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Mrs213
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ChilisWife
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Re: Feelings
Wow. I usually don't have patience for long videos but what she was saying was starting to hit home with me and I watched the whole thing. I think a lot of people feel this way. I am very sad.
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| Posted 5/13/20 4:39 PM |
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Mrs213
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Posted by ChilisWife
Wow. I usually don't have patience for long videos but what she was saying was starting to hit home with me and I watched the whole thing. I think a lot of people feel this way. I am very sad.
It makes me feel a little more normal to see that a mental health provider is feeling this way. We should all give ourselves permission to feel whatever it is we feel during these times.
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| Posted 5/13/20 4:54 PM |
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klingklang77
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I totally understand what this woman is saying. I felt like that about a month ago. It was similar feelings that I had after I first separated from my husband- the whole grief process and all. I think this time around I just processed it quicker.
That being said, we are all in different stages. I guess I’m just at the stage where I have to do the best I can in the situation I am in. The anger is long gone. And I will spend the whole day not doing anything. I have no problem doing that. I’m having one of those days today...
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| Posted 5/14/20 5:09 AM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: Feelings
Posted by Mrs213
Posted by ChilisWife
Wow. I usually don't have patience for long videos but what she was saying was starting to hit home with me and I watched the whole thing. I think a lot of people feel this way. I am very sad.
It makes me feel a little more normal to see that a mental health provider is feeling this way. We should all give ourselves permission to feel whatever it is we feel during these times.
Absolutely agree. Some days just overwhelm me and I breakdown. Yesterday and today are definitely those types of days. Some days I just can't see the positive or the blessing in any of this.
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| Posted 5/14/20 6:57 AM |
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MarathonKnitter
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Re: Feelings
so good to hear someone who has "tools" feeling like this.
a little bit ago, i posted about my son having a bad interview and how it reflected on me as his mother. that was a TOTAL meltdown. it was UGLY. once the dust settled, i realized that i had gone bonkers... not because i truly felt like a failure as his mother... but because there were so many other things, fears, worries, thoughts, stressors that i broke down.
since that day, i'm doing my best to pay attention to all the things going through my head. i'm trying to discern the difference between ******** thoughts and thoughts i should allow to be present and process. i fail about half the time lol, but at least i'm much more aware of things, now.
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| Posted 5/14/20 7:39 AM |
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