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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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opinions on people
do they change?
or do you usually stick with first impressions?
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Posted 8/15/06 6:02 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Name: Tania
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Re: opinions on people
they definitely change especially after meeting them
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Posted 8/15/06 6:03 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
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Re: opinions on people
For some it changes and for others first impression remains.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:03 PM |
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johnsae
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Re: opinions on people
I think it's hard to judge a person from a first impression. I think they change - sometimes for better, sometimes for worse.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:03 PM |
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christy
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Re: opinions on people
Posted by johnsae
I think it's hard to judge a person from a first impression. I think they change - sometimes for better, sometimes for worse.
I agree, but sometimes a first impression keeps me from wanting to know them better.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:04 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: opinions on people
Posted by johnsae
I think it's hard to judge a person from a first impression. I think they change - sometimes for better, sometimes for worse.
good point
i guess i was thinking in a more general sense of the people that you know... or have known
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Posted 8/15/06 6:04 PM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: opinions on people
I alway's go with my gut feeling on people and normally I am right. Can people change? Depends I mean some people will alway's be who they are, but if they want to change it would be up to them. but yes people can change for either better or for worse.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:06 PM |
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leighla
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Re: opinions on people
In my experience, I find that my first impression is spot on.
Even in times when I have changed my impression of them for some reason, it has almost always reverted back to the initial impression.
But being someone who has been told that I myself take some "getting used to" and that I don't make a great first impression, I always keep an open mind.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:07 PM |
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Jessica
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Re: opinions on people
some change, some dont....
MANY, MANY girls have said that before they got to know me they thought I was stuck up and conceited person bc of how i walk and dress...(i walk extremely straight and strut. Ive been doing it since I was a baby)
Message edited 8/15/2006 6:07:44 PM.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:07 PM |
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Stacey1403
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Re: opinions on people
Posted by BellaPaige
For some it changes and for others first impression remains.
Same here
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Posted 8/15/06 6:07 PM |
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reggie
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Re: opinions on people
Posted by Aliasmom
they definitely change especially after meeting them
All the time.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:09 PM |
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MrsPorkChop
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Name: Missy
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Re: opinions on people
im open to change if a person proves them self to be different
some people have bad days, or i meet them at an off time...
id like to say that if im set on liking someone, i will make excuses for them and its hard for me to not like them....
if i start off not liking someone, i usually change my tune if they show me that i was wrong. then at that point i like them...
im weird!
Message edited 8/15/2006 6:12:28 PM.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:09 PM |
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evenedan
Need a little sunshine
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Re: opinions on people
For the most part my initial opinion holds strong and my opinion doesn't change, but there are exceptions. I hated one of my closest friends for like a year when I first met her.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:13 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: opinions on people
Posted by evenedan
For the most part my initial opinion holds strong and my opinion doesn't change, but there are exceptions. I hated one of my closest friends for like a year when I first met her.
ditto...
although the fact that she was my sorority sister and she was not so nice to me when i was pledging might have a lot to do with that
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Posted 8/15/06 6:16 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: opinions on people
Definitely change. I try to stay open minded.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:23 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: opinions on people
I always have first impressions...sometimes they change for the better other times they change for worse
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Posted 8/15/06 6:27 PM |
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suvenR
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Re: opinions on people
my first impressions OFTEN change. (guess I'm judgemental)
but, once someone does something that makes me dislike or mistrust them, it takes A LOT to get me to change my mind. Vice Versa- I'm also VERY LOYAL, so once I decide that I like someone, it takes a lot to get me to change my mind.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:35 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: opinions on people
I don't give much weight to my first impression. They have been dead on in the past. However I think everyone can have an off day so I give them the benefit of the doubt.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:49 PM |
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Bri
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Re: opinions on people
From my experience, I will have a first impression, then over time my opinion will change, only to eventually find out that the first impression was right on.
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Posted 8/15/06 6:51 PM |
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saraH
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Re: opinions on people
9 times out of 10 my first impression of someone is what stays with me, and its tough for me to change that
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Posted 8/15/06 7:12 PM |
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jozieb0925
Double Trouble!
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Re: opinions on people
My first impression is usually wrong and most of the times I end up getting along with the person really well....
Message edited 8/15/2006 7:16:48 PM.
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Posted 8/15/06 7:15 PM |
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heidla
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Re: opinions on people
My opinion can change, but I find that my first impressions aren't off too often. This only counts for in person meetings. I don't think that you can always get the right impression via the internet.
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Posted 8/15/06 7:16 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: opinions on people
Posted by jozieb0925
My first impression is usually wrong and most of the times I end up getting along with the person really well....
So you hated me at first Jo I was actually really intimidated by you at first
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Posted 8/15/06 7:17 PM |
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jozieb0925
Double Trouble!
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Name: Josie
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Re: opinions on people
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by jozieb0925
My first impression is usually wrong and most of the times I end up getting along with the person really well....
So you hated me at first Jo I was actually really intimidated by you at first
Not at all..I thought you were REALLY sweet...I was right on target with my first impression on you!!
You were intimidated by me....how come??
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Posted 8/15/06 8:13 PM |
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Re: opinions on people
hmmm I find that I often make snap judgements about people and I shouldnt.
There was a new girl at work and when I met her I made a snap judgement...and now I have gotten to know her and she is the sweetest person - so humble and caring.
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Posted 8/15/06 8:34 PM |
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