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Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

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KateDevine
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Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

So, my mom asked me today what picture I used for my Christmas card and I told her and then asked why and she goes "Oh no reason" but with a "tone"Chat Icon

So, I ask again and she says "well, I think I ordered the same one, you know, to send out with my cards"

I had NO idea she sends out pics of my kid in her Christmas cardChat Icon

It doesn't annoy me, but would it annoy you?Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 6:57 PM
 
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Goldi0218
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Please take no offense, but it is not a grandmother's place to send your child's pictures to anyone without asking you first. I would be RIPPING mad if my MIL did that. My mother would never have done that.

ETA: She could have asked you to send it instead - that would have been fine. I just think its not her place.

Message edited 12/2/2008 7:04:36 PM.

Posted 12/2/08 7:03 PM
 

divamommy
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Be grateful! That is so sweet that your mom loves your babies so much that she brags through her cards. My mom just passed away and I hate that I have to go through pregnancy and raise my chikdren without her. Really, that is adorable.

Posted 12/2/08 7:03 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by Goldi0218

Please take no offense, but it is not a grandmother's place to send your child's pictures to anyone without asking you first. I would be RIPPING mad if my MIL did that. My mother would never have done that.

ETA: She could have asked you to send it instead - that would have been fine. I just think its not her place.



I should add that she is sending them to her friends, not people I send Christmas cards to, does that change your opinion?Chat Icon

And do you think you offended me? NahhhhChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 7:05 PM
 

aliwnec10
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

I think it's hysterical!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon The fact that you chose the same picture... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I would not be offended at all. Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 7:30 PM
 

Gatsbygirl
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Shows you and your mom think alike! I know my mom has sent a photo or two of DS to my Uncle out of state and I have not been upset at all Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 7:31 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by aliwnec10

I think it's hysterical!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon The fact that you chose the same picture... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I would not be offended at all. Chat Icon



And that I didn't know....AND she did it last year?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 7:32 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by Goldi0218

Please take no offense, but it is not a grandmother's place to send your child's pictures to anyone without asking you first. I would be RIPPING mad if my MIL did that. My mother would never have done that.

ETA: She could have asked you to send it instead - that would have been fine. I just think its not her place.




ITA!

Posted 12/2/08 7:34 PM
 

Michi
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

I think its soo cute! Shes obviously proud of her grandbabes! I dont think its weird, now if a stranger was sending out pics of ur kids thats diff but its grandma! :)

Posted 12/2/08 7:35 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by KateDevine

I should add that she is sending them to her friends, not people I send Christmas cards to, does that change your opinion?Chat Icon




Now that's just odd.

Posted 12/2/08 7:43 PM
 

Lillykat
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

No I don't think it is strange - my mom takes one of our christmas photos and makes wallets out of it and sends it to her friends in their christmas cards - they are all old family friends so they know me but aren't people I send cards to. I don't have an issue with it. I know a lot of grandparents who send out pictures of their grandkids. Now if my MIL did it I'm not sure how I would feel but I don't care if my parents do it.

Posted 12/2/08 7:57 PM
 

mikeswife06
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

My mom my mom! I think it's cute. After all it is her grandchild, it doesn't bother me at all.

Posted 12/2/08 8:03 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

It wouldn't annoy me at all but my mom would def. ask me before doing it just for my opinion I think!

Posted 12/2/08 9:22 PM
 

aliwnec10
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by KateDevine

Posted by aliwnec10

I think it's hysterical!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon The fact that you chose the same picture... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I would not be offended at all. Chat Icon



And that I didn't know....AND she did it last year?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Wow i wonder what picture she sent last year! Chat Icon

Freakin hysterical! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 9:31 PM
 

pmpkn087
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

I think it's cute...not odd at all. She wants to show her friends her grandchild. Absolutely nothing wrong with that!

I think it's so funny that you guys picked the same picture. Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 9:44 PM
 

Juliet
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Hey, if that is strange, my parents want to take a few pics with DD and send them to some friends and relatives in their cards.

I actually send Christmas cards to a lot of my parents' friends, as the friends' kids do the same for my parents. Many of us grew up together so the grandparents all like to see each other's grandkids.

Posted 12/2/08 10:17 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by Juliet


I actually send Christmas cards to a lot of my parents' friends, as the friends' kids do the same for my parents. Many of us grew up together so the grandparents all like to see each other's grandkids.



Yeah, us too. But now I am happy b/c I don't have to buy extra cards to send to themChat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 10:19 PM
 

karacg
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Well considering that my mom has 9 grandchildren, that would be one HECK of a card!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 10:31 PM
 

lovemy2boys
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by pmpkn087

I think it's cute...not odd at all. She wants to show her friends her grandchild. Absolutely nothing wrong with that!

I think it's so funny that you guys picked the same picture. Chat Icon



ITA she is proud of her grandbaby

Posted 12/2/08 10:35 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by Goldi0218

Please take no offense, but it is not a grandmother's place to send your child's pictures to anyone without asking you first. I would be RIPPING mad if my MIL did that. My mother would never have done that.

ETA: She could have asked you to send it instead - that would have been fine. I just think its not her place.



I agree. I would be furious!
I ask my mom if there is anyone she wold like us to send a holiday card, birth announcement, etc to.
It's not her place IMO.

Posted 12/2/08 11:58 PM
 

snowflake08
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

I would not be offended and if she is sending them to different people than you send to - I see no harm in it

she is proud and wants to show them off

Posted 12/3/08 12:10 AM
 

stephaniea
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by karacg

Well considering that my mom has 9 grandchildren, that would be one HECK of a card!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Mine too! Actually they never did it. My dad will sometimes forward pics of the kids that I email to him. Thats about it.

Posted 12/3/08 6:14 AM
 

dawnie
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

Posted by snowflake08

I would not be offended and if she is sending them to different people than you send to - I see no harm in it

she is proud and wants to show them off



I totally agree. My mom always sends pics of the grandkids to her friends....as long as they are not on my Christmas list!

Posted 12/3/08 6:43 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

I so do not think that is a big deal at all......Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 7:14 AM
 

Shelly
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Re: Does anyone else's crazy parents do this?

I don't think its a big deal. I know plenty of my friends/family forward Jordana pictures that I send them. It doesn't upset me. I think its swee that they care about my DC so much they think their family (mostly parents) are interested in seeing her.

Posted 12/3/08 7:28 AM
 
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