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What's the primary reason you need to return to work?

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We need the dual income 72 63.16%
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For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

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Dulcinea
Weekend Warrior

Member since 3/08

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Dulcinea

For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

Ok, I'm just curious, I'm sure alot of us don't have the luxury of staying home because it's so difficult surviving w/o a dual income these days...

What's the primary reason why you need to return to work?

Posted 6/10/08 9:52 AM
 

neener1211
:-)

Member since 4/07

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Name:
J

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

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Posted 6/10/08 9:53 AM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

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Lissette

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

Posted by neener1211

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Dual

Posted 6/10/08 9:53 AM
 

ohbaby08
Winter is Coming

Member since 10/07

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Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

There is no way that we would be able to pay our mortgage and all the other bills without both of our salaries at the moment. If that weren't the case, I'd stay home in a second.

Posted 6/10/08 9:54 AM
 

momtobe08
LIF Infant

Member since 5/08

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Name:
lisa

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

def. need the dual income.

Posted 6/10/08 9:54 AM
 

kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!

Member since 6/06

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Kerry

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

money, I have the stable income in my marriage.

Posted 6/10/08 9:56 AM
 

MrsNJL
LIF Infant

Member since 5/08

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Name:
Kat

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

Definitely the income, but I really do love working and the challenges it brings me. I've always wanted a career and worked too hard not to have one.

I think it's important to balance work and family if you can afford to do so. If I wasn't paid the way I am, I may have a different opinion though.

Posted 6/10/08 9:57 AM
 

Jazzyt
My Girl!!!

Member since 8/07

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Giselle

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

I have the stable income and benefits DH own his own business and dabbles in mortgages and real estate.

I also worked really hard to have a career and I don't think I'd enjoy staying home with no adult interaction and challenges

Posted 6/10/08 10:04 AM
 

hmm8191
My loves

Member since 3/06

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Name:
Heather

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

My primary reason is the dual incomes but I also have worked hard for my career and enjoy what I do. I think that it will be an asset to my child to have a strong working woman as a mother.

Posted 6/10/08 10:12 AM
 

NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!

Member since 10/07

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Jeannine

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

DHs salary would cover the mortgage/taxes and student loans ....but if we want to eat, have heat, drive the cars... I'll have to work Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/08 10:14 AM
 

chikita315
Love

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M-lo

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

I like having more than "just enough"

Posted 6/10/08 10:18 AM
 

browneyedgirl
family is all that matters

Member since 6/06

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browneyes

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

to pay the mortgage.

Posted 6/10/08 10:36 AM
 

mrsv
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Member since 7/06

2969 total posts

Name:
lol

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

Posted by hmm8191

My primary reason is the dual incomes but I also have worked hard for my career and enjoy what I do. I think that it will be an asset to my child to have a strong working woman as a mother.



Exactly, I have the same opinionand reasons!

Posted 6/10/08 11:19 AM
 

mikeswife06
Drama Momma

Member since 9/06

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Anne

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

We need the $. I hate the fact that I am going to have to work Chat Icon At least in the first 2 years.

Posted 6/10/08 11:22 AM
 

twinkletoes807
Mommy's Girls! ♥

Member since 11/07

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Gabi

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

Posted by ohbaby08

There is no way that we would be able to pay our mortgage and all the other bills without both of our salaries at the moment. If that weren't the case, I'd stay home in a second.



Yup. Me too.

Posted 6/10/08 11:25 AM
 

My4GirlsMyLife
My 4 girlies

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Valerie

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

$$$$$

Posted 6/10/08 11:26 AM
 

Candy Girl
Candy girl- you are so sweet!

Member since 11/07

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Name:
erin

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

We could definitely use the dual income, but I am the benefits holder, so that is even more important. Plus, I like working. Hopefully I will get a sabbatical for the spring and I would have 3/4 pay, benefits and only have to take 9 credits.

Posted 6/10/08 11:31 AM
 

1stimemom
Love my boys

Member since 2/08

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Mrs Dee

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

$$$Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/08 11:38 AM
 

aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

Member since 4/06

11426 total posts

Name:
Ali

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

Posted by ohbaby08

There is no way that we would be able to pay our mortgage and all the other bills without both of our salaries at the moment. If that weren't the case, I'd stay home in a second.



same here, except i still wouldn't stay home. I don't think i'm really the stay at home kind of type. I need to keep busy and i'd just drive myself crazy. Maybe once we have 3 kids i will... but not now. Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/08 11:45 AM
 

Akajt98
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Jill

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

$$$$$

Posted 6/10/08 11:46 AM
 

mskimmy98
My twins are one!!!

Member since 5/05

2540 total posts

Name:
Kimberly

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

We need the money plus I want to go back to work.. I don't want to be doing anything 100% of my time.. I think splitting my time with the kids and work will be best for the kind of person I am.

Posted 6/10/08 11:46 AM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

Member since 5/05

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

for the income. we got by for about 6 months before I realized that it would be easier if I went back to work, PT.

Posted 6/10/08 11:50 AM
 

Xelindrya
Mommy's little YouTube Star!

Member since 8/05

14470 total posts

Name:
Veronica

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

I voted “I make more” which I do, significantly more so.

Also I need the challenge and the people, its just who I am. *shrug*

Money is a huge factor. Even if I got really tight and stayed at home, I’d be miserable. I want our child to have things I didn’t and I’m not talking extravagance, but I’m a true believer that scraping by is never good enough. I have to know we can be comfortable. Too many times bad things happen and I hate being the one stuck crying at home because I have no way out. I did it once, but swore never again. Which is why I have been cutting corners and paying off debt NOW before the baby! I have to work, to guarantee my child can have a bright future.

(or at least that's what I think)

Posted 6/10/08 11:51 AM
 

lovemy2boys
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Member since 10/07

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Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

I chose other.
I could stay home, but we have free daycare , grandma Chat Icon

I don't want my DH to have all the financial pressure, I want to continue saving for retirement. In the long run if I keep working we will be much better off financially. Life will be much easier for us in 10-20 yrs from now since we have the luxury of free babysitter

Posted 6/10/08 1:14 PM
 

vegalady
Love my family

Member since 6/06

4546 total posts

Name:
SNV

Re: For those who must return to work, what's the reason? POLL

We need the dual income as well as I want to start my career. I think i would go crazy at home. I need to have my own money on the side.

Posted 6/10/08 1:19 PM
 
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