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Grrr people and their stupid opinions

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Jen2999
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Jen

Grrr people and their stupid opinions

I was hanging with some friends yesterday and of course everyone was trying to guess what the baby is and/or get a reaction out of me....

Anyway, i had told my one friend a looooonnggg time ago some options that we were thinking of for Baby P's name. Of course, one of them is the one that stuck. So he mentions it and another one of my friends made a horrible comment about it and it made me Chat Icon .

I know all that matters is that DH and I love it, but I obviously would like others to like it as well!!!!

Posted 10/4/08 4:24 PM
 
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SerraMaMa
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Member since 10/07

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Name:
Lauren

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

If you let what other people think affect your choice in names that much... then either you don't like the name that much to second guess yourself or your feeling emotional....
In my opinion screw what others think, you may not like her kids name but who cares at the end of the dayChat Icon

Posted 10/4/08 4:30 PM
 

conigs25
So in love with this kid!

Member since 5/06

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Name:
Michele

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

I dont get people. How many times have people told me names that they like that i do not at all like and all i do is say, "oh that is such a good name" etc etc. No one needs to hear that you dont like the name they are gonna pick.

Some people are just MORONS

Posted 10/4/08 4:35 PM
 

mamallama
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Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

as long as you love it who cares!
I'm sure it's a great name Chat Icon

Posted 10/4/08 4:39 PM
 

DRMom
Two in Blue

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Melissa

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

We have unusual names and hve heard all sorts of stuff-like, Is that really a name? etc. I actually find it amusing and do not care what anyone thinks...try t let it roll off if you guys like it

Posted 10/4/08 5:30 PM
 

SpencersMommy
I'm one lucky girl

Member since 11/07

3494 total posts

Name:
Melanie

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

My MIL didnt like the name we picked for DS but we loved it!!! Thats all that matters!!!

Posted 10/4/08 5:34 PM
 

Alli06
Baby #3 coming this June

Member since 8/05

6721 total posts

Name:
A

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

Tell people you are waiting till the baby is born to tell people the name. Maybe only tell your best friends or your family, if you want to talk about names. I think I may start doing this since, I can't stand people's comments anymore.

Posted 10/4/08 5:58 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

13848 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

Posted by MellyMel

My MIL didnt like the name we picked for DS but we loved it!!! Thats all that matters!!!



Same here. In fact it makes me love it all the moreChat Icon

Posted 10/4/08 8:55 PM
 

Lucky
Growing up fast!

Member since 4/07

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Name:
Dawn

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

My family didn't love the name we chose but DD has the name anyway. Now they think it's cute.

Posted 10/4/08 9:01 PM
 

Jencee73
LIF Adult

Member since 8/07

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Name:
Jennifer

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

So far everyone's reaction to Shaylie's name has been positive. When I told 2 of my closest friends from work her entire name which is Shaylie (my last name) (DH's last name), they suggested that I pick a "normal" middle name for her. Like one said "well maybe you mom wants her middle name to be your grandmother's name". For starters, my mom is not the type of person to tell what to name my child and if she did ask me of course I would consider it. My other friend said I should change her middle name because if I keep it as it is now, she's going to get beat up in school. ***???????????? That had to be the stupidest reason I ever heard of. I mean that was really stupid. One day she told me what she would like to name her son if she ever has one and I didn't like the names. To me they were just too feminine, but I kept that comment to myself.

Anyway, Shaylie's name has stayed the same, but we did give her a second middle name - Marie for my grandmother. It had nothing to do with their opinions, it was something that I was thinking about for a while. DH didn't want her to have such a long name, but when I said Shaylie's name will represent 4 parts of her family - my mom and dad's side and DH's mom and dad's side. He understood where I was coming from and agreed.

Posted 10/4/08 9:43 PM
 

HappyGirl
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Member since 2/08

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Name:
Lisa

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

This is one of the reasons we are not telling anyone, and I mean anyone, the name. Some ppl not happy with us about that, but oh well!

It's kind of fun...a little secret since everyone knows it's a girl...

Posted 10/5/08 9:52 AM
 

babyonthebrain
Brotherly Love!

Member since 1/08

6209 total posts

Name:
Rafaela

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

None of my in laws liked the name DH and I picked out, My mom doesn't like it and my cousin made fun of it. Guess what?????

The name is "growing" on the in laws now, they even call him by his name now. I told my mom its not her child so too bad and I just gnored my cousin. Don't worry about other people!!!
XOXOXO
BOTB

Posted 10/5/08 11:37 AM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

I think FRED is a great name. Don't listen to anyone.

Posted 10/5/08 12:14 PM
 

twinkletoes807
Mommy's Girls! ♥

Member since 11/07

10116 total posts

Name:
Gabi

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

Don't be upset. If you and DH love it, that is all that matters! I am sure the name you picked is fantastic!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/08 12:16 PM
 

TLC1018
I AM A BIG SISTER!!

Member since 8/07

3880 total posts

Name:
Tracy

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

don't let someone else's opinion bother you. People need to know when to keep their mouths shut!Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/08 3:06 PM
 

mia818
LIF Adult

Member since 12/07

2197 total posts

Name:
Mia

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

Don't feel bad. My dh's whole family made such a big deal out of dd's name. I find comments like that to be rude and classless. I love her name and I do not care what they think. So neither should you!Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/08 3:10 PM
 

bonitachyc
big sister status may 2012!!

Member since 5/08

3242 total posts

Name:
Lupe

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

awwww Chat Icon sorry they made you feel bad!

Posted 10/5/08 4:52 PM
 

Reese1106
Family of 4! :o)

Member since 8/06

6655 total posts

Name:
Theresa

Re: Grrr people and their stupid opinions

People speak without thinking about what they are saying too often. I'm sorry it upset you. Don't let it affect your opinion of the name because you are right...it is all that matters. Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/08 7:35 PM
 
 

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