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04bride
I'm a big sister!!!
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do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
I admit i have done this but not 100% sure they werent home just kinda hoping HAHA
But yesterday was my birthday and my sister leaves a message on my home machine at 2pm, now she and i both teach, she knows i am not home, sayign happy birthday.We had a disagreement about a month ago and i am not wriong and i think she knows she is wrong so she calls when i am not home leaving the ball in my court UGHH just be an adult and call when you know im home.
do you do this
did it happen to you?
Message edited 12/14/2007 8:47:35 AM.
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JennZ
MY LIFE!!
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
I do I HATE the phone. So I always try to RSVP, change plans or whatever when people arent there. Im guilty of this A LOT.
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| Posted 12/14/07 8:50 AM |
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dm24angel
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Yes I do this
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| Posted 12/14/07 8:50 AM |
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04bride
I'm a big sister!!!
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
oh i am queen of doing thsi for rsvps especially when i dont know the people so well like say a coworker of dh.He makes me call like i know these people. But your sister on her bday come on now
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| Posted 12/14/07 8:57 AM |
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Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!
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Professional Aunts No Kids
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
yes I do this especially if I just really need to leave a message for someone...
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:00 AM |
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ali120206
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
For a birthday call, no... For an RSVP, yes... I hate it when I think they aren't home and then they answer!
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:02 AM |
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Christine
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
I would tend to give her the benefit of the doubt because it is your sister on your birthday. Maybe she had something scheduled for the afternoon, thought of you and wanted to give you birthday wishes when it was on her mind?
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:02 AM |
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LIMOMx2
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Posted by JennZ
I do I HATE the phone. So I always try to RSVP, change plans or whatever when people arent there. Im guilty of this A LOT.
me too
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:03 AM |
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04bride
I'm a big sister!!!
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Posted by Christine
I would tend to give her the benefit of the doubt because it is your sister on your birthday. Maybe she had something scheduled for the afternoon, thought of you and wanted to give you birthday wishes when it was on her mind?
I would excpet fo rteh fact that we had thsi disagreement a montha go where she basically hungup aon me for no reason and now i thinks he is ryign to make ammends. be anadult and call and apoligize..
i agree when i expect them not to be homeand they are omg its the worst
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Christine
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Have you talked to her since the argument? If so, I think you are reading too much into the phone message. If not, then maybe you are right. She's not ready to talk to you but didn't want to let your birthday pass without saying happy birthday. Either way, it's a step in the right direction towards reconciling.
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TreAnt427
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
I do this too I call when I know they are at work so I can leave a voicemail.
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:23 AM |
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Katie111806
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
most definitely
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:24 AM |
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J9-13
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Posted by ali120206
For a birthday call, no... For an RSVP, yes... I hate it when I think they aren't home and then they answer!
Yeah, I wouldn't call to wish someone a Happy Birthday knowing they weren't home and leave a message. I would call to RSVP to something or to remind someone of something...things like that.
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:30 AM |
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04bride
I'm a big sister!!!
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Posted by Christine
Have you talked to her since the argument? If so, I think you are reading too much into the phone message. If not, then maybe you are right. She's not ready to talk to you but didn't want to let your birthday pass without saying happy birthday. Either way, it's a step in the right direction towards reconciling.
no we have not spoken since she hung up on me.
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:35 AM |
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Wendy
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Posted by Christine
Have you talked to her since the argument? If so, I think you are reading too much into the phone message. If not, then maybe you are right. She's not ready to talk to you but didn't want to let your birthday pass without saying happy birthday. Either way, it's a step in the right direction towards reconciling.
I agree.
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:39 AM |
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eroxgirl
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
I'm sure she wasn't ready to speak with you yet, or uncomfortable since you haven't spoken since your argument and that's why she called while you weren't home... but at the same time she didn't want to let your birthday go by without birthday wishes.
In my family, you would not have received a call - period - so I have to give your sister a little credit for at least doing the right thing and wishing you a happy birthday. Not that my family is a good example because they're not, but just to show you how some other families can be.
Happy (belated) birthday!
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| Posted 12/14/07 9:43 AM |
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antoinette
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
yes I try to do this!
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MrsPornStar
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
I have done this. Usually, it's because I just need to tell the person something that can wait and I don't want to bother them at work. However, I have also done this when I need to convey something but am not in the mood to talk.
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| Posted 12/14/07 10:00 AM |
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tiki03
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Posted by dm24angel
Yes I do this
I sometimes do this to
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| Posted 12/14/07 10:04 AM |
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drewsgirl
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
yep im guilty
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| Posted 12/14/07 10:27 AM |
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Karen
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
definitely! especially when it is just a RSVP type of thing.
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| Posted 12/14/07 10:33 AM |
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Chrisnamy
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Yes, I do call people when they aren't home and leave a msg, but i try and call back when they are home.
Happy Birthday!
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MarisaK
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
I will do it for an RSVP if I don't really know the person (like if I get invited to a friend's baby/bridal shower and don't really know the person I'm RSVPing to) - But I HATE when people do it at SUCH obvuious times. - I have a cousin who calls at like, 3 PM during the week. - Ummmmmmm, Ok- I know you're a teacher and get off at 2:30 - but I work in the city, and you know I get home at 7 .......If you REALLY want to talk to me and touch base, WHY would you call me at home 4 hours before you know I will be there ?? - I can understand if you call at 7 and I'm not there, Ok fine. - But really? 3:00 during the week ?? And then say "Oh I call you ALL the time and try SO hard to keep in touch" ........ ??
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Akajt98
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
I am guilty of doing this....espcially if I know I owe someone a call and I am just not in the mood to chat it up. This way at least they know I am thinking of them 
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Diane
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Re: do you ever call someone KNOWING they arent home
Posted by JennZ
I do I HATE the phone. So I always try to RSVP, change plans or whatever when people arent there. Im guilty of this A LOT.
me too
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