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FET #2: Beta is 10

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barbara89
LIF Adolescent

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FET #2: Beta is 10

Hi Girls - I wrote yesterday that my period arrived and was ready to hear of a zero beta today. Instead I'm thinking I'm going through another chemical pregnancy. (Beta is 10)

The Dr wants me to come back tomorrow for another blood test.

Has anyone ever had heavy bleeding and a low beta? Chat Icon Is it my period? I'm so confused.... geesh!

Message edited 4/1/2010 4:49:57 PM.

Posted 3/31/10 10:13 AM
 
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PennyCat
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Re: FET #2: BFN

I have no advice but just wanted to send some Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/31/10 10:14 AM
 

Blu-ize
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Susan

Re: FET #2: BFN

I'm so sorry. This whole thing sucks.

Posted 3/31/10 10:21 AM
 

bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!

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Re: FET #2: BFN


I'm sorry!!!

I know it's not easy. Just remember it never hurts to get a second opinion. You can still love your practice and continue there and still see what another RE may suggest.

I can't help with the questions to ask, as I have not gone through a UI/IVF yet. But do ask as many questions as possible. Hopefully some of the girls on this board can give you some ideas to ask your RE.

I'm sorry!

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Message edited 3/31/2010 10:32:27 AM.

Posted 3/31/10 10:28 AM
 

maybemommy10
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Re: FET #2: BFN

First off Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry that you and your DH are having to go through this nightmare, i can only imagine.

Have you spoken to your doctor regarding the cycle? Have they learned anything from it? Any way to change up the protocol?

As for advice, i am not far along in the game to really be any use to you (or myself:)... buttttt i will say I am a big fan, of second and third opinions when it comes to anything medical (there is just so many things it could be and sometimes different doctors bring different experience, wisdom, knowledge to the table).

I know for me, one of the most frustrating things in this mess, is doing the same thing over and over (IUI). It makes me feel like i am just spinning my wheels. If I were in your situation, I would get another opinion and I would definitely do another IVF cycle, just maybe not with the same office.

Whatever your decision, i wish you lots of luck and please know you are NOT alone in this. We are all here to support you anyway we can.


Edited to add: have you had an immune work up? fragmentation?
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Message edited 3/31/2010 11:14:13 AM.

Posted 3/31/10 11:13 AM
 

pp1107
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P

Re: FET #2: BFN

Im sorry. I know you said you didn't want to change doctors but sometimes a fresh pair of eyes catches something different. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/31/10 11:40 AM
 

JennyPenny
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Re: FET #2: BFN

Definitely get a second opinion. I know several women (some on here) that switched doctors, tried something even slightly different, and had an awesome result.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/31/10 12:15 PM
 

lbw
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Re: FET #2: BFN

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Posted 3/31/10 12:25 PM
 

barbara89
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/09

601 total posts

Name:
G

Re: FET #2: BFN

Thank you so, so much for your comments. I go for a follow up with my Dr on Friday. I'm going to ask about any additional testing that could be done (if any). In the meantime, I 'm going to investigate switching Dr's. What a daunting task! THANKS FOR ALL THE SUPPORT!! Chat Icon

Posted 3/31/10 12:34 PM
 

BaseballWidow
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Re: FET #2: BFN

I'm really sorry to hear this. Hope you find some answers soon!
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Posted 3/31/10 1:26 PM
 

BBmaking
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Re: FET #2: BFN

I am sorry to hear that. I just want to give you some Chat Icon Chat Icon and Chat Icon Chat Icon .....

Posted 3/31/10 7:55 PM
 

Jenn1621
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Re: FET #2: BFN

I'm so sorry! I hope you get answers soon. This is such a hard process to go through.

Posted 4/1/10 6:00 AM
 

barbara89
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/09

601 total posts

Name:
G

Re: FET #2: Beta is 10

update

Posted 4/1/10 4:57 PM
 

bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!

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Re: FET #2: Beta is 10


I'm sorry. It's sounds like it is a chemical. What did your Dr. think?

Do you still have your period, or did you stop bleeding? It could be a late implanter, and were you just spotting for a few days.

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Posted 4/1/10 8:56 PM
 

barbara89
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/09

601 total posts

Name:
G

Re: FET #2: Beta is 10

I went back this morning for another beta. Chemical Pregnancies are dragged out and cruel!

Posted 4/2/10 10:56 AM
 

bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!

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Re: FET #2: Beta is 10

Posted by barbara89

I went back this morning for another beta. Chemical Pregnancies are dragged out and cruel!




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Posted 4/2/10 11:01 AM
 

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Re: FET #2: Beta is 10

I'm so sorry Chat Icon I went through the exact same process this time last year and I was just remembering how hard it was. I hope this passes quickly and that you get some anwers soon. Chat Icon

Posted 4/2/10 11:13 AM
 

lbw
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Lisette

Re: FET #2: Beta is 10

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Posted 4/2/10 12:50 PM
 

FlowerWife
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Re: FET #2: Beta is 10

i had a chemical last cycle so i understand what you are going through. tons of
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Posted 4/2/10 2:00 PM
 
 

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