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Goodnight my sweet cat...

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photoshopbabe
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linda

Goodnight my sweet cat...

I can't believe i'm posting this. Today, my first pet passed on. My sweet, sweet black cat crossed over.

11 years ago, a black cat kept coming into our yard and I begged and pleaded w/my parents to let him in the house.
Grudgingly, they let him in and became their best friends.

When my father had his eye surgery, Blacky aka Kitty stayed by his side day and night. He was our first and only pet.
When I moved out 4 years ago, it was sad, but I saw him all the time.

3 weeks ago, he started to slowly stop eating, etc. Today he had 2 seizures and passed on

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This is SO much harder than I expected. I've been crying all day long.


What's weird is -today is the 12 year anniversary of my grandmothers death, and my mother always thought she "sent" the cat to my mother to help her cope with her death. Right before that, my aunt had a dream that my grandmother had given my mother a black cat.

I know he had a great life-but still, I am so sad.

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Message edited 6/7/2010 10:16:59 PM.

Posted 6/7/10 10:07 PM
 
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NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

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..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

Awww I'm so sorry!
I know how hard it is to lose a cat- my cat died last year and I still cry over it. It hurts so freakin' bad. I was a mess those first few days.

He was beautiful- my new little girl kitty is all black like that- I LOVE black cats.

But he is with your grandma now...
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Posted 6/7/10 10:23 PM
 

photoshopbabe
wow....

Member since 5/07

2197 total posts

Name:
linda

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

Posted by NervousNell

Awww I'm so sorry!
I know how hard it is to lose a cat- my cat died last year and I still cry over it. It hurts so freakin' bad. I was a mess those first few days.

He was beautiful- my new little girl kitty is all black like that- I LOVE black cats.

But he is with your grandma now...
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Thanks so much! I didn't realize it wwould hurt this freakin bad!!!
I feel so bad for my parents too. Chat Icon

Posted 6/7/10 10:26 PM
 

ladybug8
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Posted 6/7/10 10:53 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon It's been about 4 years since I lost my black cat. She looked almost exactly like yours.

It still hurts to think about her sometimes--but like you, she had been a stray and we took her in and gave her a great life--she stayed with us for almost 19 years.

I'm so sorry for your loss, it really is kinda like losing your best friend Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/7/10 11:44 PM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

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Posted 6/8/10 8:10 AM
 

Nifheim
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I am so sorry.

Posted 6/8/10 9:20 AM
 

karabara
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Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

he was so handsome, and such a sweet cat from what you said. i'm s sorry for your loss Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/10 9:38 AM
 

glinda-goodwitch
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Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm soooo sorry! Losing a pet is so hard. But all the sadness is just the price we pay for all the joy that they give us when they are here with us. Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/10 10:07 AM
 

Blu-ize
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Member since 7/05

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Susan

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

I'm so sorry. When my kitties passed I was devastated. Your kitty was beautiful and knows you loved him.

Now you have a kitty angel watching over you.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/10 10:16 AM
 

photoshopbabe
wow....

Member since 5/07

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Name:
linda

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

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I feel so bad for my dad, he was his best friend. Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/10 10:27 AM
 

Goobster
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I am so sorry. It's so hard, I know.

Posted 6/8/10 10:28 AM
 

CallaLily
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Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

I am so very sorry for your loss. They truly become members of our family, don't they? You and your family are amazing for taking him in and giving him a wonderful life. Rest in peace sweet angel. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 6/8/2010 10:47:35 AM.

Posted 6/8/10 10:46 AM
 

BriBri2u
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Member since 5/05

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Mrs. B

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

Awww I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon

He looks like my furbaby - I'm going to be a mess the day he passes on - DH may need medication. Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/10 11:14 AM
 

JessInCA
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Jess

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

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Posted 6/8/10 12:11 PM
 

imthecindyofcindyandkevin
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Cindy

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

I'm so sorry for your loss. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/10 12:14 PM
 

greenfreak
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Member since 9/06

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greenfreak

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

I'm so very sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/10 12:22 PM
 

SusiBee
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S

Re: Goodnight my sweet cat...

So sorry for your loss.
I know it hurts. Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/10 12:31 PM
 
 

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