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How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

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waterspout4
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How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

I think I've hit my breaking point. We are going through so many legal issues with with the death of FIL and him not having a will. Poor DH is having a mental breakdown. My physical health is really sh!tty right now. I had to cancel my latest round of tests for the funeral and I can't get another appointment til at least mid April. I am having problems driving as my right leg goes immediately numb when I sit. Yet, it's so painful. Who knew it could hurt and be numb?

Add the fact that DS has two teeth coming in and he's cranky. How do you relax? How do you maintain a happy exterior? I have tried so hard to keep this family going through this and I completely lost it last night. How do you do it? Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/08 11:15 PM
 
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Gumpslilqtpie
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

Im so sorry that you're having such a hard time. Chat Icon Sometimes you need to lose it. And then you get to vent to us! Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/08 11:18 PM
 

Mommy2Boys
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

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Posted 3/25/08 11:23 PM
 

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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

Vent about the small stuff!!!! Then vent about the big stuff!!!! Even risk sounding like a total BEYOTCH!!! It really helps to let it out!!!!! Oh and I'll find something that'll get the tears running and then cry out of shear exhaustion...works wonders.

Posted 3/25/08 11:25 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

It's OK to lose it and not to have a happy exterior all the time. You have been through alot....no one is expecting you to be strong....you are only human. Vent away...that is what we are here for. Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/08 11:35 PM
 

Kerie-is-so-very
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

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Posted 3/25/08 11:41 PM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

Come online and tell us all that is bothering you. Go ahead and vent away as much as you need Kelly. We are all here for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/26/08 12:38 AM
 

Mrs. Patticakes
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

I Chat Icon things start looking up for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/26/08 5:06 AM
 

yankinmanc
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

Just look at that face and remember how bloody lucky you are to have a baby that you adore and cherish.

Thats all I have to do when things feel bad!

Posted 3/26/08 5:40 AM
 

Moehick
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

Take a moment and look at your beautiful son, breathe and smileChat Icon

Posted 3/26/08 6:13 AM
 

CookiePuss
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

It hard, I'm sure. Try not to get too wrapped up with the things you can't control. FIL died without a will so the estate goes to probate. Make sure you have a good estate attorney and let them deal with the headaches.

Sorry you aren't feeling well. Chat Icon

Posted 3/26/08 8:09 AM
 

JerseyMamaOf3
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

I use to cry hysterically in the shower. No one could hear me because the water would drown it out and I seemed to feel better when I got out.
I didn't go through everything you were going through, just daily stresses of being pg with #2 and selling a house so I can't even imagine what you are going through. It can't hurt to try this though.
We all need to let it out sometimes.

Posted 3/26/08 8:12 AM
 

LIBOUND
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Suzy

Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

Give you self time each day. Cry, scream (out of DS's earshot), do what you have too. Life with a baby can get extremely overwhelming and then to have other things added to it, well, it's tough, I know.

Please know that God doesn't give you more than you can handle, even if he does sometimes bring you to your breaking point.

Hang in there!!Chat Icon

Posted 3/26/08 8:30 AM
 

Marcie
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Re: How do you stay happy for the baby when crap keeps happening?

Posted by Moehick

Take a moment and look at your beautiful son, breathe and smileChat Icon



Completely agree with this

and my other advice is - ask for help.
You have soooo many things going on right now, you need some help, it is ok to ask for it Chat Icon

Posted 3/26/08 8:30 AM
 
 

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