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mrsyoungmommy
can't wait to meet Sophia!
Member since 6/10 1441 total posts
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Danielle
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I bought something today to remember my little boy...
I was at the mall and passed the pandora store and thought it would be a nice idea to get a charm for my bracelet to help me always remember my little boy. I am having a very difficult time and hope that I can start to heal my broken heart soon.
I also bought that belly shrinker for after you have the baby. I made the lady at Destination maternity cry after she asked me when I had the baby and I told her I lost it. That was fun, especially when people who get emotional around me over me makes me uncomfortable.
I purchased these charms:
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Posted 4/25/11 6:17 PM  |
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azailia
He's TWO already!!!
Member since 9/09 1507 total posts
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Dana
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
Oh Danielle.... I can't stop thinking of you..... I think that was a great thing to do!! He will always be with you.....
i am so sorry.
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| Posted 4/25/11 6:22 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
It's beautiful.... And I cant imagine anyone able to hold back tears after hearing your story 
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| Posted 4/25/11 6:26 PM |
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kathleeng
Member since 5/05 3775 total posts
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Kathleen
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
Just to let you know I have thinking of you since I read your thread. My heart breaks for you. My situation was a little different, but I lost my son when he was nine days old. He had a serious heart defect. To say we were devastated was an understatement. I couldn't bear to be around anyone else with children; especially babies. I couldn't handle any pregnancy announcements either. My husband and I basically isolated ourselves for at least 6 months. I was depressed and absolutely grief stricken. It is a very painful ordeal but you will one day smile again. Believe me when I say this. I thought I would never ever be the same, and the truth is I am not. But I have gone on to have another child that I love dearly.
Try to surround yourself with supportive people who let you grieve in the way you decide. If you need to be alone for awhile, then let that happen. The true people in your lives will stand by you. I think it is absolutely wonderful that you purchased those items for your baby. If that brings you a little comfort then that is a wonderful thing. It also may be helpful to speak with someone who specializes in grief. I saw a great therapist for awhile in Manhattan. Also, joining a bereavement group might be helpful as well. They really are the only other people to understand what you are going through.
Many hugs and I am only an FM away if you want to talk.
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| Posted 4/25/11 6:31 PM |
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heather10292010
Gonna be a big sister
Member since 12/10 1749 total posts
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Heather
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
I can't even imagine the pain and sadness you are feeling now. I think it is so great that you bought those charms... your little boy with be with you always.... many hugs
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| Posted 4/25/11 7:02 PM |
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CallaLily
Thank you, Saint Gerard!
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
Those charms are a beautiful way to remember your son. I cannot imagine how horrific this must all be for you
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| Posted 4/25/11 8:23 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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g
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
D they are beautiful! we r all here for you
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| Posted 4/25/11 9:10 PM |
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PrincessP
Big sister!!!!!!!!!!
Member since 12/05 17450 total posts
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
What a beautiful sentiment. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 4/25/11 9:58 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
What a wonderful idea! I got something similar to remember my son.. I wear a ring with his birthstone (the month he would have been due).
I found it really helps to have something tangible to remember him by. I wear it almost everyday.
ETA: I can also relate to being uncomfortable when other people get very emotional. I once told someone at my job about our loss and she started crying uncontrollably to the point where I was consoling HER! It was awkward  though, I appreciated how touched she was by my story.
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| Posted 4/25/11 11:24 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
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Stacey
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
How beautiful!!!!
I’m so sorry you’re going through this!!!!
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| Posted 4/26/11 8:18 AM |
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KarenAnthony
Baby Girl Coming in May!!!
Member since 10/07 3031 total posts
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Karen
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
I think that was a great idea.
I'm really so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 4/26/11 8:50 AM |
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VickiRG510
I'M A MOMMY!
Member since 3/09 1042 total posts
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Vicki
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
D - I think that is such a beautiful thing. I also think its a great way to start the healing process. Its a long road. But you will get through. Just know that your little boy will always be with you & watching over you as your gaurdian angel.
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| Posted 4/26/11 10:10 PM |
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neener1211
:-)
Member since 4/07 22952 total posts
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J
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
What a great thing to remember your son is with you everyday. I too got a piece of jewelry, a bracelet with his stone in it, and I have added my two other children to it.
I've been thinking about you, and wish all the best for you.
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| Posted 4/27/11 12:25 PM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
Member since 1/08 6549 total posts
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Patty
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
The charms are beautiful.
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| Posted 4/27/11 3:08 PM |
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mycrayon
LIF Infant
Member since 6/07 166 total posts
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Carolyn
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Re: I bought something today to remember my little boy...
Ive been thinking of a pandora charm to remember my son too but i was afraid of being uncomfortable when people asked about it
Ive had people at work who knew fray when i told them i wa s out for a month and half and lost him. I am finding if comforting to know that im not alone in these feelings
I hope you will be well soon and can start to heal.
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| Posted 4/30/11 11:25 PM |
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