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if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

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hunnybunnyxoxo
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Lisa

if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

if i had the power, i would love to have twins.
2 in one shot! how perfect!

Posted 10/20/08 3:32 PM
 
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Smalls72
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo

if i had the power, i would love to have twins.
2 in one shot! how perfect!





I agree with you. We were hoping for twins. They run in my husbands family. There's several identicals and I think one set of paternal.

Posted 10/20/08 3:37 PM
 

NoStressMom
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D

Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by Smalls72

Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo

if i had the power, i would love to have twins.
2 in one shot! how perfect!





I agree with you. We were hoping for twins. They run in my husbands family. There's several identicals and I think one set of paternal.


I felt the same way twin boy and girl and I'm done!!

Now fast forward to now actually being pregnant I hoping and praying to god it is a single child. Not sure if I can handle 2 right now.Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/08 3:42 PM
 

MarisaK
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

No Way Jose !! One baby at a time please !!
I give all the credit (and awe) in the workd to women who carry, deliver and then CARE FOR multiples ........

ONE baby has to be enough work, now, add another doing the exact same things at the exact same age, needing the same amount of attention, giving you the same aggravation - etc etc .........And I don't just mean when they're babies ........
When they go to school
Go to the prom
Go to college
etc etc etc .........I am seriously in awe of parents who have twins .....it just seems like SO much more work !!

Posted 10/20/08 3:46 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

I was originally pregnant with twins, but am carrying a singleton now.

Of course all we want is a healthy and happy baby, but I know deep in our hearts we are hoping when we go back to do another embryo transfer next year, that both embies take and stick.

Posted 10/20/08 3:47 PM
 

Dani922
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Just one at a time for me please! Of course I would be grateful to have multiples, but I would definately prefer one at a time. I'm scared of what it would be like caring for twins especially in the early weeks. I give a lot of credit to moms of multiples!

Posted 10/20/08 3:50 PM
 

MrsS2005
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by Smalls72

Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo

if i had the power, i would love to have twins.
2 in one shot! how perfect!





I agree with you. We were hoping for twins. They run in my husbands family. There's several identicals and I think one set of paternal.


Your likelihood of having twins has nothing to do with your DH's family.

I certainly wouldn't mind multiples, but I'm quite happy having one at a time.

Posted 10/20/08 3:52 PM
 

Diane
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by Smalls72

Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo

if i had the power, i would love to have twins.
2 in one shot! how perfect!





I agree with you. We were hoping for twins. They run in my husbands family. There's several identicals and I think one set of paternal.

twins need to run in the girls side of the family....you are the one releasing 2 eggs, not the man.
Identical tiwns are NOT hereditary.


Posted 10/20/08 4:02 PM
 

mamabear
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

I would choose twins. Mostly because we want 3-4 kids, and I'm already 30, almost 31.

Posted 10/20/08 4:03 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by MarisaK

No Way Jose !! One baby at a time please !!
I give all the credit (and awe) in the workd to women who carry, deliver and then CARE FOR multiples ........

ONE baby has to be enough work, now, add another doing the exact same things at the exact same age, needing the same amount of attention, giving you the same aggravation - etc etc .........And I don't just mean when they're babies ........
When they go to school
Go to the prom
Go to college
etc etc etc .........I am seriously in awe of parents who have twins .....it just seems like SO much more work !!


ITA!! Only one at a time please!!!!

Posted 10/20/08 4:25 PM
 

SweetTooth
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Lauren

Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Well, I am carrying twins and am very excited, but also very overwhelmed with the thought of two of everything. Since I haven't a singleton, I can't really compare.

Posted 10/20/08 4:27 PM
 

mcl916
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by MrsRbk

I was originally pregnant with twins, but am carrying a singleton now.

Of course all we want is a healthy and happy baby, but I know deep in our hearts we are hoping when we go back to do another embryo transfer next year, that both embies take and stick.



I was in the same situation as you AND felt the same way while I was pregnant (about hoping for twins next time around). However, after going through delivery and now having a newborn I can NOT imagine doing this with two Chat Icon I told DH if we have a FET we will only put one back!!! I give moms of twins a LOT of credit Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/08 5:26 PM
 

mamallama
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by SweetTooth

Well, I am carrying twins and am very excited, but also very overwhelmed with the thought of two of everything. Since I haven't a singleton, I can't really compare.



I agree - DH and I don't have anything to compare this to so it will all be "normal" to us!

Posted 10/20/08 5:29 PM
 

Laura1976

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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

I'm due with twins in another week or two, never in my life did i ever wish or want twins until i got pregnant with them. I thought having one was a handful, two is really going to be absolutely crazy. I think the next year or two of my life is going to just be pure chaos but its exciting.

Posted 10/20/08 5:37 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Being the mother of a newborn singleton, it is very hard with just one. I am sure I would rise above and be fine with twins but it would be a struggle for me.

Posted 10/20/08 5:38 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

one is fine for me. Im nervous enought about just him, toss another or two in the mix and I could totally go crazy! I give MASSIVE props to those with twins, trips. You guys are good.

Posted 10/20/08 5:40 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

There's no history of multiples in my family, but since I took Clomid and had 3 good follies, there was a chance that I'd have multiples.

I was secretly hoping for twins, but now with all of these back problems I've had, it's probably a good thing that I'm only having one! Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/08 5:56 PM
 

Mere09
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Having twins to me just seems like double the blessing. I would be very excited for twins although I can only imagine how much harder everything must be x2! Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/08 6:09 PM
 

wannabemom
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by Goldi0218

Being the mother of a newborn singleton, it is very hard with just one. I am sure I would rise above and be fine with twins but it would be a struggle for me.



ditto!

Posted 10/20/08 6:16 PM
 

PeasandCarrots

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L

Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

I want a healthy baby, and if I could have healthy twins I would. I have ALWAYS wanted twin boys.

Posted 10/20/08 6:19 PM
 

nymommy2be
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Posted by Laura1976

I'm due with twins in another week or two, never in my life did i ever wish or want twins until i got pregnant with them. I thought having one was a handful, two is really going to be absolutely crazy. I think the next year or two of my life is going to just be pure chaos but its exciting.



Same for me. I never even thought of twins let alone wished for them, but here I am pg with twins. It's exciting, but it will be quite a ride.

Posted 10/20/08 6:33 PM
 

JsWife
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Twins!

Posted 10/20/08 6:37 PM
 

Dulcinea
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

The practical side of me say twins, but the vain and sane side say one at a time!

Posted 10/20/08 8:07 PM
 

sweetbabydreams
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

Going through the whole Infertility process i was hoping for twins. Now being pregnant and the complications and Pain im having i cant say that twins is something i could handle. My anxiety level is already on the rise about having just one and making sure I do everything right with that one. Maybe next time since it run in the family

Posted 10/20/08 8:36 PM
 

maiden
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Re: if you had the power to choose if you wanted twins/triplets or a single birth, what would you choose?

The idea of twins sounds fun, but in reality, I think one at a time is better for me.

Posted 10/20/08 9:12 PM
 
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