do you hold on to grudges or

let them go?

would you ever give a second chance to someone that did you wrong?

Re: do you hold on to grudges or

hold on

I have been in situations where I have been forced to give second changes, however I do not soon forgive or forget.

Message edited 6/9/2006 10:33:21 PM.

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depends on what was done...

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depends on who did what to me....

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I usually let them go, it depends on what they did.

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I used to hold on BUT now I have learned to let go NOT all the way but a lot more then before

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usually not but depends who and what happened. It usually makes me look at the person in a different light though.

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right now i am in a situation with a friend right now No one you know. well the girl i told you about that is getting married next year i am not talking to her now. so i am really mad at her.

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I hold on...

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im selective

certain people and certain things i forget
other people and other things i will always remember

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I don't hold on to grudges. I do forgive...but I have a really hard time forgetting. And if it isn't my fault I won't apologize unless I want that person in my life. I have an all too easy way of cutting people out of my life that I have nothing in common with any longer.

But with fam and stuff...I usually svck it up and make the first move if they're being proud...and then I forgive AND forget. I love my family. Crazy and all...they're all mine! DOn't be jealous!

ETA: I didn't answer your question...yes, I do believe in SECOND chances...not thirds and fourths, etc. If it's something so routine that it's become abusive, I cut the person out until we can both talk about it/move on.

Message edited 6/10/2006 9:39:53 AM.

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hold on

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umm...it's hard to say depends on what that person did wrong/how bad it was but i try not to hold grudges

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i don't hold onto grudges. BUT, i also dont give someone else a second chance to screw me over.

So, i dont continue to feel animosity towards that person, but i just cut that person out of my lfie, basically.

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This is funny because me and my fh were just talking about this. I usually let them go unless it was something pretty bad. He's actually fighting with his friend that was going to be our bestman at the wedding so I'm trying to see if they can work it out. Not looking good though, he just said he doesn't think he even wants to invite him to the wedding

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I give second chances then realize in the long run i shouldnt have! Or as FH would say i burry the hatchet but leave the handle sticking out

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Totally depends on what was done. Usually though, even if I try to forgive, I cannot forget. So I guess I hold onto them more times than not.

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for the most part hold on..... but there have been times, Ive "let it go"