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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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Got my results
18.2
oh G*d.....
I'm devastated...
and drunk....
NS won't take me..
what do I do..
I've been crying for hours...
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MrsRbk
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Michelle
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Re: Got my results
What are those the results to?
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:01 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
fsh...
i can't stop crying...
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:02 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
i was told to use donor eggs or consider adoption..
what????????
what'??????????????
repeat... 
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:09 PM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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Re: Got my results
Call Cornell
and FSH can vary monthly
don't give up
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:10 PM |
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MrsJoeG
Beyond Blessed <3
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Amanda
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Re: Got my results
I would consult with Cornell if I were you. I know they specialize in high FSHers. Also, you can join me in the wheatgrass shots. You can chase them with vodka or may be create a wheatgrass tini j/k and add in acupuncture while you are at it. I am doing that too, trying to lower my fsh. Don't give up. There are things you can try before DE or adoption Thats crap that they said that to you!!!!
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:12 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
Posted by LisaW
Call Cornell
and FSH can vary monthly
don't give up
my cousin gave me the number of her doc...Klligman..
I know it can vary but Rosenfeld told me it doesn't matter.
I was so stressed out that day...with the mammo...they told me that they couldn't draw the bloods..
I know that this a business..their stats..
I feel....so devastated.
Donor eggs? I can't afford that! Adoption? Ok, that too!
Message edited 6/11/2008 8:14:28 PM.
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
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Re: Got my results
Posted by Blu-ize
Posted by LisaW
Call Cornell
and FSH can vary monthly
don't give up
my cousin gave me the number of her doc...Klligman..
I know it can vary but Rosenfeld told me it doesn't matter.
I was so stressed out that day...with the mammo...they told me that they couldn't draw the bloods..
I know that this a business..their stats..
I feel....so devastated.
Donor eggs? I can't afford that! Adoption? Ok, that too!
call Dr Davis...this is his speciality
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:15 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
I'm going to call Cornell, NYU and Columbia...
the ones that have a lot of cycles..
this can't be happening...
I'm 41 not 45....
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:16 PM |
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babyfaith
Onward and Upward!
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Re: Got my results
First off . I know of a woman in her early 40's with a high FSH who was also told she was not a candidate at North Shore. Def. call Cornell, chug the wheatgrass, and head to accupuncture. Hang in there!
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:17 PM |
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CAH127
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Re: Got my results
I wouldn't give up. Others will chime in that it can vary from month to month. I would move on somewhere else.
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:17 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
Dr. Rosenfeld told me that it doesn't matter what other bloods I take..it's high...
How can this be happening
Why didn't I try sooner?
He also told me that since we weren't trying long there is still a chance naturally albeit small..
But the they won't do IVF without donor eggs.
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:19 PM |
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rose825
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Re: Got my results
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:20 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
Dh's test was good..my tubes ar open..
my eggs are poor quality.
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:20 PM |
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BA2008
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Re: Got my results
Dr. Davis's number is 646-962-3765.
Mine has been 15. Did you read the book 'Inconceivable'? There are women with FSH's of 100 and get pregnant. It wont be easy but you can do it. I suggest like PP, go to acupuncture, start taking in wheat grass (juice, powerder, pill). Last cycle blood test (before I had the estrogen patch on) it was down to 6.9. Yes, once you have high FSH they always consider you high, but darn it, we will prove them wrong. Don't loose hope. But, get it out and then pick yourself up and fight with us.
(oh you just put the fight back in me, thank you!).
FM me if you want.
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:21 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
Posted by BA2008
Dr. Davis's number is 646-962-3765.
Mine has been 15. Did you read the book 'Inconceivable'? There are women with FSH's of 100 and get pregnant. It wont be easy but you can do it. I suggest like PP, go to acupuncture, start taking in wheat grass (juice, powerder, pill). Last cycle blood test (before I had the estrogen patch on) it was down to 6.9. Yes, once you have high FSH they always consider you high, but darn it, we will prove them wrong. Don't loose hope. But, get it out and then pick yourself up and fight with us.
(oh you just put the fight back in me, thank you!).
FM me if you want.
I guess I need to read that book..
I will do the wheat grass and acupuncture..I'm not giving up...just having my pity party..
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:22 PM |
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MrsRbk
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Michelle
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Re: Got my results
Susan - I'm so sorry, and I know the devestation you feel right now. But I agree with the other posters and call Cornell, DON'T GIVE UP!!!
Don't beat yourself up either, you didn't try earlier because you weren't ready. This is not your fault!
I wish I could reach through the computer and hug you!
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:22 PM |
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Babe49
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Re: Got my results
Posted by CAH127
I wouldn't give up. Others will chime in that it can vary from month to month. I would move on somewhere else.
I agree with Cindy. Don't give up Susan!!
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:24 PM |
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CaseyGirl
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Re: Got my results
Get a 2nd opinion - and like the other girls said, it can vary..... it bugs me that they just said to you "adopt or get donor eggs"...there's gotta be more that you can do. Get another opinion
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:24 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
Posted by MrsRbk
Susan - I'm so sorry, and I know the devestation you feel right now. But I agree with the other posters and call Cornell, DON'T GIVE UP!!!
Don't beat yourself up either, you didn't try earlier because you weren't ready. This is not your fault!
I wish I could reach through the computer and hug you!
thanks..I won't give up...just so devastating to be turned down for treatment. I thought maybe my thyroid was off, maybe DH's sperm count wasn't so hot..maybe we're not timing it right.
The best reproductive medicine can't help me...
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:25 PM |
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helen
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Re: Got my results
OMG I am so so sorry can you redo teh test, taking wheatgrass before the test?
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:26 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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Re: Got my results
Posted by CaseyGirl
Get a 2nd opinion - and like the other girls said, it can vary..... it bugs me that they just said to you "adopt or get donor eggs"...there's gotta be more that you can do. Get another opinion
I know..
I've had half a bottle of vodka...
DH tried to help..he's numb..saying we need to try the old fashioned way...4% chance but it's a chance right?
time it perfectly..take a vacation..relax...we don't have the means for adoption or egg donation.
holy crap..what if this is it..?
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BigB
C & J are 10!
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Re: Got my results
First of all, you can lower your FSH through diet. Buy the book, Inconcieveable. It is about a woman with high FSH and her journey through conception naturally. Wheatgrass really helps...
Don't give up until you have exhausted all options! Always get a second opion!
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:33 PM |
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Donna
1 year already!!
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Re: Got my results
Posted by Blu-ize
I'm going to call Cornell, NYU and Columbia...
the ones that have a lot of cycles..
this can't be happening...
I'm 41 not 45....
I'm sorry this is happening to you
Don't bother calling NYU, they don't handle high FSHers, they cancelled me twice in the past.
Call Dr. Davis at Cornell he will give you his honest opinion as to what can be done with percentages of success.
For other advice don't forget to check out the FSH boards on ivfconnections.com and the High FSH boards at this website
good luck to you!
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| Posted 6/11/08 8:56 PM |
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fullofhope
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Re: Got my results
Posted by Blu-ize
I know that this a business..their stats..
This is sooo true!
Don't give up! I just read a whole article about the fact that IVF clinics turn many women away because it would ruin their stats. They do things like encourage women to use donor eggs or transfer multiple eggs because it's better for them
Definitly visit another doctor.
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