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seasaw
LIF Adolescent
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Hi everyone! Update
No, I'm not preggers. After the last mc, DH and I agreed to stop trying for a little while. Turns out a little while is turning into a long while, but by choice.
Although I went to see Dr B and he's pretty sure what course we need to take for me to get (and stay) pregnant, I just don't want it right now. I know that sounds so awful, which is why I've been so scarce. All of us, myself included, wanted to get right back to the BFP's but I guess in the few months where it wasn't an option, I talked myself out of it.
I thought for a while that it might be a defense mechanism to protect myself from the hurt of 4 miscarrages and it might be, but I'm okay with our choice right now. It's been hard to watch those who got pregnant around the same time (each time) deliver their beautiful babies and that's the one thing that gets me. Don't get me wrong, I am so genuinely excited for the dozens of friends I have right now who are pregnant or recently delivered, it just tugs at my heart a bit.
So, at the moment DH and I have decided to wait a few years before trying again. I still come on LIF once in a while to see how everyone is doing and I'm ecstatic for all the girls on the TTC board (and a few here) who are pregnant.
I just thought that after months of pouring my heart out on this board, I should at least give an update!
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Posted 9/28/10 12:58 PM  |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
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Re: Hi everyone! Update
Im happy to hear you are doing alright. You need to do what is best for you. Its a lot to go through---the losses then the treatment. Sometimes Im really amazed with myself that I got through it. Dr B is a great doctor. Im very thankful that i turned to him for help and you will be too once you are ready. 
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| Posted 9/28/10 3:59 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: Hi everyone! Update
always happy to hear from you and knowing you are ok..you guys need to do whats best for you and if that means trying in a couple years than so be it..
dont be a stranger..u were the one to help me in my time and i will never forget that..love u
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| Posted 9/29/10 1:19 PM |
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seasaw
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/09 648 total posts
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Re: Hi everyone! Update
Posted by gina409
always happy to hear from you and knowing you are ok..you guys need to do whats best for you and if that means trying in a couple years than so be it..
dont be a stranger..u were the one to help me in my time and i will never forget that..love u
Love you, too G!
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| Posted 9/29/10 3:19 PM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: Hi everyone! Update
I am happy to hear from you.
It has def been a very tough time for you and DH. I am so sorry for all you have been through.
Sometimes it is best to take a break and regroup after such a challenging time. We will miss you on the boards.
But I look forward to the future and having you share your SUCCESS one day. It WILL HAPPEN.
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| Posted 9/29/10 8:45 PM |
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...
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Re: Hi everyone! Update
glad to hear you are doing OK. good luck when you are ready again!!!
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| Posted 9/29/10 10:36 PM |
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