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Are You Insecure in Your Relationship

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes 31 23.31%
No 81 60.90%
Sometimes 21 15.79%
 

Insecure In Your Relationship

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msma88
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Insecure In Your Relationship

I was just wondering since I feel some of my friends seem to not trust their husbands. And hate when they do things with their friends without them. So they normally try to tag along.

Posted 1/26/06 12:19 PM
 

Redhead
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Jennifer

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

not at all

Posted 1/26/06 12:22 PM
 

Marcie
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LOVE being a Mommy!

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Definitely not

Posted 1/26/06 12:22 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Of all of the guys I ever dated (umm... yeah, too many because I was 32 when I met DHChat Icon ) he was the one I can trust 100%.

Posted 1/26/06 12:24 PM
 

msma88
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

For the people that posted sometimes and yes, does he give you a reason or is it low self esteem? Just curious.

Message edited 1/26/2006 12:27:07 PM.

Posted 1/26/06 12:25 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Mommy

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH

Of all of the guys I ever dated (umm... yeah, too many because I was 32 when I met DHChat Icon ) he was the one I can trust 100%.



Totally agree (except I was a ripe old 34 when I met my DH Chat Icon.. so I paid my dues!!)

Posted 1/26/06 12:34 PM
 

ODonnell
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Posted by FeliciaDP

Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH

Of all of the guys I ever dated (umm... yeah, too many because I was 32 when I met DHChat Icon ) he was the one I can trust 100%.



Totally agree (except I was a ripe old 34 when I met my DH Chat Icon.. so I paid my dues!!)



I feel the exact same way. And I was 35 when I met my DH. All that time with guys I couldn't trust...Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/06 12:39 PM
 

MrsERod
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MrsERod™®

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

nope, not at all.

Posted 1/26/06 12:40 PM
 

kathleeng

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Kathleen

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Not in my relationship. I do admit I can be insecure in other aspects of my life at times.

Posted 1/26/06 12:43 PM
 

Luvlylady
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Alexandria

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Posted by kathleeng

Not in my relationship. I do admit I can be insecure in other aspects of my life at times.


Me too!
I truly beleive this comes from being a Motherless Daughter most of my life!Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/06 12:49 PM
 

LuckySV
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

I don't think I could've married DH if I was insecure in our relationship.

Now, other aspects of my life, that's another story Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/06 1:23 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

I voted sometimes... though it's not really insecurity in my relationship, more with myself. I think alot of people go through this at times in their relationships. I only feel insecure in my relationship when I'm feeling insecure about myself, never because he gives me any reason to be.

Posted 1/26/06 1:33 PM
 

tann22
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship



never!!!
I trust him 150%

Posted 1/26/06 1:34 PM
 

GenLCSW
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Genna

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

nope!!!

Posted 1/26/06 1:35 PM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

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Stephanie

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

nope, I never worry about what he is doing when I'm not around or when he goes out. He is probably just at a friend's playing video games or at our neighborhood bar with the old people anyway Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/06 2:03 PM
 

saraH
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

never...he has never given me a reason not to trust him

Posted 1/26/06 2:08 PM
 

LFitzy79
can hardly wait

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Lauren

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

yes, but not that I think he'll cheat on me...I just wish that we were engaged and planning our marriage.....instead we are stuck in long term dating land...and that makes me feel insecure...like he's not sure he wants to be with me forever.

Posted 1/26/06 2:10 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Not at all. He finds most women to be a PITA so I can't imagine, he'd want a second one in his life. Plus I'm so moody - it is really like he has 10 different women in his life already.

Message edited 1/26/2006 2:18:14 PM.

Posted 1/26/06 2:17 PM
 

MrsProfessor
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH

Of all of the guys I ever dated (umm... yeah, too many because I was 32 when I met DHChat Icon ) he was the one I can trust 100%.



I was 31 when I met DH too, and I think being a little older helps.

I think there are two types of insecurity- one that comes from you and you know it's irrational and groundless (hopefully) and the kind that comes from being with someone who makes you feel insecure, either accidentally or on purpose. My DH has never said or done anything to make me feel insecure. In the early days I had a couple moments of it, but that came from myself and it was baseless.

Posted 1/26/06 2:23 PM
 

Shanti
True love

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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

It is funny, in past relationships, I was very insecure but I am not all insecure with DH.

Posted 1/26/06 2:43 PM
 

Kelly
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This is it

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Posted by nrthshgrl

Not at all. He finds most women to be a PITA so I can't imagine, he'd want a second one in his life. Plus I'm so moody - it is really like he has 10 different women in his life already.




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Posted 1/26/06 4:32 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

I couldn't imagine being in a relationship like that... I totally completely trust DH.

I love to have my girltime and I know he likes his time with the boys.

Posted 1/26/06 4:35 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Mommy

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Posted by nrthshgrl

Not at all. He finds most women to be a PITA so I can't imagine, he'd want a second one in his life. Plus I'm so moody - it is really like he has 10 different women in his life already.



OMG you are hysterical... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/06 4:38 PM
 

MrsJ
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Kathy

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

I couldnt be more secure.

Posted 1/26/06 4:43 PM
 

MrsJ
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Kathy

Re: Insecure In Your Relationship

Posted by nrthshgrl

Not at all. He finds most women to be a PITA so I can't imagine, he'd want a second one in his life. Plus I'm so moody - it is really like he has 10 different women in his life already.



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Posted 1/26/06 4:43 PM
 
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