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MarathonKnitter
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help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
as you can see  , there isn't much to do at work today and someone has just started a conversation about how men express if they are or are not "into" you.
help me participate lol... this is how slow my day is.
what would be signs that a guy IS INTO you?
gee, i'm so "out of it" when it comes to this stuff  lol
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neener1211
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
They'll call YOU every chance they get, and won't wait for you to call first.
Trying to think of more...I read the book a long time ago...trying to remember what it said..
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| Posted 9/8/08 10:44 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
they include you in their social plans.
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| Posted 9/8/08 10:53 AM |
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Jillybean28
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
You are introduced to people they love and respect, like friends and especially FAMILY!
Oh and not " Mom, this is my friend......."
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| Posted 9/8/08 10:59 AM |
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rojerono
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
A guy who likes you makes an effort. They ask about you and your interests. They LISTEN and they remember.
Rob and I had been dating about 3 months when we went to the mall and I picked up a blouse. I said - "I don't think I have anything in this color". He said "Yes you do - it's a sweater. you wore it on our first date with those brown shoes with the big heels." I could NOT BELIEVE he remembered that. It was right then I knew he actually WAS into me.
A guy who likes you remembers your conversations. I told Rob I liked lilacs and Oceana roses. Months later he brought me flowers - and actually said "I couldn't get you lilacs and oceana roses are hard to come by unless you special order them - but the florist said that these roses are almost the same color.." I could care less about the kind of flowers he got.. but the fact that he had it filed away in his mind that I preferred a particular type was impressive to me.
And he notices things about me - some good and some less flattering. But the fact that he does notice means he's paying attention. And it makes me certain that he still looks at me and not through me.
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| Posted 9/8/08 11:02 AM |
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GioiaMia
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
Posted by rojerono
A guy who likes you makes an effort. They ask about you and your interests. They LISTEN and they remember.
Rob and I had been dating about 3 months when we went to the mall and I picked up a blouse. I said - "I don't think I have anything in this color". He said "Yes you do - it's a sweater. you wore it on our first date with those brown shoes with the big heels." I could NOT BELIEVE he remembered that. It was right then I knew he actually WAS into me.
A guy who likes you remembers your conversations. I told Rob I liked lilacs and Oceana roses. Months later he brought me flowers - and actually said "I couldn't get you lilacs and oceana roses are hard to come by unless you special order them - but the florist said that these roses are almost the same color.." I could care less about the kind of flowers he got.. but the fact that he had it filed away in his mind that I preferred a particular type was impressive to me.
And he notices things about me - some good and some less flattering. But the fact that he does notice means he's paying attention. And it makes me certain that he still looks at me and not through me.
cr@p, i dont think DH is into me . . .
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| Posted 9/8/08 11:06 AM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
When he rather hang out with you than his friends.
Message edited 9/8/2008 11:13:07 AM.
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| Posted 9/8/08 11:12 AM |
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
They make long term plans with you - like, if its the summer, they start talking about inviting you for Thanksgiving to their parent's hOuse (double whaMMY - LONG TERM plans and meeting the folks...)
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| Posted 9/8/08 11:15 AM |
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PreshusSmurf
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
Posted by Tilde
Posted by rojerono
A guy who likes you makes an effort. They ask about you and your interests. They LISTEN and they remember.
Rob and I had been dating about 3 months when we went to the mall and I picked up a blouse. I said - "I don't think I have anything in this color". He said "Yes you do - it's a sweater. you wore it on our first date with those brown shoes with the big heels." I could NOT BELIEVE he remembered that. It was right then I knew he actually WAS into me.
A guy who likes you remembers your conversations. I told Rob I liked lilacs and Oceana roses. Months later he brought me flowers - and actually said "I couldn't get you lilacs and oceana roses are hard to come by unless you special order them - but the florist said that these roses are almost the same color.." I could care less about the kind of flowers he got.. but the fact that he had it filed away in his mind that I preferred a particular type was impressive to me.
And he notices things about me - some good and some less flattering. But the fact that he does notice means he's paying attention. And it makes me certain that he still looks at me and not through me.
cr@p, i dont think DH is into me . . .
Seriously! I don't think my DH is into me either!!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 9/8/08 11:18 AM |
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NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
ut-oh, I think my marriage may be in trouble as well!
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| Posted 9/8/08 11:21 AM |
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Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
Posted by NinaLemon
Posted by PreshusSmurf
Posted by Tilde
cr@p, i dont think DH is into me . . .
Seriously! I don't think my DH is into me either!!!!!!!!!!
ut-oh, I think my marriage may be in trouble as well!
that's cuz after we are with them for a period of time, generally they AIN'T that into you anymore    
Message edited 9/8/2008 11:23:56 AM.
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Posted by NinaLemon
ut-oh, I think my marriage may be in trouble as well!
Yeah, that is pretty good! I don't think my DH remembers things in THAT much detail.
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| Posted 9/8/08 11:25 AM |
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rojerono
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
Posted by Tilde
Posted by rojerono
A guy who likes you makes an effort. They ask about you and your interests. They LISTEN and they remember.
Rob and I had been dating about 3 months when we went to the mall and I picked up a blouse. I said - "I don't think I have anything in this color". He said "Yes you do - it's a sweater. you wore it on our first date with those brown shoes with the big heels." I could NOT BELIEVE he remembered that. It was right then I knew he actually WAS into me.
A guy who likes you remembers your conversations. I told Rob I liked lilacs and Oceana roses. Months later he brought me flowers - and actually said "I couldn't get you lilacs and oceana roses are hard to come by unless you special order them - but the florist said that these roses are almost the same color.." I could care less about the kind of flowers he got.. but the fact that he had it filed away in his mind that I preferred a particular type was impressive to me.
And he notices things about me - some good and some less flattering. But the fact that he does notice means he's paying attention. And it makes me certain that he still looks at me and not through me.
cr@p, i dont think DH is into me . . .
But I'M into you.
I should have given a caveat... Rob has a particular eye for detail. But remembering GENERAL things - like that you love a certain restaurant or you hate Taco Bell is a good sign that they care. If you tell him "I hate Taco Bell." and he takes you there and you remind him and he takes you there again... maybe he just doesn't care what you like.
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nrthshgrl
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
I think the biggest sign would be you're not wondering if he's into you.
If you have to wonder, that's the biggest telltale sign in my opinion, that he's not.
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Chrisnamy
Summer is coming soon
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
Posted by lipglossjunky73
They make long term plans with you - like, if its the summer, they start talking about inviting you for Thanksgiving to their parent's hOuse (double whaMMY - LONG TERM plans and meeting the folks...)
ITA .
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| Posted 9/8/08 11:48 AM |
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IrishLasss334
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
Besides the above, I would say if he gives you his HOME number, not just his cell...and you ahve been to his house (apt).
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| Posted 9/8/08 1:51 PM |
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PaddysGirl
Little princess is here!
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Re: help me be educated in the conversation. re: he's just not that into you
- When you know their friends & family
- When they make the effort to see you when you are sad or for a special time in your life
- When they make future plans with you
- When they use the words "we" & "us" alot
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| Posted 9/8/08 2:05 PM |
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