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AnnBrunoXO
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Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
What is the right thing to do:
We aren't going to have a big party for my daughter, just cousins, immediate family and maybe a few friends including one from nursery school.
I can't invite her whole class but there is one child that she is friendly with and we have been to a few of her birthday parties. - so we were thinking of inviting her....
Is it okay to invite one and not the whole class?
Its not like we/my daughter is going to broadcast her party to her class anyway - but do mother's get upset if they hear their child is not invited?
It would just get pretty expensive inviting everyone and I really don't know all of the other kids and their parents so i feel funny inviting people I don't know.
What is the right thing to do?
ETS - I was justing thinking it would be a nice gesture to bring in cupcakes/munchkins for the teacher/class to celebrate DD bday in class aside from her party.
Message edited 10/1/2009 3:39:36 PM.
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dawnygirl25
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
dont hand out the invite to the 1 little girl at school...mail it, call, email, whatever.
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AnnBrunoXO
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
Posted by dawnygirl25
dont hand out the invite to the 1 little girl at school...mail it, call, email, whatever.
Oh yes, of course!! I have her address - definitely going to mail it 
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dawnygirl25
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
Posted by AnnBrunoXO
Posted by dawnygirl25
dont hand out the invite to the 1 little girl at school...mail it, call, email, whatever.
Oh yes, of course!! I have her address - definitely going to mail it
I think thats absolutely fine then. I dont plan on inviting every kid fom DDs class...it would be too much
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Merf99
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
I think it's fine - esp at this age when they['re not really comparing yet! I would just mail the other mom the invite and then bring in something for the class.
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SweetCin
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
As a PK teacher, yes, that is fine--as long as you hand it to the mom outside of school (ie., don't put it in the child's backpack). I find moms don't mind, as long as 3/4 of the class is invited & a few aren't.
We have many cupcake or munchkin celebrations in school; some with goody bags.
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
Can you mention to the mom that you are only inviting her DD? I know if I get an invite I usually ask other people if they are going.
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| Posted 10/1/09 4:58 PM |
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sometimesmommy
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
Posted by architectnycity
Can you mention to the mom that you are only inviting her DD? I know if I get an invite I usually ask other people if they are going.
so true.
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
I think it's fine as long as you mail it.
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dawnygirl25
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Re: Is this cheesy? Re: Nursery school and birthday parties
Posted by sometimesmommy
Posted by architectnycity
Can you mention to the mom that you are only inviting her DD? I know if I get an invite I usually ask other people if they are going.
so true.
good point. I would mention that the other kids are not invited.
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