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It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

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ruby
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It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Hi Ladies,

I hope you all still have room for one more. I've been dying to graduate over to this side and I can't believe I'm finally here!!! I have SOOOOOO many questions so I hope you don't get too annoyed with me too quickly. Chat Icon

Before I give you the birth recap, I just want to say that I don't know how you mommies do it. This mom stuff is no joke (not that I thought it was) but it's soooo much harder than i ever thought it could be....it doesn't help that i'm having BFing issues and that Shane is super-gassy and fussy, but I'm hoping we'll both get through it soon so we can both smile more. Other than that, I'm so in love with him and just so greatful and blessed to have him in my arms. So, my kinda long story is below but there's pics at the end, hope you enjoy and I can't wait to get to know all of you and to get some advice cause I absolutely need it!!!!

So, it's been one month today (I can't believe he's one month old already ) but I'm finally back to posting and wanted to introduce my little angel, Shane William. Shane was born on Feb 16th at 9:55 pm. He was 8 lbs, 12 oz and 21 3/4 inches long. I went in for an induction on the 15th at 6 pm and was given Cervadil. By the next morning when they took it out I was only 3 cm dilated and he was still way up high (-3). They broke my water and gave me Pitocin which sped up my dilation but he was still was not dropping quick enough. My contractions were getting closer and closer together and more and more painful, and try as I soooo wanted to to go without an epidural, I just couldn't take the pain. The epidural helped greatly and I got to rest. But then Shane started having a bad reaction to my contractions and his heart rate was dropping greatly during each contraction so I had to be put on oxygen for the rest of the day.

At about 7 pm I was fully dilated, he had dropped and I was ready to push...unfortunately he just did not want to come out. I pushed for close to 3 hours and the dr said I was pushing totally great but he was just stuck. She said he/I made great progress in the first hour of pushing but then he just got stuck and wouldn't move out anymore. Now with him being stuck and his heart rate dropping again we decided that a c-section was the best thing so at 9:55 pm they yanked him out. He had a little trouble in the beginning and took a little while longer than normal to get his "color" that the dr was happy with, but he came through like a champ and all was well a short time later. For anyone delivering at NYP/Cornell, you will not be disappointed! The nursing staff there is wonderful and I felt so taken care of!!!

He took to BFing like a rockstar at first but lately we're having some issues. Actually, I am. I developed mastitis so i got antibiotics...I nursed through it and it went away but now it's back and I'm in pretty bad pain. But I'm still trying to nurse through it again. He's a VERY VERY gassy baby so the whole feeding/burping process takes forever...it's exhausting I won't lie....which is why it's taken so long for me to get on here....I just can't seem to find the time because once I have a minute I pass out myself. He's more awake and alert now so he's starting to amuse himself in his bouncer so I hope to be on more again. I miss posting and I feel like I missed so many births already and I need to catch up. Other than that, Shane is a blessing and he's adorable and DH and I are so in love. Thanks for reading if you've made it this far....and here's some pictures!!!!

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Posted 3/16/09 2:50 PM
 
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Congrats mommy and welcom eto this side!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Shane is just BEAUTIFUL!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 3:03 PM
 

Porrruss
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Pefect boy- he's BEAUTIFUL!!! Congratulations!!!!

Posted 3/16/09 3:05 PM
 

pickles16
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Congrats!!!!!!!!

Posted 3/16/09 3:06 PM
 

XcalystaX
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Super duper congrats! Welcome to parenting! Chat Icon
He is such a cutie!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 3/16/2009 3:08:56 PM.

Posted 3/16/09 3:08 PM
 

Celt
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

OMGOMGOMG Alissa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was worried about you, i even put an "APB" out for you on Pregnancy last week.
OK first off, Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon he i just too gorgeous, what a beautiful baby!!!
I'm sorry about the BF'ing, what a trooper you are to make it through the mastitis and start up again, hopefully it's all going to get easier in the next few weeks though!!!

And now that you can post a little bit, feel free to hop on with ???s everyone here helped me sooooo much in the beginning it was GREAT, maybe we have some tips to share with you!!!

Glad you're back online and xoxoxo from
<---My Shane to yours!!!

Posted 3/16/09 3:12 PM
 

randella
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

congrats Alissa! I was wondering when you were going to post.... hope you had a good experience at NYP and are adjusting well!

Shane is adorable!!!

Posted 3/16/09 3:13 PM
 

ruby
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Posted by colette

OMGOMGOMG Alissa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was worried about you, i even put an "APB" out for you on Pregnancy last week.
OK first off, Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon he i just too gorgeous, what a beautiful baby!!!
I'm sorry about the BF'ing, what a trooper you are to make it through the mastitis and start up again, hopefully it's all going to get easier in the next few weeks though!!!

And now that you can post a little bit, feel free to hop on with ???s everyone here helped me sooooo much in the beginning it was GREAT, maybe we have some tips to share with you!!!

Glad you're back online and xoxoxo from
<---My Shane to yours!!!



Aww, thanks Colette. I have to admit that I've been able to hop on and lurk only a handful of times and every time I start to post, he cries again. It's definitely been a challenge. He's nonstop hungry, then feeding him is...well, a trial of love, and then every time he falls asleep in my arms after feeding, the minute I put him down he wakes up. So he's like, passed out....I put him down, walk away and get on the computer, but every time I started to make this post, he starts screaming, then the second I pick him up he stops. He just likes to be held and rocked. I'm trying to work through it. He's been sleeping in his moses basket now for about 2 hours, it's been one of the first times so far so I wanted to get on here and post away!!

Our shanes have to meet!! Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 3:17 PM
 

chikita315
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Congratulations!!
He's gorgeous!

Posted 3/16/09 3:20 PM
 

Celt
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

I'm toying with the idea of NYC tomorrow for the big parade!!! FM me if you want a visitor, I can bring you a coffee (or TEQUILA or whatever!) !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh and when DS was itty bitty I had him sleep many nights in his carseat, the incline seemed to help with his digestion!!!

Posted 3/16/09 3:22 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Congratulations!!! He is gorgeous!! Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 3:24 PM
 

Janice
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwChat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 3:30 PM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

congrats & welcome!!

Posted 3/16/09 4:00 PM
 

nbc188
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Chat Icon He's adorable, congratulations!

Posted 3/16/09 4:03 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

He's beautiful!!! Congrats!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 4:05 PM
 

headoverheels
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

alissa he is soooo cute!! congrats momma and welcome to the other side!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 4:05 PM
 

Ladybug3
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Congrats and welcome!!! He is adorable!!!

Posted 3/16/09 4:19 PM
 

mooshyboo
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Congratulations! Adorable!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 4:45 PM
 

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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

congrats and welcome he is so cute Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 4:49 PM
 

Chica
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So cute!!! Congratulations and welcome to this side!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 5:28 PM
 

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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

He's precious! Welcome to Parenting!! Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 5:38 PM
 

hmm8191
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

Congratulations! You're good to be back so soon! This is my 1st post since my guy came in November!!

Posted 3/16/09 5:50 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

He's beautiful- Congrats!

Posted 3/16/09 5:53 PM
 

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Re: It's only taken me a month, but I'm a NEW MOMMY w/pics of my little Shane William!!

yay alissa i've missed you so much!!! congrats on baby shane he's adorable!!!Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/09 6:22 PM
 

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