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Tanaholic
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
I don't have any problems with it, whether it be for a night or an overnight one.
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MrsS2005
Mom of 3
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B
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
I trust him, but I'm not thrilled with the idea of him seeing strippers.
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| Posted 11/15/05 11:57 AM |
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DjPiLL
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Richard
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Its interesting that most people on here are more "mature" and wouldn't have an issue with this.
But ask the same question on LIW... and all the so-called "adult prepubescents" would flip out saying NO WAY bla bla bla.
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| Posted 11/15/05 11:59 AM |
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june262004
But I love the Snow!
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
an old favorite topic of mine
i'm a -waitin 
I was thinking here we go again
I DONT CARE
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| Posted 11/15/05 12:00 PM |
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mommy2Alex
3 babies for me :)
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
I don't care if DH goes to one. I do think people are getting a bit excessive with going away for 3-5 days to party it up. For example, Vegas or an island. It is a lot of money and if DH is going away for a couple of days I would like to join him. Other than that, I have no problems with the strip clubs or partying it up for the night, I completely trust him.
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| Posted 11/15/05 12:03 PM |
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DjPiLL
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Richard
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Here is a better question.... how many of you ladies here that have no problem with him going to a strip club....
would you pay for a nice lap dance for your DH?
or how bout one for yourself while you are at it? 
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| Posted 11/15/05 12:06 PM |
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Aga
hello baby Albert
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
I dont like it, I guess that makes me immature  but I wouldnt stop him...
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| Posted 11/15/05 12:14 PM |
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DjPiLL
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Richard
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by Aga
I dont like it, I guess that makes me immature but I wouldnt stop him...
I think its ok "not to like it". Hell I would find any woman that LIKES her husband getting a lap dance... kinda strange.
As Don would agree with me... there is a MAJOR difference between not liking it... and not ALLOWING it.
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| Posted 11/15/05 12:16 PM |
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Aga
hello baby Albert
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
maybe I just don't understand it... last time there was a bachelor party my husband didn't want to go, so it is really not a big issue with us...
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| Posted 11/15/05 12:18 PM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
I'm totally fine with it. Only the money sometimes bothers me. DH spent over $1000 on his brothers bach party and they only went to Ocean City, MD! 
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| Posted 11/15/05 12:30 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by Aga
maybe I just don't understand it... last time there was a bachelor party my husband didn't want to go, so it is really not a big issue with us...
I have never been faced with it either. DH hates taking off work to go to the actual wedding. He would never take off work and go drop money on a night out like that. Never been faced with it, thankful of it...I know I would not like it, but it is not DH's cup of tea anyway.
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:08 PM |
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dpli
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
It wouldn't bother me. I trust my husband completely, and as far as the expense, he spends so little on himself usually, that I really wouldn't mind him going somewhere for the weekend, especially if it was close, like AC. I also know he is not a fan of them, so maybe it doesn't bother me because I know he doesn't really want to go anyway.....He didn't have one himself.
As far as the lap dance thing, I wouldn't pay for one, but since it's all our money, aren't I paying anyway if he pays?
Message edited 11/15/2005 1:17:58 PM.
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:17 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by dpli
As far as the lap dance thing, I wouldn't pay for one, but since it's all our money, aren't I paying anyway if he pays?
I like your thinking Donna
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:18 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by DjPiLL
As Don would agree with me... there is a MAJOR difference between not liking it... and not ALLOWING it.
exactly!!!!
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:19 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by DjPiLL
Here is a better question.... how many of you ladies here that have no problem with him going to a strip club....
would you pay for a nice lap dance for your DH?
or how bout one for yourself while you are at it?
well, dh and I went to Gossip the one in Farmingdale I think. Girls were all over me & him. Another couple was w/ us. My friend and I were the only non stripper girls there. I asked if he wanted a lap dance and he said no. I think he was afraid of getting "hot" while I was there.
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:19 PM |
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DjPiLL
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by LadyLainez
well, dh and I went to Gossip the one in Farmingdale I think. Girls were all over me & him. Another couple was w/ us. My friend and I were the only non stripper girls there. I asked if he wanted a lap dance and he said no. I think he was afraid of getting "hot" while I was there.
Would it bother you if he got wood from the girl with a lap dance?
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:20 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Would it bother you if he got wood from the girl with a lap dance?
I would be  if I said it wouldn't. I'm sure it would have in my presence.
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:21 PM |
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DjPiLL
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Richard
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by LadyLainez
Would it bother you if he got wood from the girl with a lap dance?
I would be if I said it wouldn't. I'm sure it would have in my presence.
Now thats what i'm talkin' about.
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:22 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
look at it this way
one less thing for you to do
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:23 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by DjPiLL
Posted by LadyLainez
Would it bother you if he got wood from the girl with a lap dance?
I would be if I said it wouldn't. I'm sure it would have in my presence.
Now thats what i'm talkin' about.
It wasn't that bad though. We had a good time. 
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:24 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Sonia
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
look at it this way
one less thing for you to do
Word....talk about a quickie!!!!
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:24 PM |
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Doesn't bother me at all.
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| Posted 11/15/05 1:33 PM |
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Kelly9904
Mommy to 2 amazing little boys
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
The whole bachelor party thing doesnt bother me. DH went to one in New Orleans over the summer and I actually made all the travel arrangments for the group.
I will admit that I would probably not want him to go away again for that length of time (5 days) but all his friends went to montreal for his so I feel he has to go for them. We acutally had a conversation abou this recently because a friend is getting married next april and the BM just sent an email to see who wanted to go on the BP. DH was telling me he really didnt feel like it, but I told him I thought he should because this guy went to his!
Basically its a fact of life that I dont see as a big deal!
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WoodIAm
My Boys!
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
I have no problem with it.
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:01 PM |
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neenie
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Re: how do you feel about your dh going to bachelor parties?
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by DjPiLL
As Don would agree with me... there is a MAJOR difference between not liking it... and not ALLOWING it.
exactly!!!!
i agree. i dont really like it AT ALL, but i wouldnt hold him back from it either.
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