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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Do you know people
i sure do
my avatar says it all
with some people it's like going fishing, and they keep telling you how big the fish is that they caught and the more they tell the story, the bigger the fish becomes
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Posted 3/27/06 9:51 PM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
Name: MrsERod™®
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Re: Do you know people
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
i sure do
my avatar says it all
with some people it's like going fishing, and they keep telling you how big the fish is that they caught and the more they tell the story, the bigger the fish becomes
some fish are as big as a car....or even a boat!!!
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Posted 3/27/06 9:52 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Do you know people
exactly - -i have seen this "one upman ship" on a daily basis and it sickens me
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Posted 3/27/06 9:54 PM |
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Shanti
True love
Member since 6/05 12653 total posts
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Posted 3/27/06 9:55 PM |
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peabody
Love green icing!!!
Member since 5/05 4691 total posts
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Re: Do you know people
Yeah, I have a friend like that.
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Posted 3/27/06 10:29 PM |
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evenedan
Need a little sunshine
Member since 9/05 3843 total posts
Name: D
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Re: Do you know people
I think everyone knows someone like that.
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Posted 3/27/06 11:54 PM |
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Re: Do you know people
I think I do that sometimes, mostly to help the person feel like I can relate to their vent, commiserate with them, etc. not to use it as a segway to my problems, not at all.
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Posted 3/28/06 12:37 AM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: Do you know people
I think Im guilty of this too I also know people who do this.
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Posted 3/28/06 6:58 AM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
Name: Genna
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Re: Do you know people
I know people that do this...I just try not to talk them if I dont have to!
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Posted 3/28/06 8:48 AM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
Member since 5/05 13199 total posts
Name: Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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Re: Do you know people
Yes, I had a friend like that and I had to cut her off. You know, I'm calling to tell you that my grandfather is in the hospital...oh, I'm so sorry, what flavor ice cream should I get, I can't decide?
It's been 4 years, and I've never regretted it for a minute....
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Posted 3/28/06 8:51 AM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
Member since 5/05 27530 total posts
Name: me
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Re: Do you know people
YES YES YES! I know someone like this! Sometimes, when I have nothing else to say, I find that I just relate what they're saying to myself, however, I try to be conscientious about blabbing about myself.
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Posted 3/28/06 9:08 AM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime
Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name: Mama
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Re: Do you know people
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
exactly - -i have seen this "one upman ship" on a daily basis and it sickens me
Me too! I have a friend who will actually say, "I can do you one better..." when I am talking about my feelings or something that has happened.
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Posted 3/28/06 9:11 AM |
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Ookpik
LIF Adolescent
Member since 3/06 726 total posts
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Re: Do you know people
I've known a lot of people like that!!!
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Posted 3/28/06 9:21 AM |
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
Member since 5/05 17334 total posts
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Re: Do you know people
YES! I know someone like this. I can never go to her with my issues because it ALWAYS becomes about HER. And she's also one of those self-drama-creators.
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Posted 3/28/06 9:38 AM |
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FeliciaDP
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Member since 5/05 18599 total posts
Name: Mommy
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Re: Do you know people
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
exactly - -i have seen this "one upman ship" on a daily basis and it sickens me
Here here, Captain ... HERE HERE
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Posted 3/28/06 9:39 AM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
Name: MrsERod™®
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Re: Do you know people
Posted by BabyAvocado
YES! I know someone like this. I can never go to her with my issues because it ALWAYS becomes about HER. And she's also one of those self-drama-creators.
blech!! i know EXACTLY what you mean!!
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Posted 3/28/06 9:42 AM |
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MommyofG
just the girls
Member since 5/05 9461 total posts
Name: Janice
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Re: Do you know people
and they go on and on, dwell and dwell, always bring up the same thing over and over again- bleh even from the past- nothing better in thier life but to bring up the old and go on and on, like nothing is new or good in their life and yours is unimportant or they are so jealous they have to constantly bring up things just to feel better about themselves. so it becomes about them and only them-
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Posted 3/28/06 9:48 AM |
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Boobobunny
Live in the Present
Member since 5/05 3572 total posts
Name: Dannielle
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Re: Do you know people
Ms. Important at my office does this.
I just assume its because she is lonely and just wants something to add to the conversation...its kind of sad actually.
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Posted 3/28/06 9:50 AM |
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Lichi
what what!?
Member since 5/05 4206 total posts
Name: Lissette
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Re: Do you know people
Posted by evenedan I think everyone knows someone like that. Definitely. It's just up to each one of us whether we deal with it or not. I've limited conversations with people like that. It really bothers me, but then it makes me feel like I'm selfish, because all I want to do is vent about MY issues 1st... And I'm SO not a one-upper!
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Posted 3/28/06 9:52 AM |
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Stefanie
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Member since 5/05 23599 total posts
Name: Stefanie
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Re: Do you know people
YES!!! It's so annoying...
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Posted 3/28/06 10:58 AM |
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LAMGAJ28
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Re: Do you know people
Posted by nrthshgrl
Posted by baghag
Ohhhhh yes.
ETA: I should keep a weekly log of their problems. When a year goes by, and not a week passes without the person having some kind of breakdown, do you think they'd realize they have a problem?
This sounds horrible to say - but I've cut off friendships with people that have too much drama in their lives. Not bad things happen, but self created dramas. Just too emotionally draining.
Thanks for making me laugh about it.
I've done this as well. Anyone or anything that creates any type of emotional draining in my life is out. I've also cut off relationships if they get to that point.
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Posted 3/28/06 11:05 AM |
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raken40
soooo in love:)
Member since 5/05 4369 total posts
Name: Karen
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Re: Do you know people
i hate this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i work with someone that does this...i cant stand it! sometimes i dont even get to finish what i'm complaining about before she cuts in about her problems and then i just look at her and think to myself- um...okay, what are we talking about?
its so annoying
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Posted 3/28/06 11:06 AM |
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capricorn75
J-E-T-S
Member since 5/05 1645 total posts
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Re: Do you know people
Yes My BIL and his wife are like that. Separately they're bad enough but put them together.....
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Posted 3/28/06 11:54 AM |
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ggt08
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Re: Do you know people
Posted by girlygrl33
and they go on and on, dwell and dwell, always bring up the same thing over and over again- bleh even from the past- nothing better in thier life but to bring up the old and go on and on, like nothing is new or good in their life and yours is unimportant or they are so jealous they have to constantly bring up things just to feel better about themselves. so it becomes about them and only them-
wow, sounds like you are describing someone you know very well to a tee!
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Posted 3/28/06 5:49 PM |
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Pumpkin
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 3353 total posts
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Re: Do you know people
there is a girl at work, I am going to lose it on her. She is a one upper and constantly turing conversations about her. She also talks about how good she looks, she lost weight, constantly bragging. I am on my last nerve with her. Every time you turn around she is bragging about something and we hve to listen to her life. UGHH sorry for the vent.
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Posted 3/28/06 6:57 PM |
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