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Happy1
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Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
I don't want to be disappointed with a BFN.
I am thinking of waiting until Friday but not sure I can hold out that long 
Has anyone felt this way or am I just insane?
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Posted 8/28/07 3:07 PM  |
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Goldi0218
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
Yes it is normal. One cycle I tested prematurely and needless to say I was disappointed. After that, I didn't/don't test until/unless I was/am late or until FF told me to. I heldon to my sanity longer. I went so far as to have DH hide the HPTs. Except I found them when I wasn't looking.
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| Posted 8/28/07 3:22 PM |
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Happy1
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
Posted by Goldi0218
Yes it is normal. One cycle I tested prematurely and needless to say I was disappointed. After that, I didn't/don't test until/unless I was/am late or until FF told me to. I heldon to my sanity longer. I went so far as to have DH hide the HPTs. Except I found them when I wasn't looking.
Your right and I don't want to do that to myself so I am going to hold out for as long as possible.
Thanks for the advice and good luck! 
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| Posted 8/28/07 3:26 PM |
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BabyFever
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
After the last two months and kept getting bfn's every day when i tested i decided not to test early this month and to make sure i haven't bought any tests yet.
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| Posted 8/28/07 3:57 PM |
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Happy1
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
Posted by BabyFever
After the last two months and kept getting bfn's every day when i tested i decided not to test early this month and to make sure i haven't bought any tests yet.
Good choice, I'm not doing that to myself again.
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| Posted 8/28/07 4:04 PM |
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mskittynj
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
I think a lot of people feel that way...
Test today!!! I'm so anxious for you! I wouldn't be able to wait until tomorrow! lol I'm such an a** I took a test today because I can't contain myself to wait any longer, I knew deep down it was wayy too early but then again I always hear stories of people finding out 7 dpo so I gave it a shot just to be let down....
I'm starting to believ this is not my month again, but I sure hope it's yours!!!!! test today and then test tomorrow again...lolol Lots of luck for some reason I really think this was your month, you had all the "right" signs...
XOXOXO
Kitty
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Happy1
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
Posted by mskittynj
I think a lot of people feel that way...
Test today!!! I'm so anxious for you! I wouldn't be able to wait until tomorrow! lol I'm such an a** I took a test today because I can't contain myself to wait any longer, I knew deep down it was wayy too early but then again I always hear stories of people finding out 7 dpo so I gave it a shot just to be let down....
I'm starting to believ this is not my month again, but I sure hope it's yours!!!!! test today and then test tomorrow again...lolol Lots of luck for some reason I really think this was your month, you had all the "right" signs...
XOXOXO
Kitty
Your making me want to test today now!! LOL...Omg, I am making myself nuts over this. I have two tests left, I could test tonight and if I get a BFN I will wait a few more days for AF's arrival if she doesn't arrive I can always test again and hope for a positive! 
I really hope your right, I sure do hope this is my month.
Your too funny!! LOL...I was like that too, I would test just to test and hope for a + but than I would get a - and would be so upset with myself for testing and I just don't want to feel that, it's the worst feeling in the world.
We shall see...I will keep you posted.
Thanks for being there! 
When are you due for AF?
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| Posted 8/28/07 4:30 PM |
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Blondie805
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
i know how you feel. I tested sunday and monday even though i knew it was too early and got BFN. Now AF is due tomorrow and I was going to pick up a test or two while i was just out running errands but decided not to. I'm going to try and wait til thursday!!
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Kissy331
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
I know how you feel but my new motto is to not test until I am late, even if it is a day. So in your case, I think you need to test & see what happens. Remember we are all here for you no matter what 
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| Posted 8/28/07 5:30 PM |
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sfp0701
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
Test Test test... I need to know... LOL.. And I'm the most important person.. J/K.. Test when you want but it is not too early. At least you will know. Good Luck with whatever you decide!!
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| Posted 8/28/07 5:50 PM |
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alexlynn7
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
i totally became gun-shy about testing because i was so darn sick of seeing the BFN every time. it became so devastating that i eventually swore off testing altogether and would just wait for AF to show up.
the month we conceived i went against my own rule and tested the day before AF was due - and what do you know, i got a BFN. and i cried and cried and SWORE i would never test before AF was due again. i got my BFP the day after she was due.
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| Posted 8/28/07 9:17 PM |
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Twinzers
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
It's normal to feel scared. Just take a deep breath and hope for the best. Best of luck!
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sweetdreams
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Re: Is it normal that I am afraid to test?
Good Luck!
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