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How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

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adeline27
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Angela

How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

For myself I would like to more so for medical reasons. It took me 2 long years and many sad events to get where I am now and I've always wanted a big family. I'm so happy and blessed with this little bean I have now growing inside me, I can't wait to see him or her.

Are any of you planning on conceiving right away?

I was told that you will be more fertile post delivery. How far along should you wait to try again? Some people I've talked to said at least 4 months.

Posted 6/4/07 9:17 AM
 
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skygirl
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Erica

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

I plan on trying again fairly soon after giving birth. ( god willing)

Posted 6/4/07 9:19 AM
 

debsey75
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Debbie

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

We plan on TTC as soon as possible after this one. We would like to have 2 children close in age. Hopefully everything will go well for us and we will be able to.
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Posted 6/4/07 9:21 AM
 

LUCY
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N

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

It's funny, DH and I always wanted them right back to back, Irish Twins, now after having gotten into the 3rd trimester, there is no way I can do this again right away. My body needs a break!!!!

Posted 6/4/07 9:21 AM
 

DanaRenee
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Dana

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

DH and I haven't really discussed it yet but I think we might be trying again 1 year after I give birth...I'm hoping to get pg around the same time of year so I don't have to buy any more clothes!! And more importantly, if we can do it financially.

Posted 6/4/07 9:27 AM
 

lulugrrl
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L

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

I would like them somewhat close toegther, but financially I just can't, so we will wait a couple of years!

Posted 6/4/07 9:43 AM
 

Diana1215
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Diana

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

I want to not be pregnant for at least one full year before trying again.

Posted 6/4/07 9:44 AM
 

smdl
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Member since 5/06

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Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

It is best to wait about 2 years to get PG with another child so your body can recoup from the 1st pregnancy.

Since I am already "old", I will not wait more than 2 years to go for #2.

Posted 6/4/07 9:48 AM
 

MrsSchwags
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Jennifer

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

well I am on my second immediately after my first. We wanted irish twins.

Posted 6/4/07 9:53 AM
 

MrsBlueSash
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Christian

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

Not me...I'm taking a break!

Posted 6/4/07 9:54 AM
 

MrsSquitty
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Nicole

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

we are, we want 3 or 4 kids. Chat Icon

Posted 6/4/07 9:56 AM
 

cjik
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Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

No, we're both getting old. One child is all we have planned.

Posted 6/4/07 10:01 AM
 

FrankiesGirl107
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Member since 12/06

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Amee

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

We're planning on waiting about 2 years or so before the next one...we don't want them too far apart, but we want to enjoy babydom with the first before having a second.

Posted 6/4/07 10:05 AM
 

adeline27
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Member since 5/06

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Angela

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

After I have my 2nd I plan on taking at least 2 years off.

I never heard of waiting 2 years for your body to go back to "normal state". I heard 4 months but that didn't come from a doctor. I'm going to ask my dr about this later in my pregnancy. I'll let you know what she says.

Posted 6/4/07 10:05 AM
 

adeline27
LIF Adult

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Angela

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

I just want to say if I didn't have any issues I would probably wait a year or two but I was told that the more I wait the more harder it will be to conceive. I will be much more fertile after I have this one then if I wait two years to try again. The condition I have is called endometriosis and it just makes a mess in my reproductive area. I've had 3 surgeries within a two year time frame in that area to remove cysts and scar tissue it creates. I just hate thinking about it.

When I have my 2nd baby I plan on taking at least a 2 year break and by the grace of God try for #3.

Posted 6/4/07 10:12 AM
 

waterspout4
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Kelly

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

We have too many factors to go with a 'plan'. I might have to go right back on chemo after the baby, so we are leaving it up to God.

Posted 6/4/07 10:21 AM
 

MST9106
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Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

My husband discussed that we will have no more than two kids and I think the second one won't be in the picture until we purchase our house and are all settled in...we're looking at another 3 or 4 years...I have time.

Posted 6/4/07 10:25 AM
 

bayla
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Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

we won't be, this was a rough pregnancy for me (having morning sickness the WHOLE time) and honestly i need a break, plus me and my DH got pregnant so soon after getting married (even though it was planned b/c they thought i had PCOS) i would like to enjoy life as the three of us for a while. We will prob wait 3 years ot have our 2nd.

Posted 6/4/07 10:29 AM
 

Phoebee
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Member since 11/06

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Michelle

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

I tired to make "plans" so many times in my life that I feel as if God laughs at me when I do. Chat Icon

I have always wanted more than one child, and wanted them close in age. I WANT Irish twins, or just the 2 under 2... but who knows what is in store for us?? Right now, I'm concentrating on this little Chat Icon and figure DH and I will really talk about it once she's here.

(I"m already "old" too, so that's another factor- I never wanted to be this old and having my first, let alone my 2nd).

Posted 6/4/07 10:58 AM
 

MichelleR
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tracyg

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

LOL Plans don't work out for me either. I wanted to have my first by the time I was 30, and I'll be 32 when I actually will.
BUT I would like to try maybe a year after having the first. That way they can be a couple years apart. I don't want them too far apart in age, and plus I'd like to be done before I'm 35. (Now that I said it, it won't happen LOL)

Posted 6/4/07 11:45 AM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

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me

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

Posted by adeline27

After I have my 2nd I plan on taking at least 2 years off.

I never heard of waiting 2 years for your body to go back to "normal state". I heard 4 months but that didn't come from a doctor. I'm going to ask my dr about this later in my pregnancy. I'll let you know what she says.




I used to work in a "women reproductive health" non-profit organization and that was what people recommend to moms. You can ask your dr. They recommend 1 to 2 years between kids.

Posted 6/4/07 11:50 AM
 

patti08
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Patti

Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

We plan to wait about 6-9 months after this one to try for a 2nd.

Posted 6/4/07 11:54 AM
 

johnsae
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Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

No way!! I can't wait to have my body back to myself for a few years. Pregnancy was no day in the park for me!

Posted 6/4/07 11:59 AM
 

LuvMy2Girls
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Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

Hey if you want to go for it, def do!!

I got pg when DD just turned 5 months old. I wanted to wait til she was 1 1/2 but it didn't work out that way.

I am now 34.5 weeks, and I cannot wait for this one to come. We are done after this, but for me there are soo many more positives than negatives having babies close together.

I can't wait to get my body back, I've been pg and bf'ing for the last 2 years without a break!

If i were you, do want you want and dont' look to anyone for validation!
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Posted 6/4/07 2:37 PM
 

InShock
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Re: How many of you want to conceive right away after this one?

We will be waiting about 2 years to TTC again.

Posted 6/4/07 2:39 PM
 
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