Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
while i did not have a child at the time, i had to make that awful decision of what to do when my first husband was critically ill and on a ventilator.. to this day i say that it was the hardest decision i had to make.... one of his doctors told me he would never recover and essentially be like terry shivo and just lost it.... but then i realized i need to make a choice.. the way i made the decision was to actually speak to his friends (his family was extremely against a dnr and actually tried to get a court order against it but he passed away before they could) and his friends confirmed my own thoughts on what he wanted... I think i was shaking the whole time I was signing the papers.... But when i read his autopsy report afterward i was able to see just how much was wrong with him and it eased my mind
anyways now that i rambled on... my point is that you aren;t alone and i hope it all works out....
Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
OMG, I am so so sorry, I can't even BEGIN to imagine what you and your family is going through. Your poor DH, I am so very sorry and I pray for a miracle...
Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
I just called my aunt who is a nun and she has them all praying for you. A mass will be said in your husbands name tomorrow at her Seminary. I am so sorry anything I can do please don't hesitate.