I am the only one who agonizes who will be invited to the kids parties?

I don't know why but I always have a hard time with the invite list. Either I have to many and I have to cut people out and I worry they will get offended or I want to invite people because the kids are close in age and I though it would be nice but then I don't want them to think I am looking for a gift. Anyone else like this or do I just over think everything

Re: I am the only one who agonizes who will be invited to the kids parties?

i do the same

I have excel spreadsheets for every party i've thrown for them

Re: I am the only one who agonizes who will be invited to the kids parties?

i just imvited all the kids we know sooo we are going to have over 30 kids thats not even counting all the adults without kids

Re: I am the only one who agonizes who will be invited to the kids parties?

I always know who I am inviting - and who I want to invite. If people have comments to make - I don't really care personally. My party - my guest list!

Invite whoever you want - no one would think you want presents!

Re: I am the only one who agonizes who will be invited to the kids parties?

I am the SAME way.

There are certain people I have to invite and there are ones I want to invite and then there are the ones that I should invite. I hate it!