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Beth
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Beth

How does everyone keep up!

working full time
cooking dinner every night
cleaning

I seriously can't keep up
my apartment is a huge mess, I never make a real dinner

(luckily my husband could care less)

but latley I just feel like I have no time!

Posted 4/3/07 5:09 PM
 
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Blondie805
Life is good :)

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MB

Re: How does everyone keep up!

I know what you mean! I'm thankful to be off from work this week so I can catch up. I know as soon as work starts again though, the house will be a wreck Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/07 5:10 PM
 

Laura1
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Laura

Re: How does everyone keep up!

I definitely can't keep up. Plus with the new baby, DH is lucky we are at my parents house b/c that is the only reason why he gets a cooked meal every night.....my dad makes it. I can barely get the energy to take a shower and make the bed. If this baby doesn't let me get some sleep in the next few months, I am not only going to stay out on leave from work, but will also need to get some hired help!

Posted 4/3/07 5:12 PM
 

KrisT
Two Boys for Me!!

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Kristin

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Posted by Beth1210

working full time
cooking dinner every night
cleaning

I seriously can't keep up
my apartment is a huge mess, I never make a real dinner

(luckily my husband could care less)

but latley I just feel like I have no time!




I feel the exact same way! I am always telling my mom that I am a failure because I can't handle doing everything now with an apartment and no kids - I have no idea what I am going to do when I have a house and kids Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/07 5:21 PM
 

Nicole728
My Happy Girl

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Me

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Posted by mbtieds

I know what you mean! I'm thankful to be off from work this week so I can catch up. I know as soon as work starts again though, the house will be a wreck Chat Icon



same here!

Posted 4/3/07 5:22 PM
 

Beth
The Key to your new home....

Member since 2/06

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Beth

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Posted by KrisT




I feel the exact same way! I am always telling my mom that I am a failure because I can't handle doing everything now with an apartment and no kids - I have no idea what I am going to do when I have a house and kids Chat Icon


I keep thinking the same thing when I look at houses

I think I am going to need help- we used to have a cleaning lady once a week- but I decided to cut back when we moved- b/c the only one I could find wanted $80 a week! and I couldn't justify it

and then with the house- comes a dog and then comes kids Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/07 5:25 PM
 

Kate07
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Re: How does everyone keep up!

This whole adult thing is overrated.

I'm ready to go back to college.

Posted 4/3/07 5:27 PM
 

Jen2999
Baby girls & beagles rock!

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Jen

Re: How does everyone keep up!

throw grad school in the mix while you are at it.

Luckily I am a teacher so I get home by 4ish but SHEESH it is nuts.

I cant imagine throwing KIDS in the mix tooChat Icon

Posted 4/3/07 5:27 PM
 

KrisT
Two Boys for Me!!

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Kristin

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Posted by Kate07

This whole adult thing is overrated.

I'm ready to go back to college.



Excellent idea!! I'd love to go back too!

Posted 4/3/07 5:27 PM
 

evenedan
Need a little sunshine

Member since 9/05

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D

Re: How does everyone keep up!

I hardly ever cook. And I powerclean one day during the week no matter how tired I am (usually Thursday), I can't be bothered with cleaning and such on a weekend. I do however change the sheets every Sunday night, it's like my end of weekend ritual.

Posted 4/3/07 5:29 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Gerty ®

Re: How does everyone keep up!

I can't keep up during the week, I usually take Saturday or Sunday morning and do a powerclean and laundry session.
Otherwise, we wouldn't eat dinner all week or we'd be eating burgers cuz DH certainly doesn't cook.

Posted 4/3/07 5:31 PM
 

conigs25
So in love with this kid!

Member since 5/06

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Michele

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Beth, I hear ya. And we dont have kids. It scares the crap out of me

Posted 4/3/07 5:39 PM
 

Kristin616

Member since 8/06

3595 total posts

Name:
Kris

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Posted by conigs25

Beth, I hear ya. And we dont have kids. It scares the crap out of me



I agree! I give so much credit to parents who work full time. I feel like the energizer bunny monday-friday!

Posted 4/3/07 5:50 PM
 

Jessee
LIF Adult

Member since 3/06

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Jessee

Re: How does everyone keep up!

I don't keep up! I'm too tired when I come home from work. Cleaning gets done when I'm "inspired" otherwise, I do mostly tidying. DH helps a lot with cooking and cleaning (well, sometimes it's a lot more than help - more like I help him).

Message edited 4/3/2007 5:51:19 PM.

Posted 4/3/07 5:51 PM
 

Jax430
Hi!

Member since 5/05

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Jackie

Re: How does everyone keep up!

I hear ya! I can't imagine what life is going to be like when I have a house and kids. We can barely maintain our 1-bedroom apartment, and DH is lucky if I cook some sort of dinner 3 nights per week!

Posted 4/3/07 5:53 PM
 

conigs25
So in love with this kid!

Member since 5/06

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Michele

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Posted by Kate07

This whole adult thing is overrated.

I'm ready to go back to college.



Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/07 5:54 PM
 

hazeleyes33
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Ginger

Re: How does everyone keep up!

It's hard. I have the house, kids, dog, husband and fulltime job.

I clean and do laundry on the weekends.

I cook maybe 4-5 days a week. The rest we get pizza and takeout. Right now with the no sink, we have had alot of takeout because cleaning is a big pain.

The kids get baths and showers at night. My dh gives our son a bath while I clean the dishes or do something else that needs to get done.

We run around alot alone while one watches the kids to get things done.

It's hard but most everything gets done and we are always using lists and crossing things off to keep organized.

Posted 4/3/07 6:05 PM
 

CityBaby
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Re: How does everyone keep up!

cleaning lady and we pretty much fend for ourselves for dinner Chat Icon bad wife...

Posted 4/3/07 6:11 PM
 

NASP09
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Message edited 3/3/2010 4:42:01 PM.

Posted 4/3/07 6:41 PM
 

KLSbear
LIF Adult

Member since 1/06

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Karen

Re: How does everyone keep up!

I can't say I'm all that good at keeping up with it but I try. A few things that work for me are:

Toss a load of laundry in when I get home at night so it's never piling up.

Keep Clorox wipes and other cleaning stuff under the sink upstairs, to make quick touch-ups of the bathroom easy.

Windex Glass Wipes - LOVE THEM for wiping the mirrors quickly.

Swiffer Sweeper and Duster both short and long arm. Great for quick touches - 5 - 15 minutes here and there help keep things in good shape

NEVER let dishes pile up in the sink - clean up right after dinner, wipe all counters

Watch for your Hot Spots - where does stuff pile up - the kitchen island, dining room table, floor next to your favorite chair? Make a pledge to pick up stray items from that spot every night and keep it clean - it will make you feel much better about how things look.

Utilize the small moments - I find that I'm getting better and better about using 5 - 15 minute blocks to do small cleaning chores and it helps with keeping things in order - got 5 minutes while something is in the oven - then clean one shelf in the fridge - toss old stuff and wipe clean. Have a few minutes in the morning while the coffee is brewing - then organize your tupperware drawer and toss stray lids or tubs. You get the idea here - if you get in the habit of doing small bits of maintenance it becomes a lot easier to keep things in shape overall.

Posted 4/3/07 6:53 PM
 

mrsv
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Member since 7/06

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lol

Re: How does everyone keep up!

I cheat...lol I am a nurse and travel to see patients, so in between patients, I'll stop home... clean and maybe start dinner and hit the gym....lol

Posted 4/3/07 6:58 PM
 

MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.

Member since 5/05

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MrsERod™®

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Posted by Beth1210

working full time
cooking dinner every night
cleaning

I seriously can't keep up
my apartment is a huge mess, I never make a real dinner

(luckily my husband could care less)

but latley I just feel like I have no time!





when you do cook, make enough for 2 nights, or at least for lunch the next day

do one chore every hour you're home after work (say from 7-9, you vacuum one room one hour, and do the dishes the next hour) - do that everyday during the week, and by the time the weekend rolls around, it's all done



Posted 4/3/07 7:02 PM
 

Wendy1220
LIF Adult

Member since 3/06

2004 total posts

Name:
wendy

Re: How does everyone keep up!

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by Beth1210

working full time
cooking dinner every night
cleaning

I seriously can't keep up
my apartment is a huge mess, I never make a real dinner

(luckily my husband could care less)

but latley I just feel like I have no time!





when you do cook, make enough for 2 nights, or at least for lunch the next day

do one chore every hour you're home after work (say from 7-9, you vacuum one room one hour, and do the dishes the next hour) - do that everyday during the week, and by the time the weekend rolls around, it's all done






This is a good idea. I'm not the best at keep up but I make sure I clean the kitchen every night after dinner and straighten up the mess DH makes every night.

Posted 4/3/07 7:11 PM
 

Shanti
True love

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Re: How does everyone keep up!

I know exactly how you feel! I keep telling DH I want to move from our house to a condo because I cannot do it all!

Posted 4/3/07 8:15 PM
 

Pumpkin
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Re: How does everyone keep up!

I go to grad school 3 nights a week too and some weeks I am just so exhausted.

Posted 4/3/07 8:21 PM
 
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