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Does anyone have a 2 year old that doesn't listen for sh*t?

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Charly
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Re: Does anyone have a 2 year old that doesn't listen for sh*t?

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I would love to but I don't see how it would work for him...unless he was strapped into something which is an idea. He would NEVER sit in a time out spot.



I thought the same thing with my DS (who does the same thing) We have a little bench in a room and when he does something bad I give hime a warning and make sure he knows that if he continues to misbehave he gets a timeout. The first few times it seemed ineffective beceause he didn't really know what a time out was.

I walk him into his room and sit him on the bench. I sit on the floor and explain to him what he did wrong and why. That when he doesn't listen he doesn't get to play. If he gets up, I sit him back down. I keep sitting him back down until he's sititng for 1 or 2 minutes. He did eventually give up and sit. I warn you, it took awhile. Then once he was done sitting I ask him to say sorry, we hug and we go play.

Like I said it takes a few times for them to understand. SO don't give up. Be consistent. Now I just say "go to your room" and he sits on his bench until I get him. He's 21 months.


As for the 2nd baby - there were days that poor Jack had to sit and cry while I dealth with hannah. Now it's the other way around. Hannah has to sit there and be ignored while I deal with Jack.Chat Icon There are days she sits in there with me showing him what to do and begging him to just sit so we can all playChat Icon Chat Icon I will say they are now effective after alot of effort and they are less frequent. Now I just say, "do you want a timeout" he says no and 8 out 10 times he stops.

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DmarieK
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Re: Does anyone have a 2 year old that doesn't listen for sh*t?

I don't "think" it's out of boredom but I guess I can't say for sure. I just think he's very stubborn.

I do things with him but I could def do more...it's been hard with the new baby.

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