10 3:02 PM
 

Rycois
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

I was the first of my group of friends to have children. They all bought for DS1 for his first Christmas - I think it was the novelty of a baby in the group.

Now they are starting to have kids. I probably will get something for 1st holidays but thereafter, no way - it gets to be too much, and unnecessary.

Posted 12/6/10 3:08 PM
 

organichic
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

I have 2 friends that I am close with.. they invited one more friend and we are doing a grab bag - $20 maximum.

Posted 12/6/10 4:29 PM
 

maymama
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

i only bought for 2 of jacks friends - non-family.

Posted 12/6/10 4:55 PM
 

carolyns4cupcakes
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

no- only birthdays.

Posted 12/6/10 4:56 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: Do you buy xmas gifts for your friends' kids?

I only buy gifts for my 3 closest friends kids. Thankfully each only has 1 kid for nowChat Icon so it's 3 gifts in total.
My friends and I stopped exchanging gifts with each other...instead we end up doing a girls night out. This year we're going ice skating.

Posted 12/6/10 5:05 PM
 
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