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Melbernai
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Re: Insensitive Comments
I am sorry to hear that someone said something that wasn't nice to you Deb -- as if you dont have enough going on right now to have to deal with people and that stuff......
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Jax430
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Re: Insensitive Comments
Posted by DebG
Posted by Marcie
I hope no one said something hurtful to you  
Sadly someone did, about my diagnosis.
Not sure what to do about it.
That's awful!! I'm sorry Deb.
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:16 PM |
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Posted by pmpkn087
Posted by Marcie
Deb I am sorry someone hurt you.
Honestly - the way I look at it. Is that is bothering you enough that you are asking us what to do and it is not rolling off your shoulders, then something should be said to this person.
But then you have to look at the person that said it and see if it worth your breath.
Very well said marcie, and Deb I agree with her.
I'm sorry someone hurt you.
I agree. You have a lot more to deal with then to let someones insensitive comment bother you. Plus you have sweet little muffin to take care of!  
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:18 PM |
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Bri
I Love You to Pieces!
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Re: Insensitive Comments
I am so sorry, Deb- F Them!
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:24 PM |
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MegZee
My bunny
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Re: Insensitive Comments
sometimes people just dont know what to say- but want to say something- and something stupid comes out.
I would just ignore it and focus on all the other wonderful prayers you have received
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:25 PM |
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J9-13
We're gonna be big sisters!
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Re: Insensitive Comments
I would say something....especially if I didn't really know them!
Ok...I didn't realize that it was someone on here so I would suggest sending an FM. I thought this was something someone said in person.
Message edited 7/18/2006 10:27:11 PM.
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:25 PM |
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IluvBo
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I'm so sorry someone said something insensitive. But what I've learned is "saying" something and "typing" are two different things. I'd give that person the benefit of the doubt and hope that they really didn't mean what they "typed".
Having said that, DEB you are going so much and honestly, F them! They aren't important anyway.
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:26 PM |
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steph4777
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Re: Insensitive Comments
No matter who they are I would say something to them.
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:28 PM |
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Bri
I Love You to Pieces!
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Brianne
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Re: Insensitive Comments
Ok, now that I have read the entire thread . . . If this is someone in your personal life then, I stand by what I said. If this is someone on-line, I might try FMing them. It is so hard to really get the emotion behind what is being typed. Maybe this person didn't mean to hurt you . . . .
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:29 PM |
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J9-13
We're gonna be big sisters!
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Sorry you had to deal with this. I saw a pic of your wonderful bundle of joy, that face can cheer up anyone no matter what the situation! 
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:29 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Insensitive Comments
I think you should beat them senseless & blame the tumor & your new drug addiction. 
eta. This post was previously sanctioned by DebG.
Message edited 7/18/2006 10:29:57 PM.
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Shanti
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Posted by THEINFAMOUSMRS.OTG
Ok, now that I have read the entire thread . . . If this is someone in your personal life then, I stand by what I said. If this is someone on-line, I might try FMing them. It is so hard to really get the emotion behind what is being typed. Maybe this person didn't mean to hurt you . . . .
I just re-read this and think the same thing. It is SO easy for things to get misinterpreted over a website or an e-mail or something impersonal like that. I would FM the person and let them know you were hurt, and then judge from their response.
Regardless of intention, I am sorry that you are hurt
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:32 PM |
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DebG
Pick a cause & stand up for it
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The cure IS worse!
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Posted by Meaghan729
sometimes people just dont know what to say- but want to say something- and something stupid comes out.
I would just ignore it and focus on all the other wonderful prayers you have received
This is exactly what I think happened. I just don't know if saing something is going to have this person say something even more stupid OR if it will make them feel realllly bad. It was not said to intentionally hurt me, it was just not htought out well.
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:33 PM |
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DebG
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The cure IS worse!
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Re: Insensitive Comments
Posted by nrthshgrl
I think you should beat them senseless & blame the tumor & your new drug addiction.
eta. This post was previously sanctioned by DebG.
yummmyyyyyyyyyyy Vicodin.
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| Posted 7/18/06 10:33 PM |
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Tumbalina
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Re: Insensitive Comments
Posted by DMcK
Posted by THEINFAMOUSMRS.OTG
Ok, now that I have read the entire thread . . . If this is someone in your personal life then, I stand by what I said. If this is someone on-line, I might try FMing them. It is so hard to really get the emotion behind what is being typed. Maybe this person didn't mean to hurt you . . . .
I just re-read this and think the same thing. It is SO easy for things to get misinterpreted over a website or an e-mail or something impersonal like that. I would FM the person and let them know you were hurt, and then judge from their response.
Regardless of intention, I am sorry that you are hurt
well said.
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