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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by Hofstra26
Because some people are both insecure and unhappy in their own lives so they need to project that on others in order to feel better about themselves. It's quite pathetic to put so much thought and energy into a stranger online.
Oh I'm very secure and extremely happy. That's why I don't feel the need to passive aggressively try to make others feel bad when they are all ready down, in an attempt to make myself feel better.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
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Because some people are both insecure and unhappy in their own lives so they need to project that on others in order to feel better about themselves. It's quite pathetic to put so much thought and energy into a stranger online.
Oh I'm very secure and extremely happy. That's why I don't feel the need to passive aggressively try to make others feel bad when they are all ready down, in an attempt to make myself feel better.
 Yea, that's what you are. LMFAO!!!
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
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Mine started fantastic. Got woken up by DD at 7am on the ONE day of the year that I figured I would actually get to sleep in. Dh decided to tell her just to laydown in bed with us and be quiet. She decides she's going to start a conversation. I took her to the out to feeds ducks, while DH slept. No breakfast, no gift, nada. I even made my own dinner reservation.
That was my first Mother's Day. Our daughter was a VERY difficult baby/toddler, child and now teen. All i wanted was to sleep past 6:00 am. My husband got up when she cried but then walked past our bedroom and said her her oh look there's mommy sleeping. That was it, all she wanted was me. I cried and cried that day. I was so tired.
Now I don't ask for anything and I just try to be happy if they do anything. I'm still the one that wakes up early while my husband snores away but at least I get a big hug from the girls and they make me cards. I buy myself a gift lol.
It'll get better as they get older. Just start dropping hints weeks before! Sorry you had a terrible day!
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
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Or maybe, there are actually happy people existing in the world. Shocking concept, I know! 
But.... there are also a lot of people who put up that house of cards for everyone to see. And then it all comes tumbling down.
I'm extremely happy but I certainly don't have the perfect marriage, kids, life etc. My house always looks like a bomb went off, I feed my kids take out like 3 or 4 days a week because I hate cooking but we are all getting by having a good time. I just like to keep it real. My husband can be a sh*t sometimes and mess up mother's day and even though I love my family it still pisses me off! And sometimes I'm a sh*t too. No one's perfect.
Nobody ever said life or relationships are perfect. Happiness is NOT perfection. Happiness is accepting that even when life is a $hit show and things are crazy you STILL wake up every day with a smile on your face and grateful for what you have.
Quite honestly, what others think about about my life is of no consequence to me as people will see what they want to see. As long as my kids, DH and I are all happy with the (imperfect) life we're leading then I'm good.  Some people spend too much time being concerned about the lives others are leading.
I don't think I've ever woken up with a smile on my face. I'm not a morning person. For me it's probably more about going to sleep with a smile on my face. Or passing out from drinking to much wine. Either one is fine by me.
I wake up with raging anxiety most days.
Actually, I wake up kind of like this....
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
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There are many that would never come out and say they were upset about their day anyway as that would ruin the look of the perfect family they have formed for social media and anyone outside their home. SMH
Or maybe, there are actually happy people existing in the world. Shocking concept, I know!
OP - I have found when you don't set expectations for others, you're less disappointed. But to another posters point, if you really want your day to go a certain way it's definitely best to be vocal about it. Men tend to need more direction when it comes to stuff like this. lol
Just stop, we ALL are happy with many things in our life. We just can admit that things suck sometimes and others know they are not alone as they have gone through it too.
Honestly my husband reminded the kids (whom I am not too happy with, at least one and they are owing me a pedicure) and got me flowers. My day was really no different than any other Sunday. I didn’t want to have to spend a ton of money at a crowded restaurant as we have BTDT. I have been a mother over 20 years so I have had it all and done it all. It does get upsetting though when the day is not acknowledged by your kids. Seems to be very common with older kids. This is why these “fake” holidays suck sometimes. Then add on social media which has made it worse for many people.
Then you have men who don’t give a crap. Women should probably take their lead lol.
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Because some people are both insecure and unhappy in their own lives so they need to project that on others in order to feel better about themselves. It's quite pathetic to put so much thought and energy into a stranger online.
You are so vain that you truly think people are obsessed with you and your life.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
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There are many that would never come out and say they were upset about their day anyway as that would ruin the look of the perfect family they have formed for social media and anyone outside their home. SMH
Or maybe, there are actually happy people existing in the world. Shocking concept, I know!
OP - I have found when you don't set expectations for others, you're less disappointed. But to another posters point, if you really want your day to go a certain way it's definitely best to be vocal about it. Men tend to need more direction when it comes to stuff like this. lol
Just stop, we ALL are happy with many things in our life. We just can admit that things suck sometimes and others know they are not alone as they have gone through it too.
Honestly my husband reminded the kids (whom I am not too happy with, at least one and they are owing me a pedicure) and got me flowers. My day was really no different than any other Sunday. I didn’t want to have to spend a ton of money at a crowded restaurant as we have BTDT. I have been a mother over 20 years so I have had it all and done it all. It does get upsetting though when the day is not acknowledged by your kids. Seems to be very common with older kids. This is why these “fake” holidays suck sometimes. Then add on social media which has made it worse for many people.
Then you have men who don’t give a crap. Women should probably take their lead lol.
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Because some people are both insecure and unhappy in their own lives so they need to project that on others in order to feel better about themselves. It's quite pathetic to put so much thought and energy into a stranger online.
You are so vain that you truly think people are obsessed with you and your life.
You're funny. This from the person who literally researches and studies countless POSTERS and repeatedly regurgitates details about their lives from as far back as 15 years ago. GTFOH
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by KarenK122
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Mine started fantastic. Got woken up by DD at 7am on the ONE day of the year that I figured I would actually get to sleep in. Dh decided to tell her just to laydown in bed with us and be quiet. She decides she's going to start a conversation. I took her to the out to feeds ducks, while DH slept. No breakfast, no gift, nada. I even made my own dinner reservation.
That was my first Mother's Day. Our daughter was a VERY difficult baby/toddler, child and now teen. All i wanted was to sleep past 6:00 am. My husband got up when she cried but then walked past our bedroom and said her her oh look there's mommy sleeping. That was it, all she wanted was me. I cried and cried that day. I was so tired.
Now I don't ask for anything and I just try to be happy if they do anything. I'm still the one that wakes up early while my husband snores away but at least I get a big hug from the girls and they make me cards. I buy myself a gift lol.
It'll get better as they get older. Just start dropping hints weeks before! Sorry you had a terrible day!
I agree. Men are clueless. DS is a teenager, but I've had numerous Mother's Day going good and others going really bad. Sometimes it is what it is. Last year DH got a mixer and air fryer for him on Mother's Day, so I got for myself an iRobot for Father's Day 
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Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
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There are many that would never come out and say they were upset about their day anyway as that would ruin the look of the perfect family they have formed for social media and anyone outside their home. SMH
Or maybe, there are actually happy people existing in the world. Shocking concept, I know!
OP - I have found when you don't set expectations for others, you're less disappointed. But to another posters point, if you really want your day to go a certain way it's definitely best to be vocal about it. Men tend to need more direction when it comes to stuff like this. lol
Just stop, we ALL are happy with many things in our life. We just can admit that things suck sometimes and others know they are not alone as they have gone through it too.
Honestly my husband reminded the kids (whom I am not too happy with, at least one and they are owing me a pedicure) and got me flowers. My day was really no different than any other Sunday. I didn’t want to have to spend a ton of money at a crowded restaurant as we have BTDT. I have been a mother over 20 years so I have had it all and done it all. It does get upsetting though when the day is not acknowledged by your kids. Seems to be very common with older kids. This is why these “fake” holidays suck sometimes. Then add on social media which has made it worse for many people.
Then you have men who don’t give a crap. Women should probably take their lead lol.
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Because some people are both insecure and unhappy in their own lives so they need to project that on others in order to feel better about themselves. It's quite pathetic to put so much thought and energy into a stranger online.
You are so vain that you truly think people are obsessed with you and your life.
You're funny. This from the person who literally researches and studies countless POSTERS and repeatedly regurgitates details about their lives from as far back as 15 years ago. GTFOH
NO ONE is obsessed with your life. Anything anyone says is what you provided and showing you how you come across on this board.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by windyweather21
Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
This from the person who makes countless assumptions about the lives on many of the posters here. You're very funny. Thanks for the laugh.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by Hofstra26
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Posted by windyweather21
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
There are many that would never come out and say they were upset about their day anyway as that would ruin the look of the perfect family they have formed for social media and anyone outside their home. SMH
Or maybe, there are actually happy people existing in the world. Shocking concept, I know!
OP - I have found when you don't set expectations for others, you're less disappointed. But to another posters point, if you really want your day to go a certain way it's definitely best to be vocal about it. Men tend to need more direction when it comes to stuff like this. lol
Just stop, we ALL are happy with many things in our life. We just can admit that things suck sometimes and others know they are not alone as they have gone through it too.
Honestly my husband reminded the kids (whom I am not too happy with, at least one and they are owing me a pedicure) and got me flowers. My day was really no different than any other Sunday. I didn’t want to have to spend a ton of money at a crowded restaurant as we have BTDT. I have been a mother over 20 years so I have had it all and done it all. It does get upsetting though when the day is not acknowledged by your kids. Seems to be very common with older kids. This is why these “fake” holidays suck sometimes. Then add on social media which has made it worse for many people.
Then you have men who don’t give a crap. Women should probably take their lead lol.
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Because some people are both insecure and unhappy in their own lives so they need to project that on others in order to feel better about themselves. It's quite pathetic to put so much thought and energy into a stranger online.
You are so vain that you truly think people are obsessed with you and your life.
You're funny. This from the person who literally researches and studies countless POSTERS and repeatedly regurgitates details about their lives from as far back as 15 years ago. GTFOH
NO ONE is obsessed with your life. Anything anyone says is what you provided and showing you how you come across on this board.
Look at you. Can't stop OBSESSING over every comment I make. Sad.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by KarenK122
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Mine started fantastic. Got woken up by DD at 7am on the ONE day of the year that I figured I would actually get to sleep in. Dh decided to tell her just to laydown in bed with us and be quiet. She decides she's going to start a conversation. I took her to the out to feeds ducks, while DH slept. No breakfast, no gift, nada. I even made my own dinner reservation.
That was my first Mother's Day. Our daughter was a VERY difficult baby/toddler, child and now teen. All i wanted was to sleep past 6:00 am. My husband got up when she cried but then walked past our bedroom and said her her oh look there's mommy sleeping. That was it, all she wanted was me. I cried and cried that day. I was so tired.
Now I don't ask for anything and I just try to be happy if they do anything. I'm still the one that wakes up early while my husband snores away but at least I get a big hug from the girls and they make me cards. I buy myself a gift lol.
It'll get better as they get older. Just start dropping hints weeks before! Sorry you had a terrible day!
Hints sometimes don’t always work so we basically have to accept that.
I am on teenage and adult pages on social media and the theme was over and over about how so many moms were disappointed. Not just about getting a gift but just the acknowledgment of even a card or call or text.
I think that is why so many moms do things on their own and make it THEIR day because moms are the ones that take care of mostly everything and as much as we tell our families about things, they rely on us so much it doesn’t click.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by Hofstra26
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Posted by amac27
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Quite the contrary. I think the "obsession" is more with why she would, as well as seaside, would ignore the entire post and just post about how wonderful their day was. It's inappropriate but with some posters it happens over and over. For example, I get into a huge blow out with my husband and come here to vent about it, and the response is "I have been in love with my husband since our eyes locked in high school. I still get butterflies every time he walks in the room. We never fight!!!" It's just about knowing your audience I guess. If someone is venting about how their mother's day sucks, the last thing they want to hear is how someone else had the perfect day because they were with the one's they love and it doesn't get better than that!!!!! They want to hear how your husband is a jack a** sometimes too. No one cares about your lovely day with your wonderful family.
Because you and VB are quite literally OBSESSED with everything I say and my life you've detailed this thread by creating some false drama and nonsense. I guess the people who had an amazing day on Sunday and the best short ribs didn't get YOUR memo about how they were to respond on this thread.
Regarding your "quotes" about my DH and I maybe give some context. That wasn't on a thread about couples fighting, it was about finding your one true love. Way to create a false narrative though.
To end this nonsense with you, I answered the question asked on this thread. Period. How you've managed to take my comment about doing absolutely NOTHING for Mother's s Day and then repeatedly carry on about how that is somehow indicative of a "perfect life" just goes to show how absolutely moronic you are. My comment didn't warrant a reply from you. At all. But you're obsessed as much as you like to deny it. Your verbal diarrhea on every thread is fast becoming a snooze fest.
How did the best short ribs I’ve ever had get dragged in ur negative post?
But seriously, I do not think people are “obsessed” with u, they’re just making observations on how ur posts constantly come across. I seriously think they don’t give a flying cucumber if ur life is just as perfect as u make it seem, or if u seriously wake up with a smile every single day. It’s the way u continuously come across, it’s just as simple as that. I mean even in ur and seaside’s comment to the OP in this thread, nothing in both comments show any empathy, or mention any negative Mother’s Day u've had in the past, they’re just super, duper fairy tale life comments. And if u really are a Disney princess after marrying the prince, that’s awesome but that has nothing to do with the underlying message of perfection ur posts always seem to have.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by amac27
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Quite the contrary. I think the "obsession" is more with why she would, as well as seaside, would ignore the entire post and just post about how wonderful their day was. It's inappropriate but with some posters it happens over and over. For example, I get into a huge blow out with my husband and come here to vent about it, and the response is "I have been in love with my husband since our eyes locked in high school. I still get butterflies every time he walks in the room. We never fight!!!" It's just about knowing your audience I guess. If someone is venting about how their mother's day sucks, the last thing they want to hear is how someone else had the perfect day because they were with the one's they love and it doesn't get better than that!!!!! They want to hear how your husband is a jack a** sometimes too. No one cares about your lovely day with your wonderful family.
Because you and VB are quite literally OBSESSED with everything I say and my life you've detailed this thread by creating some false drama and nonsense. I guess the people who had an amazing day on Sunday and the best short ribs didn't get YOUR memo about how they were to respond on this thread.
Regarding your "quotes" about my DH and I maybe give some context. That wasn't on a thread about couples fighting, it was about finding your one true love. Way to create a false narrative though.
To end this nonsense with you, I answered the question asked on this thread. Period. How you've managed to take my comment about doing absolutely NOTHING for Mother's s Day and then repeatedly carry on about how that is somehow indicative of a "perfect life" just goes to show how absolutely moronic you are. My comment didn't warrant a reply from you. At all. But you're obsessed as much as you like to deny it. Your verbal diarrhea on every thread is fast becoming a snooze fest.
The fact that you take this all so seriously and get so riled up is, quite frankly, one of the most amusing parts of my day.....
I didn't go back and read all your old posts, I was just generalizing how you come off.
And who posted about the short ribs? I must have missed it because I love me some good short ribs...
Dudeeeeeee, Alexandros in Smithtown! #TheBestShortRibs
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by amac27
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Quite the contrary. I think the "obsession" is more with why she would, as well as seaside, would ignore the entire post and just post about how wonderful their day was. It's inappropriate but with some posters it happens over and over. For example, I get into a huge blow out with my husband and come here to vent about it, and the response is "I have been in love with my husband since our eyes locked in high school. I still get butterflies every time he walks in the room. We never fight!!!" It's just about knowing your audience I guess. If someone is venting about how their mother's day sucks, the last thing they want to hear is how someone else had the perfect day because they were with the one's they love and it doesn't get better than that!!!!! They want to hear how your husband is a jack a** sometimes too. No one cares about your lovely day with your wonderful family.
Because you and VB are quite literally OBSESSED with everything I say and my life you've detailed this thread by creating some false drama and nonsense. I guess the people who had an amazing day on Sunday and the best short ribs didn't get YOUR memo about how they were to respond on this thread.
Regarding your "quotes" about my DH and I maybe give some context. That wasn't on a thread about couples fighting, it was about finding your one true love. Way to create a false narrative though.
To end this nonsense with you, I answered the question asked on this thread. Period. How you've managed to take my comment about doing absolutely NOTHING for Mother's s Day and then repeatedly carry on about how that is somehow indicative of a "perfect life" just goes to show how absolutely moronic you are. My comment didn't warrant a reply from you. At all. But you're obsessed as much as you like to deny it. Your verbal diarrhea on every thread is fast becoming a snooze fest.
How did the best short ribs I’ve ever had get dragged in ur negative post?
But seriously, I do not think people are “obsessed” with u, they’re just making observations on how ur posts constantly come across. I seriously think they don’t give a flying cucumber if ur life is just as perfect as u make it seem, or if u seriously wake up with a smile every single day. It’s the way u continuously come across, it’s just as simple as that. I mean even in ur and seaside’s comment to the OP in this thread, nothing in both comments show any empathy, or mention any negative Mother’s Day u've had in the past, they’re just super, duper fairy tale life comments. And if u really are a Disney princess after marrying the prince, that’s awesome but that has nothing to do with the underlying message of perfection ur posts always seem to have.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
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Posted by windyweather21
Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
This from the person who makes countless assumptions about the lives on many of the posters here. You're very funny. Thanks for the laugh.
No, you are so right. I am a total miserable b*tch and I am so jealous of you. You've got me all figured out. Boo hoo I wish I could have your life, living in mediocrity in the middle of NJ looking so forward to my next trip to Disney.
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
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Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by amac27
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Quite the contrary. I think the "obsession" is more with why she would, as well as seaside, would ignore the entire post and just post about how wonderful their day was. It's inappropriate but with some posters it happens over and over. For example, I get into a huge blow out with my husband and come here to vent about it, and the response is "I have been in love with my husband since our eyes locked in high school. I still get butterflies every time he walks in the room. We never fight!!!" It's just about knowing your audience I guess. If someone is venting about how their mother's day sucks, the last thing they want to hear is how someone else had the perfect day because they were with the one's they love and it doesn't get better than that!!!!! They want to hear how your husband is a jack a** sometimes too. No one cares about your lovely day with your wonderful family.
Because you and VB are quite literally OBSESSED with everything I say and my life you've detailed this thread by creating some false drama and nonsense. I guess the people who had an amazing day on Sunday and the best short ribs didn't get YOUR memo about how they were to respond on this thread.
Regarding your "quotes" about my DH and I maybe give some context. That wasn't on a thread about couples fighting, it was about finding your one true love. Way to create a false narrative though.
To end this nonsense with you, I answered the question asked on this thread. Period. How you've managed to take my comment about doing absolutely NOTHING for Mother's s Day and then repeatedly carry on about how that is somehow indicative of a "perfect life" just goes to show how absolutely moronic you are. My comment didn't warrant a reply from you. At all. But you're obsessed as much as you like to deny it. Your verbal diarrhea on every thread is fast becoming a snooze fest.
The fact that you take this all so seriously and get so riled up is, quite frankly, one of the most amusing parts of my day.....
I didn't go back and read all your old posts, I was just generalizing how you come off.
And who posted about the short ribs? I must have missed it because I love me some good short ribs...
Dudeeeeeee, Alexandros in Smithtown! #TheBestShortRibs
Oh thank god it's on Long Island. For a minute I was afraid I was gonna have to go to NJ to get them....
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by amac27
I really don't understand the obsession some have with trying to get Hofstra to admit that she isn't happy or that her life isn't perfect. May she just is that happy (then let her enjoy it) or maybe she is living in a fantasy (still-let her enjoy her fantasy). Either way, what is the obsession a person lives and views their life?
Quite the contrary. I think the "obsession" is more with why she would, as well as seaside, would ignore the entire post and just post about how wonderful their day was. It's inappropriate but with some posters it happens over and over. For example, I get into a huge blow out with my husband and come here to vent about it, and the response is "I have been in love with my husband since our eyes locked in high school. I still get butterflies every time he walks in the room. We never fight!!!" It's just about knowing your audience I guess. If someone is venting about how their mother's day sucks, the last thing they want to hear is how someone else had the perfect day because they were with the one's they love and it doesn't get better than that!!!!! They want to hear how your husband is a jack a** sometimes too. No one cares about your lovely day with your wonderful family.
Because you and VB are quite literally OBSESSED with everything I say and my life you've detailed this thread by creating some false drama and nonsense. I guess the people who had an amazing day on Sunday and the best short ribs didn't get YOUR memo about how they were to respond on this thread.
Regarding your "quotes" about my DH and I maybe give some context. That wasn't on a thread about couples fighting, it was about finding your one true love. Way to create a false narrative though.
To end this nonsense with you, I answered the question asked on this thread. Period. How you've managed to take my comment about doing absolutely NOTHING for Mother's s Day and then repeatedly carry on about how that is somehow indicative of a "perfect life" just goes to show how absolutely moronic you are. My comment didn't warrant a reply from you. At all. But you're obsessed as much as you like to deny it. Your verbal diarrhea on every thread is fast becoming a snooze fest.
How did the best short ribs I’ve ever had get dragged in ur negative post?
But seriously, I do not think people are “obsessed” with u, they’re just making observations on how ur posts constantly come across. I seriously think they don’t give a flying cucumber if ur life is just as perfect as u make it seem, or if u seriously wake up with a smile every single day. It’s the way u continuously come across, it’s just as simple as that. I mean even in ur and seaside’s comment to the OP in this thread, nothing in both comments show any empathy, or mention any negative Mother’s Day u've had in the past, they’re just super, duper fairy tale life comments. And if u really are a Disney princess after marrying the prince, that’s awesome but that has nothing to do with the underlying message of perfection ur posts always seem to have.
Staying home and doing nothing for Mother's Day is a "fairy tale life"????
Look, if people are secure in their own lives then the comments of strangers on a silly little forum shouldn't matter to them. Period.
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| Posted 5/10/21 1:52 AM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
This from the person who makes countless assumptions about the lives on many of the posters here. You're very funny. Thanks for the laugh.
No, you are so right. I am a total miserable b*tch and I am so jealous of you. You've got me all figured out. Boo hoo I wish I could have your life, living in mediocrity in the middle of NJ looking so forward to my next trip to Disney.
Miserable b!tch is right. Finally something we can agree on. 
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| Posted 5/10/21 1:56 AM |
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
This from the person who makes countless assumptions about the lives on many of the posters here. You're very funny. Thanks for the laugh.
No, you are so right. I am a total miserable b*tch and I am so jealous of you. You've got me all figured out. Boo hoo I wish I could have your life, living in mediocrity in the middle of NJ looking so forward to my next trip to Disney.
Miserable b!tch is right. Finally something we can agree on.
Wow really? Was that really needed?
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| Posted 5/10/21 2:01 AM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
This from the person who makes countless assumptions about the lives on many of the posters here. You're very funny. Thanks for the laugh.
No, you are so right. I am a total miserable b*tch and I am so jealous of you. You've got me all figured out. Boo hoo I wish I could have your life, living in mediocrity in the middle of NJ looking so forward to my next trip to Disney.
Miserable b!tch is right. Finally something we can agree on.
Wow really? Was that really needed?
Just agreeing with her. Her words, not mine.
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| Posted 5/10/21 2:08 AM |
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lululu
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
This from the person who makes countless assumptions about the lives on many of the posters here. You're very funny. Thanks for the laugh.
No, you are so right. I am a total miserable b*tch and I am so jealous of you. You've got me all figured out. Boo hoo I wish I could have your life, living in mediocrity in the middle of NJ looking so forward to my next trip to Disney.
Miserable b!tch is right. Finally something we can agree on.
Wow really? Was that really needed?
Just agreeing with her. Her words, not mine.
You crack me up! I think it's super cute that you think I'm jealous.
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| Posted 5/10/21 2:19 AM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
This from the person who makes countless assumptions about the lives on many of the posters here. You're very funny. Thanks for the laugh.
No, you are so right. I am a total miserable b*tch and I am so jealous of you. You've got me all figured out. Boo hoo I wish I could have your life, living in mediocrity in the middle of NJ looking so forward to my next trip to Disney.
Miserable b!tch is right. Finally something we can agree on.
Wow really? Was that really needed?
Just agreeing with her. Her words, not mine.
You crack me up! I think it's super cute that you think I'm jealous.
I think it's super cute how you pretend that you're not utterly obsessed with EVERY WORD I post but yet, have been replying NONSTOP ALL DAY. Weird.
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| Posted 5/10/21 2:23 AM |
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lululu
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Re: How was everyone's Mother's Day
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by lululu
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Do you know this poster IRL? Why the middle school girl response?
This from the person who makes countless assumptions about the lives on many of the posters here. You're very funny. Thanks for the laugh.
No, you are so right. I am a total miserable b*tch and I am so jealous of you. You've got me all figured out. Boo hoo I wish I could have your life, living in mediocrity in the middle of NJ looking so forward to my next trip to Disney.
Miserable b!tch is right. Finally something we can agree on.
Wow really? Was that really needed?
Just agreeing with her. Her words, not mine.
You crack me up! I think it's super cute that you think I'm jealous.
I think it's super cute how you pretend that you're not utterly obsessed with EVERY WORD I post but yet, have been replying NONSTOP ALL DAY. Weird.
To be honest, I only do it because you do the same. exact. thing. to VB all day long..... Funny right?
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| Posted 5/10/21 2:25 AM |
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