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Do you really care what people on here think?

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2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by Lanabean

No. I know who I am and what I'm about; I don't judge anyone, and I don't think anyone here really knows me....and if I said something that upset someone, that person is entitled to her opinion so whatever.



Same here.

Posted 6/15/07 3:46 PM
 
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mommy2bella
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by mommy2bella

Posted by nrthshgrl

If it's someone who I think is intelligent & valued their opinion, then yes I care.

If it's someone who I think...um...less of...then I don't.



exactly...the main reason I started posting on here was as a new, clueless mommy in desperate need of help in not screwing up my infant...
I have MANY women to than for that...



Oh, so now you're sayig I'm responsible for you screwing up Bella! Hmpf...not answering your *&@#@ posts again.


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PIMP, never looked at it as people to blame...AWESOME...

but funny how no one "cares" but many panties get in a bunch when a post goes awry.

Posted 6/15/07 3:49 PM
 

antoinette
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

To an extent I do, I get many ideas and feedback for my issues and problems and I use much of the advice so I hope that I can give back the same.

Posted 6/15/07 3:50 PM
 

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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

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PIMP, never looked at it as people to blame...AWESOME...

but funny how no one "cares" but many panties get in a bunch when a post goes awry.


Ohhhh don't get me wrong - I don't care about MYSELF, only when OTHERS make arses of themselves! That's when I get my panties in a bunch Chat Icon

Posted 6/15/07 3:51 PM
 

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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by nrthshgrl

If it's someone who I think is intelligent & valued their opinion, then yes I care.

If it's someone who I think...um...less of...then I don't.



I pretty much agree with this.

I tend to stay away from some of the more controversial topics because I often think my point of view can't come across clearly in a post I am trying to write in the middle of working.

I know I am not a moron so if someone were to imply that I am one I would just say pffftt to that. Chat Icon

Posted 6/15/07 3:56 PM
 

SoinLove
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

I used to care...a LOT too, but I don't any more.

Posted 6/15/07 3:57 PM
 

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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by nrthshgrl

If it's someone who I think is intelligent & valued their opinion, then yes I care.

If it's someone who I think...um...less of...then I don't.



ITA!

Posted 6/15/07 3:59 PM
 

JenandMikey
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by Theresa05

If you know your a nice person why worry? Often times things are misunderstood via the internet...

I don't think anyone should get upset or think things are that serious!



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Posted 6/15/07 4:01 PM
 

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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Nah, I don't really care what people here think of me - to me - this is not real life - I don't know anyone on here personally.

Plus, I don't recall ever being judgemental or biotchy to anyone on here.

I'm really just a casual poster. I post a lot - but I don't generally create topics, so I think my significance on this board is pretty insignificant!
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Posted 6/15/07 4:03 PM
 

alisonggg
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by 4ForMe

I try not to care what people think (it's hard not to), but I do think some people are too judgemental - not just here but in life in general.

I try to live by "don't judge someone unless you have walked in their shoes."



this is pretty much how I feel

Posted 6/15/07 4:09 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by MelToddJulia

Posted by Theresa05

If you know your a nice person why worry? Often times things are misunderstood via the internet...

I don't think anyone should get upset or think things are that serious!





ITA!!

i agree

Posted 6/15/07 4:16 PM
 

pmpkn087
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by mommy2bella

but funny how no one "cares" but many panties get in a bunch when a post goes awry.



ITA!!!! I think way too many people on this site care what other posters think.

You can never truely get to know someone on the internet. There are other things to consider like facial expressions, body language, etc. You could "like" someone on here, but then come to find out they are a complete and utter moron IRL. Don't forget, when you type up a response, you can edit it as many times as you like before you post it and make it sound just the way you want it to. But, that can also be misconstrued.

Message edited 6/15/2007 4:46:00 PM.

Posted 6/15/07 4:45 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

There are only a few people on here whose opinion of me I care about...anyone else I just don't give a ....Chat Icon

Posted 6/15/07 4:46 PM
 

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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Maybe it's b/c I'm an emotional neurotic preggo, but I do seem to care. I invest a lot of my time and thoughts to the posts and if I said I didn't get upset sometimes I would be lying. It actually makes me feel a bit pathetic to admit it though...

Posted 6/15/07 4:47 PM
 

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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by chikita315

Being that this site is full of glass-dwelling living rock throwers, I don't air anything I care for people to comment on in the first place.

So I guess, to an extent I care, but I care to NOT hear a lot of non sense from people who don't know me.

If it's serious, I keep it to the people I care about and vice versa. I keep most of my posts to the trivial



Same here

Posted 6/15/07 4:48 PM
 

DRMom
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by chikita315

Being that this site is full of glass-dwelling living rock throwers, I don't air anything I care for people to comment on in the first place.

So I guess, to an extent I care, but I care to NOT hear a lot of non sense from people who don't know me.

If it's serious, I keep it to the people I care about and vice versa. I keep most of my posts to the trivial and my Dottie of course. Everyone loves a cute dog.

Now if someone said Dottie was disgusting we'd have problems.



I love your writing style. You always make me laugh

Posted 6/15/07 5:14 PM
 

july06bride
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by Tracey

Nah, I don't really care what people here think of me - to me - this is not real life - I don't know anyone on here personally.

Plus, I don't recall ever being judgemental or biotchy to anyone on here.

I'm really just a casual poster. I post a lot - but I don't generally create topics, so I think my significance on this board is pretty insignificant!
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I agree on all accounts for myself ...
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Posted 6/15/07 5:16 PM
 

MrsDiamondgrlie
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

I am on here pretty often so yes, I do care.

Posted 6/15/07 5:31 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

yes. big time.
i am very opininated, brash, honest & "loud"....

but it really does matter to me what people think. not just on here but in "real life" as well.
its always been a problem of mine. DH is always saying to me "who cares what ppl think of you". i do. not sure why.

i may have a tough exterior, but i'm actually a pretty sensative person.

Posted 6/15/07 5:33 PM
 

dandr10199
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by nrthshgrl

If it's someone who I think is intelligent & valued their opinion, then yes I care.

If it's someone who I think...um...less of...then I don't.



ITA! It depends on who it is.Chat Icon

Posted 6/15/07 5:44 PM
 

munchkinbugs
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

I don't care because I know that what we all say can come across the wrong way sometimes. So, I'm not going to worry about it.

Posted 6/15/07 5:47 PM
 

codybear
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

Posted by MichaelsMommy

I'm not sure - I know I wouldn't want anyone thinking I was a complete moron and I also wouldn't want them thinking I was some horrible b*tch. I do watch my words when I "talk" here to avoid any Chat Icon in my direction...



agreed!

Posted 6/15/07 5:52 PM
 

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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

It depends on who it is. I've made some pretty great friends from the LIF/LIW boards so I look at the nice people as potential friends. Whether it stays online or we meet in person.

But once I write people off, any emotion associated to them & their posts is gone. Good or bad. Very seldom does someone prove me wrong once I've made that decision because I don't do this lightly.

I'm just not into wasting my time on people who aren't here to be open, honest, and get to know others.

Posted 6/15/07 6:03 PM
 

LittleBlueBug
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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

It's hard to completely not care...even though no one (except for 1 or 2 people) on here would know who I was if they saw me on the street.

I guess I care when I think someone has gotten the wrong message.

Posted 6/15/07 6:37 PM
 

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Re: Do you really care what people on here think?

If I unintentionally hurt someone's feelings with a post, I would care and feel bad about it...

but that is the only time I would get upset or care if someone thought negatively of me on here

Posted 6/15/07 8:14 PM
 
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