Re: Does anyone have ZERO interest in doing the deed?

DH doesn't want to do it!!! He said he doesn't want the baby to see. I told him that won't happen, but regardless I am now 16 weeks and we haven't done the nasty since I conceived!

Re: Does anyone have ZERO interest in doing the deed?

OMG you are not alone. I was just thinking about it this morning as I was driving into work b/c I think hubby was feeling frisky last night and all I wanted to feel was my head on the pillow.

I just have absolutely no interest. I have been feeling so sick that I cant even think about wanting to do anything else other then laying in bed and trying not to hurl. I feel incredably fat, sick, and tired.

Re: Does anyone have ZERO interest in doing the deed?

Posted by niikki-8-18-06

I had no interest the 1st trimester

It came back in the 2nd trimester

The 1st trimester, i was so bloated that i just didn't feel like it. I think we had sex like 3 times. The 1st time i saw blood, but i knew it was normal to have a little bit as long as it stopped, which it did. And it only happened that 1st time.

Now that i'm in the 2nd trimester, i've been wanting to a little bit more.

You're definitely not alone!!!

Message edited 1/16/2008 9:57:30 AM.

Re: Does anyone have ZERO interest in doing the deed?

You are TOTALLY not alone. I am now in 3 trimester and it comes in waves - sometimes I want it, others I just want to roll over and go to sleep. I try to be nice once a week though

Re: Does anyone have ZERO interest in doing the deed?

You're not alone. I have very little interest in it at this point and I'm 27 weeks.

We're maybe doing it like once a week!

DH is also scared that he will hurt the baby or the baby will see "him"!

And the last time we did it, the baby was moving and it was making me laugh because it felt so funny!