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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime
Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name: Mama
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I can't believe my maternity leave is over
I know others have gone through this so I could really use some support. I have to return to work tomorrow after 13 weeks home. I am sick to my stomach and can't stop crying. I am lucky that DS will be with my sister but I can't help but feel miserable, upset and really sad. I just want to stay home and raise my son.
I'll make it through tomorrow, right?
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Posted 1/19/09 9:13 PM |
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trnity44
I hope you stay beautiful baby
Member since 5/05 8356 total posts
Name: Liz
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
It'll be ok! Lots and lots of hugs for you!
May your day tomorrow (and always) go super fast!
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Posted 1/19/09 9:20 PM |
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KateDevine
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Member since 6/06 24950 total posts
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
I'll be honest, the first week is the worst, BUT once you get your schedule down and things fall into a routine, everything will be fine.
And don't stress about not raising your son, you are!
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Posted 1/19/09 9:21 PM |
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
Tomorrow will be hard, no doubt, but I promise you will live through it and it will get easier over time!!!
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Posted 1/19/09 9:29 PM |
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Octobermom
LIF Adult
Member since 1/09 972 total posts
Name: Anna Maria
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
I'll be writing the same thing next week when I go back to work!
I hope this week flies for you!
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Posted 1/19/09 9:34 PM |
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dawnygirl25
Growing up soo fast..
Member since 1/06 14917 total posts
Name: Dawn
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
hang in there!
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Posted 1/19/09 9:37 PM |
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julz33
i run for bacon
Member since 5/05 20584 total posts
Name: julz
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
You'll be OK!
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Posted 1/19/09 10:19 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Member since 5/05 18599 total posts
Name: Mommy
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
big hugs for you... I know it'll get easier for you
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Posted 1/19/09 10:29 PM |
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waterspout4
My loves
Member since 5/06 19150 total posts
Name: Kelly
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
It does get easier. Cry if you need to. I know I did my first few days back to work.
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Posted 1/19/09 10:30 PM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
Name: Leslie
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
Here is what you do...
...open the door to your office, make a left, open the door, walk down the hall, knock on the door and ask for a hug. I'll be there for you!
I promise you it will get easier.
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Posted 1/19/09 11:04 PM |
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snowflake08
Love my boys!!!
Member since 8/07 5148 total posts
Name: Laura
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
i have 2 weeks left and totally know how you feel - tomorrow will be hard; but each day will get easier
i cry just thinking about it
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Posted 1/19/09 11:09 PM |
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twinkletoes807
Mommy's Girls! ♥
Member since 11/07 10116 total posts
Name: Gabi
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
I feel like I am reading my own words that I could've written last Monday. That is when I went back to work after being home with my DD for 13 weeks. I'm not gonna sugar coat it- it fucckin sucks. And my DD is with me all morning and then either with my aunt for 2 hours and then my husband for the rest of the night or I meet my husband and we swap the baby... it doesn't matter that family will be with the baby, it just hurts. I cried several time the day I had to go to work. Before leaving, during me leaving and at work. You will cry. BUT, it does get better. I think the anticipation of starting it makes it a lot worse. Now, with one whole week under my belt, I am still upset when I leave my DD everyday at 2pm and don't get home until 12:50am but I think of the fact that I get to wake up with her. Hang in there. You will cry but you won't cry forever. I know exactly how you feel!!
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Posted 1/19/09 11:13 PM |
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MrsG41307
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Member since 11/07 936 total posts
Name: Dyanne
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
It will be hard in the beginning..but it will get a bit better in time....Lots of hugs for you
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Posted 1/19/09 11:33 PM |
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BigB
C & J are 10!
Member since 6/05 5914 total posts
Name: Stacey
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
It is so hard, but you will make it through!
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Posted 1/19/09 11:34 PM |
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mrswask
Pookie Love
Member since 5/05 20229 total posts
Name: Michal
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
Many hugs, Holl
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Posted 1/19/09 11:50 PM |
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monkeybride
My Everything
Member since 5/05 20541 total posts
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
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Posted 1/19/09 11:53 PM |
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peabody
Love green icing!!!
Member since 5/05 4691 total posts
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
It will get better.
It S U C K S how this country views and handles maternity leave. It is not natural for a mother to have to leave her 3 month baby.
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Posted 1/19/09 11:53 PM |
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MrsFlatbread
Skinny jeans are in my future
Member since 6/06 10258 total posts
Name: Baby Momma
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
I will be thinking of you....
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Posted 1/20/09 4:31 AM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
Member since 7/05 57538 total posts
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
Posted by MrsPornStar
I'll make it through tomorrow, right?
We all do. You will too.
It takes awhile to get into a routine & then you'll start to love seeing his face light up when you pick him up and the crafts they do with him, etc.
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Posted 1/20/09 6:06 AM |
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jea128
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
You will make it through, it will be tough but you'll do it. And once you make it through, you'll come home and be able to give your baby lots of hugs and kisses. Good luck!
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Posted 1/20/09 6:43 AM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
Name: Kristen
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
I don't know what it is like yet, but my time is going to come soon enough. I am sure you will be able to make it through & you will have something to truly get you through the day. Knowing you can see Aidan smiling when you get home, will keep you going
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Posted 1/20/09 6:44 AM |
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browneyedgirl
family is all that matters
Member since 6/06 6513 total posts
Name: browneyes
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
i feel for you i'll be right there with you soon. everyone seems to get through it somehow
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Posted 1/20/09 7:53 AM |
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Faithx2
All good things in 2016!!
Member since 8/05 20181 total posts
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
Good Luck
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Posted 1/20/09 8:02 AM |
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nbc188
Best friends!
Member since 12/06 23090 total posts
Name: C
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
It will be hard, but you will BOTH get through it and will get adjusted to a routine soon, which WILL make it easier-- good luck!
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Posted 1/20/09 8:20 AM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
Name: LB
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Re: I can't believe my maternity leave is over
i know how you are feeling, it is SO hard - but like mine, your DS is with family, and i know that it made things a bit easier for me
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Posted 1/20/09 8:42 AM |
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